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What is the song called in Laguna Beach called..here are some of the words that I know
"Street Light people just another.." thats all i know

ill rate 5's for any good answers (link)
Don't Stop Believin' by Journey
i love that song


Hey I was wondering...
I have an xanga & how do I get a song to play on it? Like not a music video..just when you go to y xanga I want a song playing. How Do I do that?
Thanks! (link)
you need a link
to get a link simply search for music codes
get the link and paste it into your look and feel music section
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Okay.. Some friends and I decided we wanted Tattoos. So we used a needle and Permanent Marker to do them. We scratched/poked the skin a few layers deep.. just enuff to make it almost bleed. Then put layers of marker over the design we carved into ourselves.


Will these Tattoos stay on .. and for how long will they be there? (link)
not at all the marker will wash off in a couple days but most likely you are going to have a scar you should have never done that in the first place


ok..well i have brown hair..i got a slight tan..i have freckles and brown eyes...

I'm having trouble with makeup...like what colors should i use.?? (link)
for eyeshadow color try brown and also lavender black eyeliner or/and black mascera tanish color lipgloss
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ok I guess i'm popular thats what people tell me but I don't think I am ,I mean I don't want to be popular there are rumors about you constantly,people don't like u cause they think that u think your all that ,but i'm not like that. how do I become unpopular please help will rate high (link)
it really bothers me how just because your "popular" or your in another group people just tend to judge you alot without getting to know you they just "label"
if your really smart
people tend to think that your a geek or a nerd
people spread rumors about every one its just jealousy and shows they have nothing better to do with their lives
ignore the rumors and keep your head up high
think of it in this way
your one of the many people that other people get jealous of act like you dont care because you really shouldnt
you should worry about you character not your reputation because your character is who you truely are and your reputation is what people think you are without getting to know you first
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The guy I have this huge crush on (i've liked him since February of this year) is a year younger than me. He's in 7th grade and i'm in 8th, but he has a late birthday so he COULD be in my grade but he missed the cut off (his bday is in November of 1992 and mine is in july of 1992 so i'm only a couple months older than him.) However, other people think i'm weird, cause they don't know when his bday is, and they think im weird cause i like a younger guy. Well the truth is i really like him. and i dont care what other people think. but what should i do 2 not make them think im a dork/loser for likeing someone younger than me?? Thanx i rate 5 every time :-) (link)
people think what people want to think these days
they dont bother listening to your side of the story and just go with their opinion
there is nothing wrong with dating a guy who is younger then you
your not a loser for likeing a younger guy
you cant help who you fall for
one girl may like a guy who is so ugly to another girl but to you hes perfect
ignore what people say about you it shouldnt mean anything to you
your the one who knows who you truely are and how you truely feel about the guy not other people
if you need anything else drop one in my inbox ♥


well i've had this cold for a week it's geting worse. i want to feel better by next week, any help
i will rate high
striperella (link)
my best advice is for you to go see a doctor since your cold is getting worser
if you just sit around and dont do anything it could get even worser
if you go see a doctor now you might feel better before next week
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how much does dry cleaning cost (link)
it all depends how much the place charges
some things cost more then others to dry clean
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hey everyone! i have dark dark brown hair and i want to give myself highlights that are 2 shades lighter. i know who the bleach works and all & i currently have one streak on the side. my question is, what order do you put the highlights in? just stripes or what? a website with a diagram would be nice! thanks, ill rate 5s! (link)
well if you buy it at a store instructions will come with it
i recommend you get it done at a salon it will look better
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i run everyday around a loop for 45 minutes go walkin wit my friend go swinging for an hour and then go swimming and then work out..and im 14 and im still 109 pounds and im 5'3and a half.. am i fat.. how do i lose weight..i don't get why people call me anorexic..tho..is it bad if u don't eat 3 meals a day? and your active.. (link)
hey hun if your 14 and 5'3 and weigh 109 pounds your are not fat at all
you should be eating at least 3 meals a day its the healthy way to go
if you are active you have nothing to worry about
exercise is healthy if you want to stay fit and it seems to me like you are doing alot of it
so dont worry you are not fat
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Does anybody know some really good songs that they like? Im trying to make a list of really good songs But i cant really think of any. If you have any songs, doesnt matter what type or anything like that! Thank you! (link)
Alexz Johnson - Time To Be Your 21
Eminem - I Love You More
3 Days Grace - I Hate Everything About You
Kaci Brown - I'm Not Anybodys Girl ; Just An Old Boyfriend ; I will Learn To Love Again ; Butterflies Don't Lie
Cascada - Everytime We Touch
Kasey Chambers - Stronger
Kim Lukas - To Be You
Kira - I'll Be Your Angel
Lucas Prata - You'll Never Be Alone
QED - Hardly A Day
The Ataris - The Boys Of The Summer ; In This Diary ; The Saddest Song
Stellar Project - Get Up Stand Up
Shakira - La Tortura
Ryan Cabrera - Shine On
Sugarcult - Pretty Girl ; Memory ; She's The Blade ; How Does It Feel
Danii Minogue - I Begin To Wonder
Candee Jay - Every Party
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Hey. I just want to be really realistic here with my question. Think of something you might do in real life. There's this kid I know from my church, he used to come but he left for a while. We were kids then. Now he's back and he's a year older, I'm going into 9th grade. I'm very interested in him and I wouldn't know if he has any in me because we literally never talk. How do I start something up with him? And realisticly, I'm not going to be all bouncy and annoying. He seems a bit shy too, and I want something clever, and not like "Hi, what's your name" type of thing. Thanks! (link)
well if it was me i would start off with a "hey" i know you may not want to do something like that but you cant just come up to some one and start just saying random things right? introduce yourself flirt with him a little bit ask him if he wants to go out for ice cream or something so you guys could get to know eachother
find out what hes into, if he has a girlfriend, what his hobbies are, compliment him, find some things you guys have in common, etc.
hope this helps if you need anything else drop one in my inbox ♥


