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Alright. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 9 months now and I'm having a little issue. Whenever we first started dating he cussed a whole lot, and to me cussing is kind of unattractive. Well, he stopped cussing for me. He just went to Arkansas for the weekend with his cousin and I called him today and he was cussing like crazy. I asked him how much he has been cussing and he said in a real sarcastic voice "I don't have an exact number." Earlier in the month I told him he acted sort of different around me and his friends. He sort of blows me off. He becomes very sarcastic and sort of rude, just like in his comment about cussing. What should I do? Am I right to be kind of upset about this? He knows how much I don't like him cussing...

If it bothers you than you have a right to be upset. He is treating you like trash and you need to put a foot down. He has no right to be sarcastic and rude to you. You are his GF and he should treat you like he cares about you. Since he abviously is treating you like he doesn't care I suggest a serious talk with you BF. Try to talk to him when he is a way from his friends and when your away from your friends, tell that he is treating like trash. Tell him its not just the cussing any more its his whole attitude, the way he treats you. Tell him if he really cared about you he would actually try to be nice to you. If blows you off by being sarcastic or rude I suggest you tell him its time you two broke up. He doesn't deserve to have such a nice girl and then treat you like shit.

Good Luck
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i am so bored and i dont know what to do. does anyone have any fun websites to go to exepct bored.com because its acully boring. i want to like like dress up people or something girly thanks i rate! please dont say barbie.com

Gurl.com has some fun things there. I know for a fact that if you look well enough there is a dress up game and such. Tis' quite fun

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i have this really good guy friend, and he's always really nice to me and treats me really well. but as far as other girls go, he cheats on them, talks bad about them, and completely uses them. he's tried to get me into a physical relationship w/ him a couple of times, and each time i've sternly told him no, because i know what happens to every one of his girlfriends ... the problem is now, that his current girlfriend is my good friend. i don't want to see her get hurt the same way he hurts every other girl who crosses that line with him, and i tried to explain to her that he can be a total jerk to his girlfriends.... but because i spend so much time w/ him (he's a close friend), now she thinks i like him, and that i'm just jealous... which is 100% not true. i would never go out with him... ever. i'm smarter than that. but anyway, what do i do... do i let him break her heart? and how do i get her to understand that i'm not trying to steal her man?

I think you should stay out of it, if you already talked to your friend and warned her there isn't much you can do. Maybe try talking to your guy friend about what he does and tell him be nice to your friend, she doesn't deserve to be treated the way he does all his other past GF's.

Just be there for your friend when the relationship ends, thats the most important.

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Well when i get older I'd love to be a professional dancer and dance in videos, maybe teach a few moves to celebs, I cant spell the word lol chroglfier lol whatever. Anyway yeah and maybe just dance and stuff but what qualifications do I need and like do I got to 6th form and what do I have to study to become a professional dancer? What do i need to achive, what do i need to study at college and university also I want to be a author im really good at writing books so what qulifications do I need for that to? Please help I rate thanks Love Lil-Keaney!

I was going to go search the web for you but I decided to leave that up to you. Use Google and Askjeeves.

I'm a tap dancer but I use to be in Ballet and Jazz. The studio I dance at has alot of resources and such so I have been to IDC (International dance competions) LADF (L.A. Dance Force) and have been taught by some well known chorographers. (Keith Clifton, Christina Woordward and some other guy that I can't remember)

For you, I suggest taking any oppertunity to learn a new style of dance, don't be afraid to learn something new because in the future you will be more trained. Search the internet for the qualifications to go to a dance school and for it to become your profession and read up on other chorographers, see how they became dancers and how much it took them.

Its great that this is what you want to do but I do suggest that you always have a back up plan for the future in case this doesn't work out. I do, I want to become a pastry chef but if it doesn't work out then I want to be a interior designer.

Good luck and I hope some thing I said was of use.

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I have cuts up my nose.. im not sure how but probably becuase i kept picking my nose everymorning because I had a bag cold i didnt want to go to school with giant greenies hanging out my nose! Now my nose feels like ive been blowing it for ages you know that feeling right? But how do i make my cuts up my nose heal? BEcuase you cant really put any creams up there to stop them hurting and to heal up really.. so ya any help guys sorry if you find it sick and that you find nose picking is sick but we all do it and its better than walking around with a clogged up nose and yes i do pick my nose AT HOME in PRIVARTE lol im not THAT sick thanks x

I don't think there is much you can do but leave your nose alone and let it heal.
What do you do when you have been blowing your nose during a cold and then it hurts? You leave it alone, same with this.

