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Q: Ok well, my mom and dad are divored and have been i just found out ill be spending the summer with my dad, ok well thats not a big deal, but the thing is hes making me go to this place the "YMCA." while he is at work and well i dont know anyone there except my half cousin Alex, and she i know will just leave me there and go off with her friends and i will be alone. please help me i dont want to go, i was BAWLING my eyes out earlier. i want to i just, dont want to go to this YMCA because i know ill just be left alone while the only person i know will wonder off with her friends and i wont be invited. can anyone help me??
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The YMCA is fun. They have dances every first Friday of the month, that's a good thing.
Another thing is that you can make new friends. No worry about the only person you know goes wondering off.
You can make new friends, and make memories of it. Sooner or later, you'll want to go to the YMCA. hehe.
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Q: my bestfriends parents are mean to her..they dont hit her but they call her names and stuff..she called me crying hard and i know she cant take it! and i need to know how to help her..any ideas??
5S FOR ANYTHING SINCE THIS IS URGENT!!
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There isn't really anything to do, but just to be a friend to her, and talk to her.
Maybe she should talk to her parents about this.
Tell her that what her parents are calling her, (depending of what they are calling her) aren't true, and that's your always there for her when she needs you.
You should invite her to come over, ride bikes, go to a park. Or just basically somewhere where she won't be hurt of what her parents are calling her.
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Q: I have a pretty big scar on my upper left leg from when I got surgery when I was a baby. Now that summer's coming up, I want to wear shorts and bikinis but I don't want anyone to see the scar. What are some ways to make the scar less noticible so you can't really see it?
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I have the same problem on the upper right leg though, but for what I use, I use a band-aid. Pretty lame, huh? But I'm starting to not care what anyone thinks of it.
You can use some make up that is similar to your skin, and cover it up.
It's not like people are going to grab your leg and be like "OH MY GOSH, What is that?"
But the best thing is to use some make up similar to your skin.
Good Luck!
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Q: my name is Rachel and iam 17 years old and I still sleep with my mom could that be becouse my dad died when I was 12 becouse ever since i've been sleeping with her and I want to know some ways I can stop sleeping with her.
please help!
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It's okay to still sleep with you mom.
But my advice is, to hang out with your friends, and maybe spend the night over at a friend's house.
Watch TV, and just randomly fall asleep on your bed, or the couch. That way you can get used to sleeping without your mom.
But if I was in this situation, I would either have a friend spend the night over, or I spend the night over.
Hope I helped. =]
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Q: my computer only downloads AIM Triton and I HATE it. I tried to download the regular AIM & it won't work. It says it's installing, but when it finishes, it doesn't appear anywhere. How can I download regular AIM?
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I had the same exact problem. But luckily I had a friend to show me how to get the other aim.
I believe this is the site. but I'm not quite sure. When I got the new AIM Triton, and downloaded the regualar one, it was about 5 months ago.
http://www.aol.co.uk/aim/
Hope I helped =]
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Q: For some reason everytime my ex boyfriend is around I make sure I'm all over my current boyfriend. Why is this??
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Simple. You just want to get him jealous, that you can get other guys then just him. And that you are happy that you now have someone to care and love you.
And for this reason for you and your ex's break-up, you want to show that you found someone that treats you better.
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Q: I have to remember a poem for school. Any tricks to help me memorize it? It's pretty long.
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This is what I do.
First I read the sentence that I want to memorize, ONCE.
Then I try to sing/say it back to myself in my head. See how much I remember, just by reading it once.
I look back, and see what I made mistakes from, and what to get correct.
Then I do it again, so on, and so forth.
Good Luck!
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Q: Okay so this is the deal: In a couple of weeks my boyfriend (of 6 months) has a free house because his family are going on holiday, and we wanted to try and use this to spend a couple of nights together, his parents have said it's okay for me to stay as long as my parents are aware they are not going to be there. Normally my parents don't have a problem with me staying over when his parents are there because they make me sleep in a different room... But I'm not sure how they will react to this as they will probably look at it as a route to sex or something...even though I am legal anyway... any ideas on the best way to put the question across?
We are both 17.
Thanks for your attention, I will rate for your time :)
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You should tell your parents that you are going to be at your boyfriend's house, and that nothing will be going on, that you two just want to spend time together.
That's what couples do, right?
They should understand, and respect your decision. If they know you are focusing on your grades and education, they should trust you on letting you go.