i really REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLLLLLLLLLLY like this boy whos my age but a year younger grade wise. but one of my best friends (a year younger than me so going into his grade) who goes to my school is going out with him! we both met him at the same exact time and stuff. but he doesnt go to our school. any way she know that i like him! like i told her i did and then she was like ME TOO. and that was before they got together. i like him so much but so does she. its soo hard. but im happy for her. i dont want to get over him but i dont want to be soo obsessive. i kno this is SUCH a common question and stuff but like you know. have u ever been in this situation? what did you do? (link)
yea i was in the same situation
what i did was try to get over him but that didnt work
i admit i was jealous but what can you do?
i just stayed friends with the guy thats better then nothing right?
good luck if you need anything else drop one in my inbox ♥


ok well lately i have been trying to loose weight and i try to eat less. i exersice more than i used to. and ever since i have been eating less i have gotten less hungry at all meals and hours of the day. i dont know if thats a sign of anorexia but its sorta scaring me. my mom trys to help but i tell her i'm fine and i dont need anything. i am also getting sick more often..? my mom knows i'm going on a diet but every time she mentions it i tell her i'm not. everyones worried about me but i'm fine and i wanna loose the weight. what do i do?

♥much
WaY toO SelF cOnciOuS (link)
if you keep getting sick i think you should just get off the diet and eat normally
not eating properly could lead to serious problems that could harm your body
if you want to lose weight just exercise daily and eat healthy
cut back on the junk food and drink more water not soda
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ok i dont wanan sound like a nerd but i want to find a cool multiplayer game thats free not like pool or chees or those fag games like an action game thats free and stuff. any recomendations? (link)
i could give you a site
www.shockwave.com

also you could try
www.download.com
to download some games

enjoy! if you need anything else drop one in my inbox ♥


alrighty so theres this kid at my church who i have started to like...A LOT..so he knows and hes a sweetheart online...like one day i didnt feel good and i had an away saying dont feel good leave one to make me feel better...well so he went like hey okay ill leave you one to make u feel better..heres a futural kiss and he said it didmt mwaan anything and he did the kiss thing..it was wicked sweeet...i was soo happy....but today i saw him at church and he just kept looking at him but i think he was talking about me cause he talked and laughed and htan like looked at ... i dont know someone help me outt...

ill rate high!! (link)
well to be honest i really dont know if he likes you
maybe you were just being paranoid when you thought he was talking about you
maybe he was or maybe he wasnt
guys are confusing these days about their feelings
just keep talking to him
i hope everything works out if you need anything else drop one in my inbox ♥


Ok, heres the story, Hi, I'm Rachel. My first ever true love (Tony) that ONCE in my life LIKED ME, went out with a girl, then they broke up, well they are now back together and are having some serious relationship problems. BUT, this other guy, Named Austin, he is like, IN LOVE WITH ME, and he's the sweetest thing, I kinda like him. Tony is soo funny and SO my type, we always laugh and have a blast, I still love him, AUSTIN, is the sweethaert who calles me beautiful, and not just hot, like Tony has. I honestly don't know what to do, I REALLY WANT TO GO OUT WITH TONY at least ONCE in my life.....And just get it over with! And I can't be with Austin yet, we are waiting til we go to the same school to go out, so, I don't know what to do, who to like, who to stop loving. ANy Advice for me please?

Thanks for your time reading, Love, Rachel (link)
no one can really give you the answer to this
your heart decides who you like more and want to go out with i know it may seem hard to make a decision
it seems you only want to go out with tony to just see what it feels like and to just know that you once went out with him
i personally think you should go for austin
you did mention that tony is having relationship problems so he is still with his girlfriend right?
go out with austin give him a chance and see where that leads you
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whats your favorite song??

this question is so we can all learn new and different songs just for the fun of it. (link)
i really like the song

In This Diary by The Ataris


umm this will sound stupid but how do you apply eye liner on the top part i know know to do the bottom put not the top please help (link)
well on the top just make a very light thin line closer to your top eyelash and go over the line to make it darker
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my hair gets kinda thick when it air drys and also when i blow dry my hair after i take a shower.. so last night when i scrunched my hair and let it air dry, it didnt come out as scrunchy and it was kinda poofy.. what can i do so it doesnt come out as poofy?

ps. i use gel also (link)
what i used to use to scrunch my hair was Tresemae Mousse my hair didnt come out poofy it came out nice also you could use Garnier Fructis Smoothing Milk i use that to scrunch my hair all the time it takes out the frizz
here are some tips on scrunching your hair

after you take a shower dry your hair with a towel
throw your head down (so your hair is pointing to the floor)
what ever you are using to scrunch your hair rub it on your palms and run your fingers through your hair
cup your hand and squeeze your hair
clip your hair up in a bun and keep it like that for about 10 minutes and then just take it out
hope that helps if you need anything else drop one in my inbox ♥




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