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In drama class I have to do a mimeing skit thats at least 45 seconds long...but I'm not sure what do, if any of you have good ideas or some websites it would be very helpful!

***I rate 5's for GOOD answers not joke ones***

Thanks

wow.... 45 seconds isn't bad... i had to do one for 3-4 minutes... you can do a skit where ur lookin for something... like point to ur finger & act like ur lookin for ur ring... or u can do one where u are gettin ready to go sum where... brush ur teeth... hair... put on ur jacket... look at ur watch & go... u didnt say whether u were doing this by urself or with other people... i have more ideas if ur doing it with other people... feel free to IM mE.... :)

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ok lol...well i just started my period today (ive had it for about 2 yrs) but i got it today again....but my ? is i hav REALLY bad cramps today....and like ther extremely bad....is there nething i can do to make them go away??

Take midol... (IT WORKS!!!) it'll take about 30 minutes for it to kick in... so try heating pads in the meantime...

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Hey guys,

I was sleeping over my friends house the other day and we snuck out around 12 to hang with these guys. The next day one of them asked my friend on the phone if I would hook-up with someone just for the hell of it without going out with them. (assuming he wanted to hook up with me) I told my friend that it all depends, like if we hooked up and then went out. Because I believe strongly in hooking up with someone you like and then go out with them instead of hook-up and forget it ever happened. And now he thinks I am just a little prude. And the night before he was all sweet and everything and respected my point of views.

How do I handle this??
xo0x HoW xo0x

He doesn't sound like he's worth ur time... having respect for yourself is not prude... don't ever let anyone convince you that it is... the way he acted should tell u what type of person he is... he soundz like he was just being sweet... so he could "hook up" wit you... it doesn't sound like he has any intentions of being in a relationship with you... if you really like him try to talk to him... & if he doesn't agree... i suggest u move on...

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is it ok to flirt with guys if ur goin out with someone?

That all depends on the type of relationship u have... if it's ok with ur boi... & u wouldn't have a problem wit him flirting with other girls... than it's ok... if he has a problem wit is... or u have a problem wit him flirting with other girls... than its not ok...

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What are somethings you can add to coffee to make it taste better. I hate coffee with nothing in it, and I need ideas on what to add.

**I Rate High**

Hot chocolate... try the flavored coffee creamers

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hey you are really pretty!!! What race are you?? okai im arabian right...i love it! but i dont like it b*cuz every1 in da skewl is always calling me a terrorists? even my best friendz...like if i ask a question they'll be like i dont kmow go ask your uncle osama(Hez not really my uncle tho)and dey say blow up anotha building with ur bombs:( thats really sad! the whole school iz a raciest to me... what shouldi do? i really need your helppon this one chika! PLEzzz! Thank you sooo much@ much luv! shereen!

Hey... thanx... im Pakistani... I've gotten that a couple of times too... don't let it get to you... there will always be ignorant people that will blame a whole race for something... when people say that to you... tell them you don't appreciate being called a terrorist... have a talk with ur friends... tell them u find it really offensive when they call u names... if they don't listen than try to find sum new friends... there are a LOT of Pakistani... Indian... Afghan... & Arabs in my area... so people dont pick on us that much... try to find sum friends in ur area that are arab... if u ever need to talk... feel free to IM me... :)

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I'm 13/f, and I've been really sad lately. I'm in 8th grade, and for a while I had a lot of excitement in my life; I had my bat mitzvah during the summer, and I've been feeling that my life has been dull. I had been sad about my friends and guys, sad in general, especially at night. One night, I got so sad I cut myself...
I'm feeling depressed and I don't know what to do:(
-what do i do?-
*depressed

It doesn't sound like u have a major problem that's causing you to be depressed... you just have a lotta of lil problems rather than one or two huge ones... u should go see a therapist... or you may have been depressed to begin with... & that's what's causing you to have problems... (depression is caused by a chemical imbalance in the brain) either way u should go see a therapist... your school should have one...

