this kid keeps horrasing me about somthing he shouldnt be because its nothing funny at all.i actually have an awsome sence of humor.but this isnt funny.he wasnt supposed to find out and its making me mad cuz like we were cool and all but like in phys. ed he will like pull my hair (not mean just so i would look at him)..and like when i walk to my bus he goes "haha you were rapped"(he does this wen i pass his bus and hes looking out of the window)..and i dunno what to do!! ps im not telling any authorities or anything
and im trying to get my friend to beat him up..but im not sure he wants to..so idk
Jess_babii_06 answered Friday May 19 2006, 3:14 pm: if i was you i wouldnt try to get anybody to beat him up thats going to make matters worse. But when he says these things to you try your best to hold everything in and ignore him. Bullies love making people mad and if you hold it in and act like its not bothering you then maybe eventually he'll get enough of it and stop.
hope i helped!!
<3Jessica<3 [ Jess_babii_06's advice column | Ask Jess_babii_06 A Question ]
mexsmiles answered Friday May 19 2006, 4:39 am: my advice to you is like the other comment said tell him your going to tell an adult just so happen to mention to him that harrassment like that can get you into big trouble and it really can honey kharma's nothing to deal with as a matter of fact i feel bad for that kid cuz come on who's really that mean i wouldn't have anyone try to beat him up that would just make matters worse act like it doesn't bother you bullies like that they strive on the reaction of the victim which means if you show him it makes you feel bad he'll keep doing it just don't pay any attention to him you would do good to forget all about him sooner or later he'll forget it to. [ mexsmiles's advice column | Ask mexsmiles A Question ]
babiigirl answered Thursday May 18 2006, 7:21 pm: Getting another kid to beat this kid up is not the answer. This kid does this because he knows it bothers you and pisses you off. When he says thigns to you that bother you try to hold it in. Its hard but the more you hold it in && he cant tell that its bothering you eventually he will give up.
CiNdYLoUwHoO answered Thursday May 18 2006, 6:37 pm: You're right, this is definately not a funny situation. Don't get someone to beat him up about it. No matter how corny and weird this may sound, violence is not the answer. If I were you, I would talk to this kid who's harrasing you. Tell him if he doesn't stop you'll get an adult involved. (even if its just a threat it'll get through to him) Good luck and I hope this helps.
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Skentelbery9 answered Thursday May 18 2006, 6:34 pm: Ahaha I know exactly the kind of kid you're talking about. As a matter of fact, about 6 or 7 of them are in my gym class. Thing is is they're not trying to be mean they're playing a game with you. They get a kick out of your reaction. Beating the shit out of them, no matter how much fun it is, isn't going to help. Really you just have to beat them at their own game, that game, being being an asshole, is fairly simple. Find out how to offend them, and then make them miserable. Trust me, I had to do this with all of them. Well, all but one of them, he was the one I beat the shit out of to find out it didn't work. Anyways. In sports just like don't pass them the ball when they're open, and laugh at them when they screw up. It sounds horribly mean, but it's the best way to make it stop. They're trying to apply pressure in places that hurt, and the only way to stop it is to apply more pressure back at them. Give it a go. Can't hurt I guess. Anyways, good luck.
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