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Please Help Me, Im confused and Furious.
Ok well, my mom and dad are divored and have been i just found out ill be spending the summer with my dad, ok well thats not a big deal, but the thing is hes making me go to this place the "YMCA." while he is at work and well i dont know anyone there except my half cousin Alex, and she i know will just leave me there and go off with her friends and i will be alone. please help me i dont want to go, i was BAWLING my eyes out earlier. i want to i just, dont want to go to this YMCA because i know ill just be left alone while the only person i know will wonder off with her friends and i wont be invited. can anyone help me??
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The YMCA is fun. They have dances every first Friday of the month, that's a good thing.
Another thing is that you can make new friends. No worry about the only person you know goes wondering off.
You can make new friends, and make memories of it. Sooner or later, you'll want to go to the YMCA. hehe.
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The reason you think you wont like it there is becuase you sound lke you dont want to like it. Believe it or not it could be the best summer you would ever have. If you go there with confidence that you willl make friends and have fun then you will have fun. Maybe your cousin will run off with her friend but thats no reason for you not to try and make friends. i bet you wont be the only person there for the first time. if you see someon sitting by theirselves then go and talk.
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No way to get out of it? Try and find another program you can do, then suggest it to your dad. (another camp, summer school, babysitting job) Maybe he'll go for it instead of the YMCA. If he doesn't, I assure you, you'll find friends. Just be outgoing and friendly, and you'll have a group of friends in no time. Your half-cousin will then be dying to hang with you, instead of blowing you off. And hey, maybe she won't blow you off, and you and her will become close. You never know.. Just make the best of summer, and it will be fun. I hope this helps and good luck.
-cindy <3
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If she wanders off you will make new friends. Bet it won't take long either.
YMCA has swimming and all kinds of things to do there. It might be fun to spend the days there. :)
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