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this kid, who i used to be best friends with, but then this thing happened & so i figured he hated me [because he blocked me for one] so i didnt talk to him anymore. [but i kinda turned him down, to like him.. is that maybe why...] anyways, i switched schools & now go to his school. & people told me he was excited i was coming. & i was like .. oh great, he'll probably pick on me.. so then anyways, when i get there, about 7 or 8 people asked me if i knew him, if they remember that i dated him, if i was still his girlfriend, & what i thought about him.
when i saw him, all of his friends were like "no way!" & staring at me. & stuff. i didnt really get what that meant..
what was happening therE?
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He could've said something either negative or positive about you. If he was excited about you coming, he obviously still has an interest in your friendship. The "no way!" could've been good. He coulda said you were pretty, or they might not have believed him when he said he dated you. Talk to him about it. If you're still blocked, make a new screenname & add him again.
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Seems as though he told his friends at school that you dated him and were his girlfriend. Otherwise, why the questions asking if you remembered dating him and if you were still his girlfriend? Kind of odd, considering you turned him down.
Guess his lie caught up to him when you came to his school, didn't it?
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Wait for this guy to make a move (positive or negative) so you can see if he likes you (just friends or more?) or not (enemies?)
DO NOT go after him. Don't be the one to talk to him first. This guy might ignore you. He might enjoy having you chase after him. Make HIM come to YOU. So if people asked those questions, just say, "Before we were together. I don't know now."
If he was actually excited for you to come like you heard, it's probably a good thing and he'll most likely approach you if he has the guts.
If he doesn't make a move, show him you want to fix things. Smile sweetly, a polite kind of smile that you would give to a teacher. If you give a bright smile, it'll send the message that you're flirting and maybe he won't want that. Show him you want to at least be friends.
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well turning him down is probly why he stoped talking to you. i think he was excited to have you coming to his school... he may still like you, and by the reaction of his friends it sounds like they might think your hot and cant beleive he went out with you...
you should be friends with him again and see what happens, you never know.
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Maybe he was talking about you to his friends. It was most likly something good wif he was excited that you were coming to his school. Im not sure though. You should defintly talk to him about the blocking thing & if hes made at you for turning him down. Do you want to be his friend though? If so then defintly ask him if you to can talk. That you would really like to become closer friends. Then also during the convo. ask him about that day when his friends pointed and said "no way". Just Talk !! ok l0l. Hope i helped :]
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