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I really do love him
I really am Inlove with my ex. I broke up with him about 2 weeks ago. I was going through a really hard time and I kno I made a really big mistake. This girl that is suposed to be my friend is trying to go for him but Im trying to fix things with him. I really do love him and I just want to be with him. What should I do?
15/f
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you should talk to your ex and let him know you made a mistake...if he loves you he will take you back but if he don't take you back...just move on and learn from your mistakes...it will take time to get over him...becasue i went thru that relationship before...it took me almost 2years to let him go and move on...the girl you call friend is not your friend if she going behind your back and trying to go after him...so talk to him..and tell me what happen...
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First of all, you shouldn't really be worrying about your ex (yet.)
First, worry about your friend. Because friends usually come before boyfriends. Well, that's how it is for me.
If she was a true friend, she would stop trying to hook up with him. Talk to her and tell her you still have feelings after you and your ex's break up.
She should understand. Then, start to talk with your ex, and tell him you still love and care for him. And hoping you two would get back together.
But if he just doesn't want too. Then give him some time. Talk to him as friends. Then he will soon realize that you two once had something for eachother.
Hope I helped =]
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If she was a real friend she wouldn't be trying to hook up with him. If she was she would keep a distance from his and your relationship. What you can do is tell your ex. that you still have feelings for him and that you still love him. Tell him that you were having a really hard time and that you really want him back in your life. He probably has the same feelings.
♥ Kailyn
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Nobody who is a real friend would ever consider going for a guy that you like, let alone went out with, without asking your permission first at the very least, so you can rule her out of the equation as a friend. People like that are not worth being friends with because they are only thinking about themselves and not you. Unfortunately, something I can say from experience.
Now, as for the situation with this es of yours, there is really only one thing you can do and that is to get things fixed with him before your ex-friend gets to him. If he likes you as much as you like him then you shouldn't really have anything to worry about and if your ex-friend did get to him first, he wouldn't be interested anyway. However, as soon as you can, you need to sit him down and explain you made a mistake breaking up with him. Tell him that you have really missed him and you only broke up with him because you were going through some stuff and you would like to give things another go.
If you broke up with him, he probably feels the same way so just take a deep breath and go for it. You have nothing to lose.
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well first of all that girl is not really a friend if she will do that and you should tell her that you stil lreally love him and that you think its kind of messed up to do this to her and for the boy well if he really still loves you whats ment to be will find its way =]
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you should tell him, tell him about the hard times (it will let him kno you really care for him) tell him you didn`t mean to do it. don`t give up. best of luck =]
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