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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.


I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

advice

My best friend got DUMPED by her boyfriend, for NO absolute reason, except for another girl of course. And her boyfriend cheated on her several times with another girl, and she knew it. I guess because it was her first boyfriend, it's hard to let go, so she let him. She didn't even confront him about it! I wanted to, but she didn't let me.

I knew from the start he was disloyal. Now this guy is asking her out again and I know why. It's because he wants to make another girl jealous. I tell her, and she says that I was making things up just because I wanted to go out with HIM.

Okay. I thought that was ridiculous. I HATE guys that play around with girls like their toys, and this guy is one of them. I don't know where she got that idea, but now we're not talking.

What am I supposed to do????

If your friend isn't gonna listen, let her figure out for herself. It'll hit her eventually that he doesn't really love her & that he just used her to make someone else jealous. Honestly, it'll hurt her in the end, but that's her own fault for not listening to you. She'll thank you later. Just give her time. And if it takes not talking to her, then so be it. She'll come back telling you that you were right eventually.

♥T!NA

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you konw that song ghetto super star, that is what you are. well who sings that?? i know most of you will be like GOOGLE THE LYRICS. and trust me, i have but nothing has came up.

Old Dirty Bastard ft. Mya - Ghetto Superstar. Good but very old song. =)

♥T!NA

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its a good thing if you been heartbroken and you find another guy that know u can be happy with after 2 years and run awya cause u dont want to get heart broken again

No, because then you're hurting the person who'll make you happy, and you're still gonna be heartbroken. Go to the person you know will treat you good & live happily.

♥T!NA

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I am 15 years old and my ex boyfriend is 16. I just had a baby he was born January 2nd. Before the baby was born my ex and i decided the baby would not go to his dads house (not is biological dad) because his father does crack in the house. he called me a whore and a bitch and other names. he said awful things about the baby before he was born and after.
He also says rude things about my family. Who has never said anything wrong about their family. Anyways the father of my son wants to take the baby away for a weekend but he does not hear him at night when he cries. he never feeds him correctly (gets him to finish the bottle) my question is i dont know what to do

I wouldn't give the baby to the dad for the weekend. If he can't even feed him correctly, what makes you think he would be able to take care of the baby properly? He wouldn't. If he says awful things about his son, he obviously doesn't care for it. Don't let the baby go with the father, and ignore his rude comments to your family/child. I would get a restraining order on him though. He does drugs, he shouldn't be anywhere near kids.

♥T!NA

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I'm 15 yr old male. I had a best friend for about a year now. We got into an argument yesterday and he wont talk to me anymore. I tried talking to him, saying sorry, everything. Its only been 1 day though. He got mad because He thought one of my other friends knew more about me than what he does. And no because he knows the most about me. Today at lunch he wouldnt talk to me.. I'd do anything to get my best friend back
please help me ={

Well if he just won't listen, then I'd forget about it. You can't make him listen to you, but I would keep talking to him. Prove to him that the other kid doesn't know as much about you as he does. He shouldn't even be mad about that anyways. What a dumb reason to get mad.

♥T!NA

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21/f

I'm just very curious about this, I'm trying to sort things out to see if I suffer of an "obsession". I've had a crush on a guy for more than 1 year (never got out actually and it's kind of out of the question), and I also didn't have any sexual intercourse for 7 months or so (neahh, if it's not Mr.Right, then it won't be anyone else, LOL).

So, back to my question. I'd like to know what was the longest period you had in which you've been "obsessed" by someone - couldn't stop thinking of her/him. I'd of course appreciate if you'd also give a little "age range", just in order for my "survey" to be more accurate.

Err... I know, I know, "Curiosity kills the cat", but... I'm so damn curious!! :P

Well, I met my current boyfriend when I was 12, and he was a senior in high school. Over the past four years, I've gotten to know him amazingly, and I've liked him this whole time. =) Four years.

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I look around the site at comments about how high school relationships suck/are based off the wrong things/etc. And I am getting REALLY freaked out, because there's a guy I like (i'm 14 and a freshman by the way) and I want to get with him but i don't want our relationship to end up like all others..I genuinely like him as a person and as a boyfriend so I'm not just lusting after him. I guess my question is, how can i make a high school relationship last past that?