Just tell them your now a responsible young adult that is smart enough to be thinking about sex before marriage.
Hope I helped. =]
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Q: My mom thinks I'm to young to date, ?I'm 13/f. How can I get her to think I'm responsible to date now? She said I have to wait until I'm 16!!!!!!
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I'm 13, (soon to be 14) and I can't date til I'm 16, too.
But there isn't much you can do. You know, mom's are mom's.
You don't want to lose your mom's trust between you and guys. Just try to invite a' guy friend' over, and let them get to know your mom. And maybe your mom might trust you with guys.
This isn't exactly the best advice. But that would be something I would do to convince my mom that I'm not that young.
Hope I helped. =]
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Q: How can i make a whore me button? i went on chasebadkids.net but it didnt work when i put it in the bulliten. so where can i go to get one. Thanks i rate 5's
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This is the site I always go to when I want to whore someone.
http://www.mylayoutscreator.com/whoreme.php
just simply pick the font, font color, and backround color. Get the ID number
Example:
http://www.mylayoutscreator.com/friendidexam.html
Put the picture URL. It should tell you on the site how to do that.
Then you can preview it, and get the code. =)
Hope I helped =]
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Q: today was our 8th grade trip to chicago. i was told that i wasnt alowed to go. so i couldnt go and all of my friends went and then they called me on my best friends cell phone and it sounded like they were having a blast.
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There's nothing wrong with you.
It's just that you wanted to have fun too. But it's probably cause your friends went and so did your crush.
That's okay, you get to see him sometime in school, right? And your friends too. Just because they went on the field trip doesn't mean they're never going to hang out with you.
But think about it. You didn't have to go to school or anything. You could have gotten a chance to go do whatever with your family.
But you know family comes first, then friends.
I hope you feel better.
Hope I helped =]
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Q: Not one boy has ever liked me or even said I'm pretty. I think I'm average but I just feel like I have no appeal to boys. What can I do to make myself prettier? Like what are the "in" styles for hair and clothes, and what's some good make-up to wear?
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You should accept yourself the way you are.
There is some guy out there waiting for you.
Maybe wear a bit of make-up (not to much.)
Do something different to your style.
Chat with some guys in hallways, or guys that sit around you.
Get to know eachother. I mean, it's not the looks that should count the most. I should be the personality.
Hope I helped =]
& Good Luck!
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Q: Does anyone know sites where I can find music codes? NOT videos. I'm looking for "Time to Say Goodbye" by Sarah Brightman.
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This is what I normally do when I don't want a music video on my myspace.
I log onto my myspace. I click on "Music" on the top. When the page loads, I put it under "Band Name" and type in the artist you want. Then it shows their music site.
And just simply click "Add" to the song you desire.
Hope I helped. =]
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Q: There's a girl that I like. We go to different schools but live about 10 minutes away from each other. She has a boyfriend but we went out once and I found out that she likes me. She even told me. The time we went out was 2 weeks ago (last weekend she was busy and this weekend I am), and I don't know if I'm wasting my time because I think she won't break up with her boyfriend. They've been going out for 9 months, and she told me that he makes her cry almost every night but she just won't break up with him. What do I do..?
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There's nothing really you could do, but be a friend and talk to her.
Tell her that he isn't worth her tears. And any guy who is, wouldn't make her cry. (Got that froma quote, if it sounded familiar to you.)
You can't really tell her that 'she deserves better.' that just basically tells her that your just want them to break up.
But the best thing you can do is be a friend. And make her smile/laugh.
Hope I helped =]
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Q: I really am Inlove with my ex. I broke up with him about 2 weeks ago. I was going through a really hard time and I kno I made a really big mistake. This girl that is suposed to be my friend is trying to go for him but Im trying to fix things with him. I really do love him and I just want to be with him. What should I do?
15/f
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First of all, you shouldn't really be worrying about your ex (yet.)
First, worry about your friend. Because friends usually come before boyfriends. Well, that's how it is for me.
If she was a true friend, she would stop trying to hook up with him. Talk to her and tell her you still have feelings after you and your ex's break up.
She should understand. Then, start to talk with your ex, and tell him you still love and care for him. And hoping you two would get back together.
But if he just doesn't want too. Then give him some time. Talk to him as friends. Then he will soon realize that you two once had something for eachother.
Hope I helped =]
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Q: i really really really like this kid, and he likes me. simple, right? no.
1. i just broke up with my boyfriend last week. someone told him that i broke up with him for the other guy, which i didn't, but i can't go out with this kid right away cause it will seem like i did.
