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lonelyness: I have never had a girlfriend
Im 13 and my friends talk about their girlfriends quite often. they ask if iv'e got a girlfriend and I reply "iv'e never had one".
WHY IS THIS!
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Because you've never had a girlfriend. It doesn't really matter anyway, it's not like you're going to fall in love with them or shag them or something. You literally do not need to worry xD
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First things first, i think your a bit to young to be worry about that but who am i to judge! So the reason youve probably never had a girlfrined is because us girls are really shy when it comes to making the first move. Both guys and girls are really embarrased when taking the first step in a relationship. Try talking to a girl you like, the important thing is to develope a friendship first. Then again you may have not found the right girl. And trust me there is nothing to be embarrased about because I am 15 and still have not had a boyfriend. So just keep your eye out for the signes from girls, because I gaurentee there will be a girl just try to drop hints here and there. GOOD LUCK!
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iim 13 and i had the same prob well ppkl started to tease me alot and i got pressured but i asked a friend and she told me that the boys like you its just that thier shy so if you don't have a girlfriens just keep this in mind k
hope it helps because i got a boyfriend and he's awesome
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Hey huni
Im 13 as well.
My first boy friend I didnt really like and i just did it because all of my friends had a boy friend when i didnt
That relationship headed for the rocks.
I waited and Waited until i got the boy i really like today.
Dont rush into like i did,I know i am your age and may sound silly but how about you talk to the oppostie sex get to know the girls then decide:)
How about that?.
**Ash***^_^
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Don't worry about this my young friend. They are collecting girls like they were trophies or something. You are waiting for someone you are actually in love with. Good for you!
Take your time. Have fun being 13! Girls make things VERY complicated, so enjoy living the simple life for a while longer.
You may be worried about this now, but when you look back on this time, you will be glad you were able to do all the things you wouldn't have if you were tied down in a relationship so young.
I agree with the other person here, though I don't know that I would use the word princess... that is likely to get you laughed at. I would tell them the truth: I haven't found the right girl yet.
You will find one... and when you find the right one, you will be glad you didn't mess around with the wrong ones.
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Hi, I'm old enough to be your grand father and I hope the wisdom that comes with age will be useful to you.
Those that answered before me have given you some useful advise. My advice will be more along the lines of grandfatherly advice. I'll try to keep it light.
Your 13 which would put you in middle school in the eight grade I believe. You have just entered you teenage years and you worried about having a girlfriend?
How about slowing down a bit and waiting for puberty to set in a little longer and get your hormones under control before you have to deal with the hormones of a women. There is nothing written that says when you become a teenager that you have to be in a relationship with the opposite sex. You have a life time to deal with that.
Being in a relationship with the opposite sex can be and is fun. But you need to be mature enough to understand what a relationship is all about. Frankly at 13 neither you or a girl could possibly have reached that level of maturity.
Sure you can have friends that are girls. You can even hang out with girls. I would really like to stop short of calling outings with girls and boys together at your age,dating. If a bunch of you were to get together and meet at the mall to hang out together that is not what I call a date. Yet today I'm told it is considered to be a date. Why, I don't know other than for some reason young people your age are in a rush to feel older.
Life is revolves fast enough, there is no need to put it in overdrive. When the time is right, you will know it and you will ask a young lady for a real date and then to be your girlfriend, which is a long term relationship.
Until then slow down down, relax, take life as it comes to you. You have plenty of time to start dating.
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you could say cuz i haven't found my princess yet. baha. But like the other commenters say you are very young. you have a lifetime to find a girl., so i wouldn't rush into anything to fast or you might be looking back and wishing you hadn't rushed through everything. you will find someone who is your princess to fit a prince like you when your not even looking for it.
Hope this helps.
~Jasmine*
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You are SO young! I didn't have a boyfriend til I was seventeen! Please don't rush into anything, most relationships don't happen for the right reasons at your age because you think you should do it just to do it, so your friends won't make fun of you or so you will look cool, etc. Wait until you find a special girl that you like, and then make a move. That's how you get a girlfriend.
-Abby
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I'd say the obvious answer is that you haven't asked out a girl yet, but maybe I'm looking too deep into this one.
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