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heartbroken
okay so me and my previous boyfriend had an argument because he didnt call me last friday and i thought he ditched me, he didnt call me to the next day. Things got out of control fast so he was like lets forget about it on the phone saturday night. I was so happy. Then the next day we were suppose to hang out and he said things were just too weird. Well i figure okay i understand. So later i talk to him again and i ask so what are we? He responded what do you want us to be. I said i think it was a situation that got out of control but if we love each other enough we can fix it, we've been in worse situations. He says well i think we should break up until we fix things. Yeah of course i was sad, i felt dead inside. Then i was like my friend is already hookin me up with someone but i dont want any of her guys. He said i see how it is you should want ME! Now this of course makes me think there is hope for us. So we hang out monday night he stops everything to come and get me, we chill as just friends. Then yesturday he tells me in these exact words, your not going to be happy but i have something to tell you. He then said i am going back out with my ex. WOW. Way to send mixed signals. I did the best i could i told him as long as he was happy thats all that mattered to me. THen he brought up this time when i was with him when he got a piercing and then i said hey you were there was i lost my virginity. YEAH then he said he had to go and signed off. I duno i still am in love with him and that girl cheated on him before and he is taking her back crazy. I feel like he messed with my head. I honestly thought i was okay last night, but i woke up so stressed and began to cry. Do you think there will ever be a chance for us? Do you think he is just trying to see if that will get me upset? Do you think i should move on? If he does come back should i give him another chance? You think he just wanted to get in my pants? He was my first love and i gave myself to him i am 16 and he is 18.
please help,
thanks
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I honestly don't think he's worth your time. I realize you gave yourself to him and that you love him, but what's he worth? He sends mixed signals, makes you think you have a chance, gives you hope, and then in an instant he snatches it all away to tell you he's dating his ex. I don't think there's a chance for you guys again. He might be trying to get you upset to see if you really care, but then again, he might just be doing it because he likes her. If he comes back, don't give him another chance. Find someone worth your time. It's possible he tried to get in your pants. It depends on how long you guys were together. Honestly, forget about him, move on & find someone who'll be good to you. =)
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