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I wear G-strings, and how can I dress out for athletics at shcool without everyone in the locker room seeing my butt?? Some people go into the bathroom stalls... i dont really want to do that though.

well what u can do is change ur shirt first... (i'm guessing ur PE shirt is long) & than change ur pants... that way ur PE shirt will be covering ur butt...

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This is kind of wierd and I don't mean to be all snooty when I say it...

I love to go shopping, I love going to get my toenails done, I love going out to eat at fancy restaurants. But the thing is, my friends hate doing that kind of stuff. I would be like "Lets go get our toes done!" and they would be like "lol, No, thats stupid". I DO admit it. I'm the stereotypical 'Californian' girl who...spends money and goes to the beach and stuff. But is that bad? My friends never like doing that stuff... and I feel stupid. Its not like they don't have the money. We all have the money to do that stuff, they just think its stupid. What should I do? It seems like I'm the only "preppy" girl at school and I don't fit in with anyone. Yet I've lived in my town for 16 years...so its not like I just moved here and don't fit in. I'm just different. Is there anything I can do to convince my friends? How should I handle it? Because it kind of sucks... and I listen to like, Ashlee Simpson, Hilary Duff, and everyone hates those people... I feel so out of the loop, and yet I don't want to be in the loop...I want people to come to my loop....

Try meeting new people... when u go out shoppin or to get ur nails done... start talkin to sum1 that looks about ur age... make new friends... im sure there are plenty of girls that like to do that stuff... you just haven't found any yet... dont give up

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Why is giving others mean advice actually considered ***FUN***, yes, it's not a typo, some people considers it fun. However sick and disgusting that is, I would like to know why?

People with low self-esteem think its fun to put others down... it makes em feel better about themselves... the only thing we can do is give them a low rating...

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Do guys want a girl who's like all energetic and talkitive and flirty? Cuz its seems like they are the ones getting all the attention. I'm shy so nothing's working for me. What's going on in ur heads guys?

Im not a guy.... but i do know that guys like girls that are bold because they think they are easy... & in most cases they usually are...

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How old do you have to be to give up on finding a girl friend. The reason I ask is that im 24 ill be 25 next may and ive never had a girlfriend or been in a serious relationship, I Know im not ugly and I can send you a pic to prove it, and most of the time i can talk to girls just fine, but it always ends up the same for me, they always say that im a real nice guy and that one day ill find the right girl for me and then the dreaded "LETS JUST BE FRIENDS".

I just dont understand what im doing wrong. and when i think about it it makes me real mad, that
there's girls out there with boyfriends that beat them, abuse them both phisicaly and mentaly,
they cheat on them and treat them like crap, but when asked why the girl stays whith him the anwser is always "cause I love Him". Life is just so f*cked up, how can guys that treat their girl like shes lower than crap get so much love, but a guy like me that alwas treats women with respect and is always nice and honest and caring
have to feel like hes going to be alone forever?

Ive had sex, but it was always one night satands and its not about sex. its about love, I want to love some one, life is just so empty and meaningless when you dont have anyone to sahre it with.

Now im getting to the point where the girls i meet are close to my age and want someone with experiance, witch i dont have.

So i figured if by the time i turn 25 i dont have a girlfriend i should just give up and not waste anybodys time.

what do you think?

Don't ever give up... maybe ur problems is that your lookin too hard in the wrong places... stop lookin... have sum time to yourself... i know u probably feel like you've had enuff time to urself... but the rite girl will come along... girls that stay with guys after the guys treat them like shit are sluts... & u dont sound like the type of guy that deserves a slut... you always find stuff when ur not lookin for it... so dont worry... you really sound like a nice guy... & i hope u find ur soul mate soon...

