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A Baby
I am 15 years old and my ex boyfriend is 16. I just had a baby he was born January 2nd. Before the baby was born my ex and i decided the baby would not go to his dads house (not is biological dad) because his father does crack in the house. he called me a whore and a bitch and other names. he said awful things about the baby before he was born and after.
He also says rude things about my family. Who has never said anything wrong about their family. Anyways the father of my son wants to take the baby away for a weekend but he does not hear him at night when he cries. he never feeds him correctly (gets him to finish the bottle) my question is i dont know what to do
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Hi,
I will try to help you the best I can however, the wording of your question had me and I would assume the other person below this question a bit confused. I'm not sure if it is your baby's father who is the problem and on drugs or if your baby's father wants to take your son to his house for the weekend where your ex-boyfriend's father is the one on drugs or is it your ex?
At any rate you have legitimate reasons not to allow your child to be alone with his father let alone anyone in an enviornment where crack is being smoked and the child can not be adequately cared for.
What must you do? Talk to your parents and explain what is going on and then let them handle the situation with him and work out visitation rights with a lawyer so your child is not subjected to that enviornment. Mention that your ex-boyfriend has no idea how to change, clothe or feed a child.
They ( your parents, lawyer) can easily find a way to keep your boyfriend at bay this weekend and from going anywhere near your son or with your son in the future unsupervised.
As long as you are truthful and mention the fact he is being subjected to an enviornment where people are smoking crack cocaine there's nobody in law enforcement who wouldn't believe your story.
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I wouldn't give the baby to the dad for the weekend. If he can't even feed him correctly, what makes you think he would be able to take care of the baby properly? He wouldn't. If he says awful things about his son, he obviously doesn't care for it. Don't let the baby go with the father, and ignore his rude comments to your family/child. I would get a restraining order on him though. He does drugs, he shouldn't be anywhere near kids.
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Hey,
I wouldn't give your precious baby to a crackhead.
I wouldn't trust him. If he doesn't hear the baby when it cries, how is he going to know if it's hungry, if it wet itself, or if it's seriously injured?
Another reason why you shouldn't do it is because you said he doesn't know how to properly feed the baby. You don't want your baby to starve, right?
If he calls you, don't pick up. If he IM's you or does anything else to try and get in touch with you, don't respond. He'll get the idea.
Don't listen to him. If he keeps calling you names, report him to the police. That's verbal assault!
Hope I helped, Best of luck to 'ya!
-Jam
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Never leave your baby to him, especially unattended. Since he might be new to the whole father thing, try teaching him how to take proper care of the baby.
And he really should take baby/child care classes. This is seriously important and I think he should join one. He needs to be prepared to help you take care of your son, so get him prepared.
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ok. first of all you dont have to let your babay go with that guy because he is not responsable! just tell him why your not going to let the baby die this weekend im sure hell understand if not call the police!
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