Question Posted Thursday September 1 2005, 9:10 pm
The guy I have this huge crush on (i've liked him since February of this year) is a year younger than me. He's in 7th grade and i'm in 8th, but he has a late birthday so he COULD be in my grade but he missed the cut off (his bday is in November of 1992 and mine is in july of 1992 so i'm only a couple months older than him.) However, other people think i'm weird, cause they don't know when his bday is, and they think im weird cause i like a younger guy. Well the truth is i really like him. and i dont care what other people think. but what should i do 2 not make them think im a dork/loser for likeing someone younger than me?? Thanx i rate 5 every time :-)
AshNicole...x3 answered Saturday September 3 2005, 2:01 pm: If you rly truly like him, then you wouldnt care what people thought of you. when u love someone it seems like nothing matters. People now of days have nothing better to do but make fun of other ppl dont let it get to u. hope i helped [ AshNicole...x3's advice column | Ask AshNicole...x3 A Question ]
soin2pink answered Friday September 2 2005, 10:59 pm: well no one should keep you from likeing some one! it is fine to like guys younger then you. just tell people that you guys arent that far apart, and that he prob is more mature then some of the guys that are older then him. well hope i helped. good look.
xoxo brit [ soin2pink's advice column | Ask soin2pink A Question ]
dntletitgo2urhead answered Friday September 2 2005, 10:00 am: I think you should just go for it. It's not uncommon to like a younger guy, I have liked guys who were years younger than me before, and sometimes they liked me back,sometimes they didn't. All I can say is good luck =)
karenR answered Friday September 2 2005, 1:36 am: Why on earth would they think that? Some people are really goofy. I have been married to a guy a year younger than myself for 30 years. Do what you want. Tell anybody who doesn't like it that they don't know what they're missing and go for it. Good luck! :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
FireFairy141 answered Thursday September 1 2005, 11:40 pm: I dont think it's bad for you to like a guy in a grade younger than you. I like one that is two grades lower. But he's suppossed to be in ninth, and he's only like two months younger than me. But anyway!, your alowwed to like whoever you want to like, dont let what your friends like control your life!
Mercy_x_Me answered Thursday September 1 2005, 10:37 pm: Your fine! People ask these questions ALL the time. You should care less if you like a FIFTH grader because if you like them, that's just the way it is. It's your LIFE and no one else knows your heart's desired direction. That and WHO CARES if they don't know when his birthday is! Don't get technical... nobody has the right to get technical when all you should care about is him... and you, it's not about them, or anyone else. I tell people this all the time, and it's your life, just focus on you and enjoy it! Don't let other's opinions bother you, especially because if they know it does, then it'll make them feel all the more encouraged to do it some more. Don't give them more activities. Tons of people date younger guys, I have myself. It's no big and it's no ones business anyway. [ Mercy_x_Me's advice column | Ask Mercy_x_Me A Question ]
t0xicParadiSe answered Thursday September 1 2005, 10:07 pm: people think what people want to think these days
they dont bother listening to your side of the story and just go with their opinion
there is nothing wrong with dating a guy who is younger then you
your not a loser for likeing a younger guy
you cant help who you fall for
one girl may like a guy who is so ugly to another girl but to you hes perfect
ignore what people say about you it shouldnt mean anything to you
your the one who knows who you truely are and how you truely feel about the guy not other people
if you need anything else drop one in my inbox ♥ [ t0xicParadiSe's advice column | Ask t0xicParadiSe A Question ]
DeeSireDiOr answered Thursday September 1 2005, 9:55 pm: Hey
First off i want to say i really admire you for not caring about what others think. Honestly i don't see an age difference just a grade difference. It's not a big deal what so ever but i don't need to tell you that you already know. I think your best off not explaining yourself to anybody. If they think your a loser/dork for dating somebody no matter who this person may be then they honestly have probelms and have nothing better to talk about. If your friends call you a loser for dating him then trust me they are not your real friends. If other people say mean things to you then just simply ignore them. The only people that matter are your friends and if they have your back then your good to go. Otherwise keep your head up high and smile. Your doing nothing wrong.
Good luck
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