Do guys want a girl who's like all energetic and talkitive and flirty? Cuz its seems like they are the ones getting all the attention. I'm shy so nothing's working for me. What's going on in ur heads guys?
pRiiNcEsS_bRyT answered Monday November 8 2004, 5:03 pm: lol im very talkative and flirty and SOoOO hyper....guys like we girls be themselves wether ur shy or loud! if your honest with yourself they like u more! good luck hun! [ pRiiNcEsS_bRyT's advice column | Ask pRiiNcEsS_bRyT A Question ]
chuck1332 answered Monday November 8 2004, 1:32 am: most guys like the talketive type, but not all guys. the best advice i can give you is next time your at a party or a social situation look around and see if there's any guys that look atractive to you and they're not talking to anyone, usualy they are the shy type too, but you can go up to him and talk about your common shyness, and you dont have to worry about him being a player, or an a**hole, he'll just be real happy that you came over and talked to him.
and dont get discuridged if at first he doesint say much, he will most likely be suprised that a girl actualy came over and talked to him.
if it gets to the point where both of you dont have anything to say and theres that wiered silace, say something like "ill be right back, I got to go to the bathroom, or to get something to drink" whatever will let you get away for a minute or two, that way he'll have time to think of something to say and so will you.
once you start talking, hit it off and you think you might want to see him again, your best bet would be to just write your number or
e-mail down and right before you leave give it to him and just say "I had a nice time, call me", cause most likely he wont be brave enough to ask for it himself.
shy guys are just as scared as you are but once you get to know one he'll treat you like a queen.
xxhotsexycutiexx answered Monday November 8 2004, 12:06 am: it all depends on a guy..but most of the time they want a talkative energetic "outgoing" girl...but there are someguys out there that would prefer a shy girl rather then a talkative one...there are some that think the talkative ones are annoying...it all depends on a guy...dont worry the rite one will come ...xoxo effy [ xxhotsexycutiexx's advice column | Ask xxhotsexycutiexx A Question ]
xO_ii_x3_yEw_Ox answered Sunday November 7 2004, 11:14 pm: Some guys like energetic , talkitive , and flirty girls as you said and some guys like shy girls so it just all depends on the type of guy and if you realy want guys to notice you try not to be so shy and talk a little more .. trust me that will work ! and dont be worried that they wont like you or anything because atleast your being you! [ xO_ii_x3_yEw_Ox's advice column | Ask xO_ii_x3_yEw_Ox A Question ]
lovableRIDER4130 answered Sunday November 7 2004, 10:11 pm: To be honest with you, of all the men I know, guys cannot tolerate loud and obnoxious girls they just put up with it. It takes time to come out of your shell, but for right now be who you are. You may be shy, but you can't help who you are. You will find a guy just right for you, and sooner or later you will find yourself! [ lovableRIDER4130's advice column | Ask lovableRIDER4130 A Question ]
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