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ok..i'm really good friends with well one of my friends. he is 15/m. he likes me as well do ilike him. but he wants to do stuff too quick. I can say that we have done some stuff, but i don't want to go to far. N' he doesn't understand the word, "no." i dont know what to do. I need anyones help, should i do it, or not?

no.... u should never do anything that u aren't comfortable doing... you guys need to have a talk about whats ok with u and whats not...

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My best friend is goin out wit muh ex and they seem like soooo happy but i dont think he realli likes her and i think hes playn her.....I KNO HES PLAYN HER! I tried to tell her and now shes mad at me! Every time i call her house she picks up the phona and hangs it up again!
WHAT SHOULD I DO!!!
lotta luv
~kisses~

she probably thinks ur jealous... & ur lying about him being a player to break em up... i suggest that u let her figure it out on her own... cuz girls get like that when they "think" they love sum1... they wont put up with any1 sayin sumthing like that about their BFz... so it's best to let her find out on her own...

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I was thinking...do any of you agree with the saying, the right guy will come when you stop looking?

Yeah... that quote is very true... because when u are lookin you often get with sum1 that isnt really compatible with you ( i think a lot of people that are lookin end up gettin desperate and just go for anyone that they can find )... your differences cause u to break up... & u end up with a broken heart... i know soooo many girls that just keep lookin & gettin with anyone that says "i love u" they keep gettin their hearts broken... because the person they find doesnt have the same goals as them relationship wise...

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okay there is this guy that is a freshmen in college! and well he is really cute and looks like simon from 7th heaven ((anyway)) I really like him! he went to my confirmation and gave me a hug and was like omg u did it! he asked me what i was thinking about college and i said a place and he was like no don't go there go where i go!! and then he was like what do u wanna major in and i said teaching and he was like me 2!! I really want to get to know him better do you think i should ask him for his sn or phone #?? And how do I start showing him I am interested? flirting??

yeah ask him for his phone number... start callin him & ask him if he wants to chill... u shouldn't have a problem makin conversation with him... cuz y'all want to major in the same thing...

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Last night,I was at a hockey game with my dad and my girl (ex girlfriend now) called me and started cursing me out. She said somebody called her house and cursed her mom out,and her mom said it sounded like me,when it wasn't me who really did it. So she broke up with me and Heidi (my ex) is punished for a very long time. Her mom took away her cell phone,and a bunch of other crap,and Heidi simply refuses to speak a word to me. I don't know what to do. Should I:

1) Give her a couple of days and hope she'll listen to me when I try to explain to her it wasn't me that called her house (I have my dad as proof.)
OR
2) Just move on with my life

This girl means everything to me,and I would do anything to get her back,no matter what extremes I would have to take. I love this girl with all my heart and I really want her back. Please help me out. Thanks

Give her a couple of days... than try to explain yourself... if she still doesn't listen than u should move on cuz she's not worth ur time...

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Everone says that 'puppy love' is just when younger people say they're in love but 'real' love is proper love. So is it possible for a 13 year old to be in real love?

Yeah its possibly... but it's highly unlikely...

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i took this test on the internet because i have always thought i had add. i've never told anyone this b4 though so i was a little scared when i was takeing the test. im only 13 years old and it said if u chose 8 or more out of 20 of the questions then u are highly too have add. well i got 10/20 and i dont know if i should tell my mom what should i do?

Yeah you should tell your mom... u can't deal with this problem by yourself... & dont worry ADD is not a big deal... i know plenty of people who have ADD... some of them get better grades than me... so don't stress over it...

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how do you get rid of dead skin on your face?! I've tried everything, exfoliators, expesnive lotions..etc etc...and nothing seems to be working. I was just wondering if there was any home remedy or something that would make my skin smooth and flakey free? Thank you.

You can get a blackhead/whitehead remover from wal*mart... its located near the tweezers & nail filers... u press it down on ur face... & it forces the dirt out... use it a couple of times... & ur skin will feel smoother rite away if you do it rite... also... try nivea cream... NOT lotion... cream...

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