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Ask me questions No matter my age.Ive been told i give very good advice.
Im 13 (btw)
I love helping people and Love it when people answer my questions WITH COMMON SENSE and not being MEAN.

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Hi, i'm 13 years old and have wanted a piercing for about 2 years now.My guardians have said i have to wait until i'm 13.And i was wondering if anyone knew of any places near Muskegon MI that will do a tongue piercing? (link)
whoa
A tongue piercing,At your age?
i personally know someone who had to get the tip of their tongue cut off because of a nasty ring used or whatever
Think of someplace else maybe your belly button or snake bites or something :S


hey,im 13 and i got into this really big fight with my mom about letting me go to lak compose with my friend and her mom .but my mom is over protected and dosent trust me i guess ,i ended up asking why and and saying that she embaress me .and she got really sad cuase she always trys to be a cool mom but not really is and i kept on giving her mean and insulting comments .seeing her cry made me feel terrible .i guess i shoudve reacted differently and now i fell bad ,some of the things i regret saying to her.how can i make her feel better and make it sound like i didnt meant to say and tell her how sorry i am ..i really do love my mom. (link)
Well im sorry your mom had to hear those things.
Apologise to her.
Write her an iLoveYu letter,Help her around the house.Anything like that :)
Explain to her you were angry and they slipped out.
if you love your mother tell her that,i am sure she doesnt love you any less.


You told me to cry on my parents but I will never in my life do that. I am not close at all with them and it would be so awkward! (link)
If you are not close it doesnt matter i bet they love you and you love them.
If you find it awkward talk to your best friend.


Im a 14 year old guy and i really think im gay
i know im still young but im really sttracted to guys i thought i liked girls i do talk to girls but im not really attracted to them and when i look at guys i get turned on im starting to have feelings for a guy its normal to feel this way at my age isnt it?
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Oh.
Well some people are attracted to men more than girls.If you havea feeling you are gay you must be gay.
I dont think its a stage you go thru.There is really nothing wrong with being gay.
But hey why dont you spend some more times with girls and see how you react.


i really want a cell phone and im 13 but my parents keep sayng no because its too much money i told them i dont care if it was those phones where you dont have to pay alot but they still said no and everyone in school thinks its weird to not have a cell phone please help me or free cell phone stuff (link)
im 13 and i have a BLACKBERRY pearl.I got it from saving my money and giving it to my dad to keep it for me and now my reward is a black berry pearl.(which i didnt save enough money for).

My dad saw how hard i wanted it gave me some of the money and told to work hard and at the end of the school term if i have 60%(and over) overall percent then i can have a phone.

Why dont you save your money and mak a deal with your mom and dad like i did?


Im a 14 year old female. My life has many downs to it. I have many problems too. Then again, I have things to be greatful for. I have a few friends I love and many great church friends. I play high school softball, travel softball, and basketball. I absolutely love sports causr I am mainly a pitcher! Then...last week I was in a terrible car crash. I had to go into immediate surgery and had servere brain injurys that caused me not to remember anyone for a few days. I almost lost my legs completely but I didnt. But i AM paralyzed the rest of my life in a wheel chair!! I never thought anything like that could happen to me. I can
never do sports again or walk again! I just lay in this hospital bed as my friends and family telll me how sorry they are. The amazing part is that I havent cried since it happpened because I want to be strong. Theres noone I have to cry with but now I need a shoulder to burst on! (link)
I am so sorry,This is a terrible story.
I think you shouldnt try 2 srtong because it might hurt more.
Why dont you cry on your parents shoulders?.I know they can help


i need help!!one of my friends is violent wen shes mad and i dont realy know why but shes happy wen people are scared of her i dont know if i should stay friends cause i have a friend that is scared of her and my friend doesnt like her its hard who sould i chooes? (link)
I like it when people are scared of me.People call me cazy,Fun,Mad,Unmannerly.But i limit that.
(And yes i can be quite violent)
I think you should talk to the violent one about that.But make sure you calm her down cause i think shes gonna go crzy.
Dont choose between yur friend(s) when you can keep them both.


I am 13 female and i have had this friend ever seice 5th grade. we are now in 8th grade and he says that he loves me and that i have to kiss him on his b-day (he is 14) and that i have to date him and telling me what I can and can't do in my life. I used to like him until he started to get controlling and telling me i have to kiss him if i want to or not. I even locker by him at school. But I like another guy, but he dosne't really want to talk to me cuz the guy keeps telling everyone that i am his girl and am taken. And i was fluirting with a guy and he totally freaked out, he said i can the only guy i can talk to is him, but he goes and fluirts with all the girls in our grade and a few in the grade older then us. I really don't know what to do, he has been my friend for a long time and i don't want to hurt his felling, but i want to have a life, any suggestion would be wonderful and very very helpful. (link)
(Im 13 as well)

Tell the dude what you think and stop controlling your life in school...Politely

If that doesnt work (do like me)And be mean sometimes it helps.

.....


18/f

My school starts at 8am and I live about 10 minutes away from my school. I usually wake up at 7:30 or 7:40. Do the math.. I take about 10-15 minutes to get ready. My routine is wake up, brush hair, brush teeth, throw on some clothes, put on makeup quickly, and then leave. When i'm at home, I think I look alright. Not great but not bad. Usually I just throw on some jeans and a sweatshirt. Wear my hair down or up in a ponytail. Makeup is usually eyeshadow with mascara and some blush.

However... When I get to school, I notice that a lot of girls are dressed really cute. They look like they actually spent more than 20 minutes getting ready.. I hate to admit it, but i'm so jealous of these girls. I wish I could get up earlier and spend time getting ready. There were so many times when I tried getting up early, but i'm not a morning person at all. I just either turn off my alarm clock or just hit snooze a bunch of times.