Leave the cuts alone and don't do it again. Might as well be a learning experience. :P

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Im a teenager and I have scoliosis and Im under the impression that exercise will help. If someone out there has information about phyisical therapy for scoliosis please take a minuet to answer my question. thanks!

http://www.spineuniverse.com/displayarticle.php/article48.html?source=google

That site has alot of information that may help answer your questions.

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i just want to know if eating to much whipped cream is bad for your brain.

ahahahahaha, No its not bad for your brain. Its just basicly milk. It may make you sick if you eat too much of it but its not bad for your brain.

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I really need to get in shape this summer but I can't find a gym..I finally found one near me..Bally total fitness gym..is that place for adults only? (I'm 15/F) ..can you bring guests? Do you have to join? Do you have to take a class there or can you just walk in and start working out? Please help..I will rate 5's I PROMISE!

http://www.ballyfitness.com/join/faq/

Scroll down and you will see the age limit and everything else.

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Do you HAVE to be pretty to get a boyfriend? Because in my school, some guys act like they NEED to find the prettiest girl in the world and they be calling almost evry girl ugly...

Ever heard of the quote "Its whats on the inside that counts". Its true, It doesn't matter if you have model perfect beauty. If a guy is going to like you than he is.

Those guys in your school are really messed up, seriously. If they only care about looks than they are really missing out. Ignore them, and their stupid words they say and hold your head up high. Sooner or later you'll find nice guy that will like you, for you.

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I get embarassed so easily!! I can't help it. Then I think over about what I did all night and I'm even more embarassed!! HOw can I stop this??

Heh, I do this too.

My way of cooling off the embarrissment is when I start thinking about it, I shake my head and smile and think of something else. It takes time to master and alot of work but it doesn work.

Embarrissment is human nature. We all have it, even if we have ways of keeping it from showing. Live with it. It won't be so embarrissing as time goes on.

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I have horrible handwriting.It is realy hard to read it.Once I got sent to the principal just because of my handwriting.My teacher said I should go to a doctor.I went for a dance class and you had to bend your thumb and keep your other fingers flat.I ended up bending all my fingers.I was the only one who could not do that.My mother will not take me to a doctor,she says we'll get laughed out of his clinic.Some times even I can't read my hand writing.I am 13/f.
Is there something wrong with me?

I know a friend, Her handwriting sucks. You can't even make out a letter, seriously.

I think your just fine. If your so worried than search the internet and see if you can find anything on "bad handwriting", I doubt you'll find anything.
Also, If you can't go to the doctor but feel you should than call the doctor and talk to him. Voice what you feel and I'm sure He'll tell you your just fine.

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well i have a best friend you can call her marie. we went walking one day and she is young but,her x saw her and walked with us they started flirting i dont mind that but then he told us he was going to show us his old hang out it was a old shed he started telling her to give him a lap dance and she did well then i walked off because i got scared she would go to far i did not know what to do .so i went back 2 the shed and they were laying by an old boat with her shirt off.i had a cell phone with me so did she i tryed to call her and tell her i was going to leave her but he took her phone out of her pocket.the only good thing was he brought protection.
also she almost did it with her boy friend to night.please tell me something i can tell her or,should i tell an adult??

Talk to her about to her about how you feel. Tell that she should be careful, if she continues she could get in a situation that she won't know how to get out of. Tell her you'll aways be her friend and to be there for her when she needs you but you don't approve.

I would advise against telling a adult, you may lose your friendship.
If your really worried than tell her mother, and just say that your worried about your friend and you don't want her to be mad at you and never be friends but you want to help her.
Even if her parents do get involved, she'll still have sex if she wants to and doesn't want anyone telling her what to do. You can't stop her from doing what she wants, all you can do is let her know that you disaprove but you'll be there for her. Thats most important.

Good Luck
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My friend lies a lot! I can't stand it! And it's not the little stuff either! She would tell you she's dieing and then let you believe that for like 5 months! And then she'd lie to cover it up. It drives all of her friends crazy! And when I talk to her about it, she just yells at me! How could I talk to her without her yelling at me?

E-mail? I personally would just let her lie, she's only hurting herself when she lies, no one else.
If you're really annoyed then try talking to her very calmly, and don't just start telling her that she lies, actually wait until you two are alone, and say "please don't get mad at me or yell, I just want to discuss this" and make it so that she can add her opinion too. If she denies ever lieing then let it be. If she wants to lie all the time then let her, its her choice.

