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my 2 friends
my friend-lets call her jamie, and my other friend, lets call her janice and i have become REALLY close this month and last! like REALLY CLOSE!
so we had a sleepover the other day at jamies house and everything. then we went to my house l8er that nite (this was 2 days ago). we talk every day and stuff. so we were going to sleepover janices house tonite but i didnt hear anything else about it.
well something fishy just happened and i asked jamie if janice was with her and shes like "y" so i told her wut i thought. jamies exact words were: yea shes with me because her mom needed sum wer 4 her to go" this was over text messaging. i didnt answer them. this was like 5 mins ago. but anyway, wut the hell because i live right down the street from janice, but jamie lives 15 minutes away from us! this REALLY REALLY hurts my feelings like i want to cry. im like tearing as i right this.
tomorrow, were all going to this party and stuff together and i was going to see if janice wanted to carpool cause the party is like 30 mins away. but now im mad at them. but i AM going to the party. im just crying now because my feelings didnt get hurt, they got BROKEN!
wut should i do? and also, sorry for the length.
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It's hard, it really is. They don't seem like they're trying to be bad friends though. Maybe Janice's parents/parent only wanted her to have one friend over. I know sometimes parents just like their peace and quiet. It's important not to have an ALL-OUT brawl with them at the party. It wouldn't be a good idea. Just express calmly how you felt a little left out, trust me, they will have more pity on you if you approach it calmly then screaming or making a really big deal out of the whole thing. It could be a misconception, and until more signs of disclusion come, don't assume they don't want you! It sounds like one night of misunderstanding, and hopefully nothing more. Just keep yourself serene, don't let your head blow over the top with thoughts, because if you jump to conclusions you'll just distress yourself more.
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Wow hon, I'm not really sure exactly what to say. But friends are real backstabbers if you ask me ='(. Well what I think you should do is just tell your friends exactly how you feel. And I mean exactly. I'm sure your friends didn't realize that they were backstabbing/hurting you, they just decided to hang out and didn't think about including you. Tomorrow - go to the party and hang out with your other friends if you know others that will be there. If not, then maybe it's best you don't go. I'm not really sure hon I hope I could help ♥
♥ Rachel
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