Can anyone help me? Any advice you can give me? How can I wake up earlier and actually spend time (more than 20 minutes) getting ready??? I want to stop looking "ok" and actually look cute for the day :) Thank you! (link)
hey Darling
1)If you have a cell why dont you set and alarm or let you parents wake at a cetain time.You will get used to it.

2)Wear your hair in cute hair styles like in a bun ,or bangs.any thing you like other than your usual hairstyle.

3)Go shopping and atleast buy a cute shirt and skirt,and wear it and see how u like it.

4)If this doesnt work..BE YOURSELF.

5)Sometimes they dont spend all that time doing it Trust me.

6)Sometimes i spend 1\2 hour getting ready.and sometimes my styles and stuff dont last a whole day.(depends on how active you are).
**Ashi**Hoped i helped


im 13 and people at school pretend to be my friend but prefer to reject me. need social advice.
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Im 13 also
1)people are probably just jealous of you
2)You probably trust someone to fast.
3)People an be d*cks:D
--Always happens.

Idk what else to say

Social Adivce.
Be yourself,Tell jokes be funny.
Hangout with your "friends".
Dont tell them everything that happens to you.


Cramps, white discharge, breast development, pubic hair growth, my closest friend just got her period and my mom got her period around the age i am right now. Am i getting my period soon? (link)
What is your age?
And yea it could be


today i haven't sleep since 36 hr and i'm still a wake i Masturbation today 5 times in less then 8 hr and i still feel i wanna do it over and over !i fell some physical weak but it's oky it's not that big and i usually do Masturbation about 4-5 times a weak. some time i don't and sometime i do what i do in a weak in one day! i'm male ,24 years old, never had sex .
Does this going to harm me in the future ?
How can i stop it and control it ?
how can i stop Masturbation when i fell it ? (link)
I think you want to have sex is there a girl you like?


I have been receiving mixed signals from a boy I like. I am an 18 year old male.
We have been friends for a few months and he knows how I feel strongly about him.
He claims he is straight which does not make sense.
I flirt with him and touch his thigh, or tell him he is hot, and just general yet obvious things and he responds by giggling or smiling.
He has spent the night a few times and we have been naked under a blanket and he has fallen asleep next to me in my bed, when he knows i like him.
I have a hard time justifying his claims to heterosexuality.
Though sometimes he agrees to ideas of drinking games like strip poker and sometimes he says he isnt into it.
Hes hasnt avoided me and when I play hard to get he still makes attempts to talk and hang out.
Whats going on? I dont know what to think.
These questions below keep racing through my mind.
Is he mutually interested?
Is he gay or bi or straight?
What does all of this mean?

Some more details are below if you would like additional support for opinion making.

He giggles when I call him hot.
He presses up against me when we share a piano bench.
He knows I like him yet still hangs around.
He has only ever once mentioned a female in the two months we hung out. (link)
I think hes Bisexual.
I think so because theres no way a striaght boy is gonna lay with you naked,and not gonna be bothered.
Either Gay\Bisexual.
I think he is just shy to say he isnt straight,I think he is thinking about what people are going to say.
But he is definatly interested with you:D

I dont know all of that means but it seems hes kinda interested in you hun.

Sit him down and let him know what you feel and wat you are thinking about him and how he behaves.

Look for his reaction and then you might know if he does or not,Maybe he wil respond.

Hope this helped ;D


Im 13 and my friends talk about their girlfriends quite often. they ask if iv'e got a girlfriend and I reply "iv'e never had one".
WHY IS THIS!
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Hey huni

Im 13 as well.

My first boy friend I didnt really like and i just did it because all of my friends had a boy friend when i didnt
That relationship headed for the rocks.

I waited and Waited until i got the boy i really like today.

Dont rush into like i did,I know i am your age and may sound silly but how about you talk to the oppostie sex get to know the girls then decide:)

How about that?.

**Ash***^_^


Okay so last semester I was hooking up with this one guy. It kind of fizzled off right before winter break. I want to start this up again, but I have no idea how. I don't want to be obvious about it, but I feel like asking him to come out to a party over the weekend is. Help please! (link)
Ok sillyrob is just being a _______
Tell him how you feel see how he reacts to it:) then his reaction should tell you if you should or not


What do i get my boyfriend for a 9 month aniversory? (link)
First things First

HAHAHA i thought you referring to having a baby
What you need to do is rewrite this all over again explaining your self better.:)


my boyfriend is coming over this weekend for the firstime and my mom embarreses me whenever a new guy comes over what should I do? plus he has a mental illness and he talks to him self what if she is mean to him when he comes over? (link)
Explain to your mom he has a mental illness.
Tell her not to behave as she usually does,that itmakes you uncomfortable.
If she embarrasses you tell her in private of something.
Let your boy friend be normal as he usually does


im 12,well i hump me bed , i know it sounds weird but im skared if im pregantnt i mean when i was little i used to do it and i didnt get pregnant and im also skared cause i got on top of my brother when we were fighting and i dont wanna get pregnant but i didnt hump him or touch his pinis (p.s i know im not pregnant but i just wanna make shure im skared) when i was humping my bed i had clothes on? (link)
O_O
No you cant hun.Unless your bed magically has a penis and has sperm ,Then no you cant get pregnant.
Why are you even thinking about getting pregnant?That should not b on your mind


How do you get a bigger butt? (link)
A bigger butt?Lol weird question
I haeva huge High butt and loving it.
To get bigger butt,You have surgery.Big butts are only really for black people.
OR
Wear a padded butt O_O


is there a way to get rid of starch marks? (link)
CoCoa Butter,Started working for me.I used it with whitfields cream(My mom recommended it)I mixed them together my stretch marks are fading now and im getting very happy with my body :)




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