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Me=14/f Him=14/m
I really like this guy and I think he really likes me too but I think he is too shy to talk to me. But I have tried almost everything at first I sent him a valentine gram and told him I thought he was cute and signed my name then I had my friend give him a note that still didn't work so finally two of my friends try to talk to him but he wouldn't talk to them. But he keeps making eye contact with me,he keeps staring at me too we keep eye contact for awhile but then either he turns or I but then we both look again to see if the other one is still looking and he makes sure he is always where I usually am(he knows my schedule and we have classes kind of close to each other but none together)All my friends are telling me to talk to him and just ask him straight out"Do you like me?" But I need to know should I waste my time at all? Is it possible he just stares at me but doesen't really like me?

You only have one life to live, so why not? Take a deep breath and go up to him and ask him if he likes you. School is getting close to ending so you better make that move soon.

I think that he likes you be then again, from all of my bad experiences you might now want to trust me. Give it a shot and see what happens.
I'll give you one of my favorite quotes,
"You may regret what you do now, but you'll regret what you don't do so much more"

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i know that its really silly but when i was younger my mum could never afford to buy me a bike. Now that i am 17 i have just bought one and dont know how to ride it help!!

Get on it, and learn. Thats what I did. I didn't have a bike until I was 12 and no one would help me learn so I just kept getting on my bike and falling until I finally just started riding.

I would suggest learning somewhere its flat and open. Don't try to learn with other people around, That can be very embarrissing. Trust me, I have experience.

Happy Bike riding!

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Yesterday my boyfriend of six months broke up with me. We broke up because he has to work this summer and he says itll be really hard for him to just see me for one day a week instead of the six that were used to. I was so sad after hearin this, I cried almost all night cause i really miss him. Now last night he started to second guess himself, and he tells me how he made a huge mistake and he didnt think it thru. Well he wants me back for the summer. What sould i do, I do really like him amd want him around. Should i let him back??? just be friends??? or take a step backwards and say were just dating again????? PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!

This guy isn't serious. He just wants a girl to show off. I would suggest you say no to him, tell him there are plenty fish in the sea and even better ones than him. If he is going to keep breaking up you and can't make up his mind then that shows he doesn't really know himself. Ask yourself, do you want a guy that will break up with you the minute something new comes along?
I hope the answer is no, because this guy isn't worth your time and effection.

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me=13/f him=13/m
my friend is trying to set me up with her friend on a blind date i have no problem with this but he is not going to like me no boys like me ???
i have no idea why boys dont like me also i cant manage to hold a relationship together for more than 2weeks help me please any advise is good advise
thanks
from w.o.o

At the age of 13 two weeks is about the average for a relationship.

Go on the date, go with a good attitude and what happens, happens. If the guy doesn't like you then he's a jerk. Don't go on the date for a relationship, go on the date to meet someone new and maybe make a new friend.
Enjoy life and don't worry about relationships so much, let them come to you.

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Me and my old not quite boyfriend got in a fight because i had hickys on my neck and i said they were from one of my g/fs and he found out i wAs lying and he wont talk to me.. Should i give him a call and tell him im sorry? Or what should i do i miss him.. And i made a huge mistake..

Well you get some hickeys from another guy and lie to your BF about it and expect him to be okay? Girl, You should have thought of what would happen before you let that guy give you a hickey.

But, yes. If you want to try to salvage this relationship then call him and tell him the whole story and say your sorry. I don't know what he'll say and I wouldn't doubt that he doesn't take you back. Just be prepared either way.

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I’ve never been kissed and I was wondering if that is a turn off for guys (if they know). I personally find it embarrassing because I am 15/f. So my second question is, is it stupid that I haven’t kissed anyone yet, at my age?

Normally I would just pass by these sort of questions but this is typed well and I really need to update.

I can't speak for the entire race of males but I can for my guy friends and they say think think its very much of a turn-on when girls haven't been kissed yet. Like they get to show you and know that they are the first to touch lips with yours. ( :P )
I understand that you worried about the whole "never been kissed" deal but its not that big of a deal. I'm also 15 F and I'd never been kissed until about a week after my 15th birthday (march). It came surprisingly fast and unexpected. I hadn't been looking for any guy to kiss and it seemed to come from behind me.

I really don't think you should worry about something so little. So what if you haven't been kissed? You worry about the more important things, like school and family and let kissing come after all that. I'm certain you will get you first kiss when your least expecting and it will be great. I'm sure.

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do you kno the singer who sings the song ima bitch im a lover im a child im a mother

Yep, Its by Meredith Brooks "I'm a Bitch I'm a lover"

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