2. he is 2 1/2 years older than me. not a big deal to me, but it is to his mom and my dad. my dad will get over it, but i don't know his mom.
3. he will be leaving for college in august and he's going far away. so we pretty much only have four months.
he said that he likes me enough to make something of it..and something may happen, but he doesn't know if we should try. i agree that we are setting ourselves up to get hurt, but at the same time..why not just go for it?
what do you guys think? what should i do?
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You should pretty much go for it.
Make his last four months the best of his life.
I would rather have a boyfriend to spend the best time with him, before he leaves and goes to college.
When he goes off to college, don't just break it up, keep in contact. Talk on the phone, send letters to eachother.
I say go for it!
Good luck!
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Q: I'm in 7th grade and I really want a boyfriend. I am really loneyly, and all my friends have them. Their's this guy but he doesn't know I like him and he doesn't show intrest in me. I really really like him but I am bad at sharing my feelings. What should I do?
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You can't really force someone to like you. But be yourself around him, flirt a little with him.
It takes time for someone to like eachother. And you shouldn't want a boyfriend just because all of your other friends have one too. I felt like that before. But I still lived.
Maybe talk online or on the phone. Get to know each other better. Then maybe he could be more interested in you. But if your being something your not kind of gets things screwed up.
Just be yourself, no matter how crazy you are. Guys find that a turn on when a girl isn't afraid to be herself.
But if your crush goes for looks and not personality, then you shouldn't worry about him. Go on with a guy who will like you for who you are.
Hope I helped =]
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Q: theres this guy that loves to hang out with me. id hang out with him too but he stinks.. i mean really really stinks. its a horrible smell!!! and he's always always following me... so since he's always around me, is there a nice way i can tell him that he smells really bad? lol. thanks xoxo
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Don't try to be too mean about this "Smelly" situation.
When there is a special occasion (Christmas, Easter, Birthday, etc...) Just simply give him bath stuff, clogne, soap. And tell him it's for a special occasion, or just because he's a friend.
He should accept the gift. Then maybe sooner or later he might start smelling fresh and clean. hehe :)
Hope I helped. =]
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Q: how do you make a picture black and white, i tried paint but it just come out black.
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Go to google.com
Type in "Photoplus 6.0"
Download it.
It's free, if it wasn't, I wouldn't have download it. lol.
When it's finished. It should be on your desktop, or when you click "Start" it should be there.
Open up Photoplus. Then open the picture you desire. Then you cick on "Image" and there is many choices that you can pick from to change your picture around.
Hope I helped. =]
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Q: I have straight hair. But I was thinking about getting my hair wavy to add some flavor. What is the style these days, wavy hair or straight? & When I say wavy I don't mean curly, I just mean a few waves. I'm brunette, female 14, and blue eyes. What would fit me better, wavy or straight hair? By the way, my hair is straight right now.
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It would look so adorable if it was wavy. I know a few people that are brunette that have wavy hair.
You shouldn't just try to get in the style. Just be you. But trying something new is fun.
But wavy would look cute :)
Hope I helped.
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bio
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Basics.
They call me alex
I live with one older brother and two little sisters.
I'm taken and in the 9th grade.
I am my own person. I don't try to copy other or try to fit in the crowd.
I like being weird. People tell me that sometimes, but it's okay.
I could care less who thinks of me as what.
I act like a kid sometimes. But sometimes I have those times where I want to be a treated as a young adult.
Music.
Music is life. Without it, my world would be blue.
I can't really stick to one type of music. Like some people I know.
I listen to basically anything that has meaning, or something I can dance too. Or just love the song.
I love listening to music from rock, heavy metal, death metal, rap, r&b, techno.
School.
I'm in high school.
I have the most awesome friends in the world. Yes, I know your jealous.
I don't believe in popularity or labels.
Popularity. No one is popular. Everyone is the same. Alright? OK!
Labels. Kids, get a life. Don't label, if you don't like it, they don't either.
I hate it when people just basically backstab you, I have a lot of those suckers walking around my school.
I most DEF. hate it when people change just to fit in a crowd, for another guy, or just to get attention.
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PLEASE rate me and give me some feedback; that way I can improve my advice :)
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Info
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Website: Gender: Female Location: Florida Occupation: making you laugh :) Age: 14 Member Since: December 27, 2005 Answers: 95 Last Update: August 7, 2007 Visitors: 9197
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