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Confused.
Ok, heres the story, Hi, I'm Rachel. My first ever true love (Tony) that ONCE in my life LIKED ME, went out with a girl, then they broke up, well they are now back together and are having some serious relationship problems. BUT, this other guy, Named Austin, he is like, IN LOVE WITH ME, and he's the sweetest thing, I kinda like him. Tony is soo funny and SO my type, we always laugh and have a blast, I still love him, AUSTIN, is the sweethaert who calles me beautiful, and not just hot, like Tony has. I honestly don't know what to do, I REALLY WANT TO GO OUT WITH TONY at least ONCE in my life.....And just get it over with! And I can't be with Austin yet, we are waiting til we go to the same school to go out, so, I don't know what to do, who to like, who to stop loving. ANy Advice for me please?
Thanks for your time reading, Love, Rachel
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Well, if Tony is still with this girl, but you feel that there is a connection between the two of you, then you need to talk to him. It sounds like he means the most to you, so you need to figure out how he feels. Austin kind of gets the shitty end of the stick, because he's your plan B. Being plan B sucks. Don't lead him on. You need to figure out what is going on with Tony, because it's not just you putting yourself out there, it's Austin, too. And, could possibly be Tony once you talk to him. Don't blow off your feelings for Tony, but don't blow off Austin, either. So, in short, talk to Tony, and try to be fair to everyone involved. Good luck.
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Honestly, no one can give you the right answer to this. I think that you should just take some time and figure out what you want to do. Right now you don't know and you are confused but just take some time. Spend more time with both of them and talk to them more and more. You will see your feelings growing more towards one of them. I think that you should give Austin a chance right now. If Tony likes you then maybe you could try to work something out. I mean you love him, and I know that it might be kind of hard to get over him but you don't have to. Just take some time to see what you want to do. You don't have to rush anything and its better if you just figure it out. I hope you understand though. You don't have to stop loving one or eather of them. You also don't have to rush into a relationship right away. Like I said, I hope you take some time and think about it. Good luck babe!
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You can't stop loving anybody. All I can say to do is to just really think of the person you could see having a long lasting relationship. Think of Tony's relationship problems. Could you see yourself with those problems with him if you guys ever went out? Whatever you do, you can't force them to break up. It sounds like Austin has better qualities... and right now maybe you should focus on him a little more. He seems a bit more sensitive, but you can't force yourself to be with someone you don't love. When you can, go out with Austin. After all-- Tony didn't stop his relationship so that he could be with you. Your allowed to go out with other people as well. But if you feel too confused, take time away and just try and think of the most important thing to do without hurting your own heart. It's your life, and whether or not you have to adjust to break someone elses heart in order to make your heart be at ease, then it's what you have to do. It's not a good thing to date someone you don't love, it's unfair to them.
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no one can really give you the answer to this
your heart decides who you like more and want to go out with i know it may seem hard to make a decision
it seems you only want to go out with tony to just see what it feels like and to just know that you once went out with him
i personally think you should go for austin
you did mention that tony is having relationship problems so he is still with his girlfriend right?
go out with austin give him a chance and see where that leads you
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