Not all high school relationships suck. Some people actually stay with their high school sweethearts for the rest of their lives, or a good period of time. Just be honest to him, loyal, faithful & things should be good. =) If you wanna pursue him, just talk to him if you don't already, and if you think he likes you back, ask him out.

♥T!NA

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i really want to cut my own sidebangs, but how can i do it without them looking bad or messing my hair up? i don't want to go to a salon either. thanks!

You'll more than likely fuck them up, so take them to a professional. =)

♥T!NA

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hi, im fifteen and a girl. i like this boy, a lot. and he has a girlfriend, i hate her. anyways, it always seems like he is flirting with me because he will be like "you're beautiful" and we always laydown together and watch tv, and like stuff like that, and whenever we say hi or bye, or just want to, he hugs me, and like its not like a friendly hug because ive gotten plenty of those, its different. im so confused, because before he went out with this girl, he used to kiss me and stuff, and like, idk, i really like him, and he knows it, help me.

You should just be friends with him for right now. If him & his girlfriend break up, go out with him. But for now, don't do anything that could potentionally hurt his relationship or piss his girlfriend off. I'm sure if you were her, and another girl was flirting with him, you'd be pretty pissed too.

♥T!NA

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i love getting high.Because i have alot of stress and depression but i dont tell people about it.So i get high to help me out.If i dont have pot i'll freak out an i'll act like im bipolor.What should i do?Should i just get help?Or should i get high anyways because pot doesnt really hurt me but just controll myself?????

Talk to somebody about your stress and depression. A counselor or a close friend perhaps? You think the pot isn't hurting you when in reality it is. It kills your brain cells, and you get short term memory loss. Or long term depending how often you smoke, and how much you smoke. Definitely get some help.

♥T!NA

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whats some good hxc or emo music? anything from like on the last day to um... hit the lights is good. thanks! ^_^

The Used.
My Chemical Romance.
Senses Fail.
Saosin.
Underoath.
Anti-Flag.
Paramore.
The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus.
Papa Roach.
Three Days Grace.
30 Seconds To Mars.
Sugarcult.
Say Anything.
Angels & Airwaves.
Armor For Sleep.
Brand New.
Breaking Benjamin.
Four Letter Lie.
From First To Last.
Boys Like Girls.
Greeley Estates.
Taking Back Sunday.
Gatsby's American Dream.
A Heartwell Ending.

♥T!NA

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this kid, who i used to be best friends with, but then this thing happened & so i figured he hated me [because he blocked me for one] so i didnt talk to him anymore. [but i kinda turned him down, to like him.. is that maybe why...] anyways, i switched schools & now go to his school. & people told me he was excited i was coming. & i was like .. oh great, he'll probably pick on me.. so then anyways, when i get there, about 7 or 8 people asked me if i knew him, if they remember that i dated him, if i was still his girlfriend, & what i thought about him.

when i saw him, all of his friends were like "no way!" & staring at me. & stuff. i didnt really get what that meant..

what was happening therE?

He could've said something either negative or positive about you. If he was excited about you coming, he obviously still has an interest in your friendship. The "no way!" could've been good. He coulda said you were pretty, or they might not have believed him when he said he dated you. Talk to him about it. If you're still blocked, make a new screenname & add him again.

♥T!NA

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hi, well im 14 and a guy, and i find it hard to talk to this one girl , who's just a friend. whenever i see her i jus nod and smile, and when we're together, its really awkward, like this morning, the conversation went like this
me:hi
her:hi
me:waiting by yourself?
her:yeah
me:ill wait with you
her:thanks, im having a bad hair day..
me:looks nice
her:no it doesnt...
me:yer it does
(we both wait quietly)
her:im bord
me:(smiles and nods)

it sounds like we like each other but we dont, and we're just kind of quiet. any advice? thanks

Find out what she likes, and then talk to her about it. You probably have something in common. =)

♥T!NA

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Wel in america you lot have size zeros
In uk,england, we dont

So what is a size zero in england - a six or a 13-14 yrs?

A 0 in America is a 4 in England.

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Well..my parents grounded me for a year, for sneaking out of my house at night and then telling my mum to pick me up from a friends house the next day.
i got grounded for a year apparently..and its been almost 2 weeks and im dying to get out of the house.
does anyone have any tips to get me ungrounded..?
please help me
thanks
ana

Be a biggest kiss ass ever.

♥T!NA

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OMG! I haven't seen my period in like 3 months..and it's freaking me out. It happened before but that was when I first got it and I went to the GYN and he ssaid it's just cause it's around the first time and also cause I'm too fat!

This time I got fatter but i doubt that's it cause I know REaLLLY fat people and they get it..an that's twice my size. I think it's stress cause this christmas I had alot of problems! How do I get out of the stress...or get it back! nd please don't mention go to the GYN...anyother ways?????

Stress can affect your period. It might be due to stress, but no one really knows. Also, if you don't eat for a long period of time, your period doesn't come. It could be anything. If you're not sexually active, then it's not pregnancy. And if you're not on bc, then it's not that. If you're still young, your period still could be irregular. I wouldn't worry too much. But 3 months is a long time. You said for people not to tell you to see the gynocologist, but they're the only person who can tell you for sure. They know that they're doing. Nobody here can tell you.

♥T!NA

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yaa this is gonna seem like the weirdest question on earth..but here goes.

i recently got engaged, and umm well..i dont know which hand my engagement ring shud go on. my fiance sez left hand, and so do his friends. my friends and my parents say right hand. and we tried googling it online, and we couldnt find a straight clear answer. its not really that important...but im curious to know which hand?

They go on the left hand. =)

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is it true that if you make a wish at 11:11 it'll "come true" or something? just wondering because i don't know what it means

Nope. It's like blowing out candles on a cake & making a wish. I gave up in making wishes cause they never came true.

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Was Kurt a happy guy,or was he sad?This is something that's always bothered me,because I've heard that he was generally a fairly happy (or at least average)person,but I've also heard that he was upset with his life and felt very isolated (which would make sense because of his lyrics,his upbringing,and the crowd that he was trying to reach).I know that no one could really know for sure,but what do you think?

If a person was happy, they wouldn't commit suicide.

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okay so me and my previous boyfriend had an argument because he didnt call me last friday and i thought he ditched me, he didnt call me to the next day. Things got out of control fast so he was like lets forget about it on the phone saturday night. I was so happy. Then the next day we were suppose to hang out and he said things were just too weird. Well i figure okay i understand. So later i talk to him again and i ask so what are we? He responded what do you want us to be. I said i think it was a situation that got out of control but if we love each other enough we can fix it, we've been in worse situations. He says well i think we should break up until we fix things. Yeah of course i was sad, i felt dead inside. Then i was like my friend is already hookin me up with someone but i dont want any of her guys. He said i see how it is you should want ME! Now this of course makes me think there is hope for us. So we hang out monday night he stops everything to come and get me, we chill as just friends. Then yesturday he tells me in these exact words, your not going to be happy but i have something to tell you. He then said i am going back out with my ex. WOW. Way to send mixed signals. I did the best i could i told him as long as he was happy thats all that mattered to me. THen he brought up this time when i was with him when he got a piercing and then i said hey you were there was i lost my virginity. YEAH then he said he had to go and signed off. I duno i still am in love with him and that girl cheated on him before and he is taking her back crazy. I feel like he messed with my head. I honestly thought i was okay last night, but i woke up so stressed and began to cry. Do you think there will ever be a chance for us? Do you think he is just trying to see if that will get me upset? Do you think i should move on? If he does come back should i give him another chance? You think he just wanted to get in my pants? He was my first love and i gave myself to him i am 16 and he is 18.

please help,
thanks

I honestly don't think he's worth your time. I realize you gave yourself to him and that you love him, but what's he worth? He sends mixed signals, makes you think you have a chance, gives you hope, and then in an instant he snatches it all away to tell you he's dating his ex. I don't think there's a chance for you guys again. He might be trying to get you upset to see if you really care, but then again, he might just be doing it because he likes her. If he comes back, don't give him another chance. Find someone worth your time. It's possible he tried to get in your pants. It depends on how long you guys were together. Honestly, forget about him, move on & find someone who'll be good to you. =)

♥T!NA

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