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13/F
I have to do a history project in a group. There are three other people in my group, and two of them are horrible. Not only do they not do any work, their fooling around is totally distracting. The project is due soon and I'm going insane. Any advice on what to do? (link)
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OOO bummer well i know that when i was in school ppl that tried stuff like that on me i'd give them a certain assignment to do for the project. I'd keep asking if it was done until it was.
But also another approach maybe talk to your teacher on the side, let them know whats going on, if your doing all the work they shouldn't get credit for the project. Don't let them stomp on you. sorry i hoped i helped.
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13/f
alright so my best friends name is jess. we have been best friends since 4th grade. but lately, i dont know whats gotten into her. she neber eats lunch anymore and when she does its a pretzel. she doesnt sit next to me at lunch like she used to. you would think that she would because we only have 1 class together. i dont know whats going on. now shes turning into a complete anorexic hoe. she wears jeans wayy too tight and her shirts are way to low cut and tight. i have tried talking to her about it but she doesnt take me seriously and she gets mad. and she also keeps blowing me off to go hang out with someone else. dont tell me to drop her because i dont want to do that. she has really changed. i dont know what to do. (link)
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Seems to be that your best friend might have new interest. Sad as it is, people change and theres nothing that we can do about it. You seem to really care for her so maybe go to her house sometime sit and see what is going on with her. let her know that you guys have been friends for to long to stop now. Most importantly, i noticed you mentioned her not eating regularly, thats not good at her age remind her of the hazards that come with eating disorders. I wish you luck really hope you let me know what happens. GOOD LUCK.
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How much every day should a boyfriend and girlfriend talk on the phone? We go to different schools but live 10 minutes away. We're 16.
Thank you. =) (link)
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i say as much as you want. it really doesn't matter just whenever you get to missing each other. good luck hope i helped!!
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My bf has a real mean streak in him when it comes to gay people. Well he told me one day that every time Queer Eye For The Straight Guy came on tv he felt like throwing his boot threw the screen. He also said he wanted to hurt Boy George every time one of his songs came on the radio; and when I told him I liked Will and Grace he gave me the dirtiest look. He doesnt just put down gays either he also makes derogatory remarks about women; that we are inferior to men and that they are smarter. It's also the WAY he says these things too; with so much hate in his voice. This one time I jokingly said women were smarter then men and he yelled "prove it"! And then he pulled out a chain linked puzzle. He said if I was so smart I could figure it out under a minute. I couldnt and he yelled "SEE"! Should I break up with him? (link)
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imagine if you don't leave him, it could get worse. I would suggest leaving him let him know your not stupid smart enough to leave his mean sick mind
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i constantly think of killing myself and i dont know how to stop it. i constantly think that everyone hates, me nobodys really my friend, people just use me & try to take advantage of me, im fat, ugly, ill never be happy.. ect. and i cant deal with it anymore cause i really think im becomming suicidal, i used to cut a long time ago but i stopped & now i just like have alot of mood swings witch turn into me wanting to kill myself, like stab myslef or o.d on medicine or something i dont know what to do. my mom says i have depression and i bottle everything up. but i cant deal with it and they want me to go talk to somebody but i cant. i dont like talking to nobody cause i cant trust anyone i cant even trust myself thats how bad it is .. i think negitive of everything and i just need help .. can somebody help me please ?! (link)
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Try not to think that no one loves you, so many people do GOD and your family. There are decent people out there beleive it or not. I'm one of them, i'd love to talk to you. hates a strong word, start hanging with different people do things that you love to do, you never know a friend may be on the way. I'm always here for you. Keep strong don't give up.
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Hey!
Thanks for listing me as a fav. columnist!
What made you do so?
♥ God's Girl (link)
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cuz your freaking hilarious!!
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This is for girls. I want an honest answer; is penis size an important factor in relationships and does it matter? (link)
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depends on who you ask some girls it does matter others it doesn't all in all anything will work really. To me it doesn't good news though i hear that smaller is better!!! I agree
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i am from india.i have been masterbating for a long time im 22yrs 5feet 5inches high 64kilos.what my problem is that i can hav an orgasm as many times i want in a day by rubbing myself on a pillow in the sitting position.but during sex thats not possible.i just dont come during sex.after my partner finishes then i sit on a pillow and come.so please tell me what i should do about this and is it possible for me to come during sex.i feel depressed sometimes because of this. (link)
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have him stimulate you first, sit on it cuz you have all the control play with yourself during if you have to trust me it works!!
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how do i know when i'm experiencing an orgasm. like, when my boyfriend fingers me, it is the best feeling ever and i get really wet but i still don't know how i can tell. when a guy ejeculates he is having one, but how can girls tell for sure that they are? (link)
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try masturbating first you might reach orgasm you will know if you do but experiment and find out for yourself it'll pay off
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i am 15 female.
one of my bestfriends just lost her virginity to her boyfriend and she'll be 15 in a couple of days. i know the guy she lost it to and he's very sweet at times. she told me that his penis was big and fat. wow.lol. she told me it hurt like hell and im really curious about if it should even hurt because i heard only when you're nervous it hurts but she claims she wasn't nervous and wanted to loose her virginity to him right away. why, i have no clue? Could anyone please tell me stories about thier first time and every feeling you had.
to be honest i kind of feel pressured to have sex because everyone around me has either lost it at 12,13,14, and 15. But i know who i am and i know that loosing my virginity won't make me a betta person than i am now..but still im curious about sex...please tell me everything i should know!! thanx in advance (link)
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hey chick good for you!!! you shouldn't feel pressured to do anything you don't wanna do i lost my virginity at 18 i'd always hear my friends stories of their first time when we were 15. I knew i wanted to do it with the person i love and yup we did, we skipped school (which i don't suggest you doing, lol) he beckoned to my needs before his. We have been together for almost 4 years here on the 8th of Sept. It just hurt that one time i bleed maybe a dime size and that was it. after that its just natural. it was awesome i remember that day like yesterday, my suggestion to you wait for the right person it will truly pay off, you seem very smart girly keep on, i'm sure you'll be fine. Its really a beautiful thing only when your ready and your heart will tell ya, best of luck!!
in response to your other questions its sad to say that i wasn't my boyfriends first so he already knew... but than again once after our first time he did ask me if it was it what they do (this may sould gross but...) they grab the head of the penis and basical feel around until they hit the hole if they get the wrong one, yeah it happens, they know its harder to get in. hope i helped really chicky dee its not that bad. once you get used to it its awesome and my god Orgasms are amazing. ;)
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I am a Canadian female age 21. This question is actually for a close friend of mine and she gave me permission to do this. She is having trouble with sex. The guy is having trouble sticking his penis into the whole and making it fit and my friend can't get her bfs penis into her hole either. It is also very painful to try to put it in even a little because she is very tight even when she is aroused. Any ideas on how they can fit into each other to reach penetration? and also how can she make it hurt less?
Thank you.
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lots of lube definately and also foreplay. he should have her bf maybe finger her until she is comfortable enough to try to stick it in,and only stick it in a little at a time,eventually it will stop hurting. I wish her luck and good for her!!
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tell me about tylenol pm how good does it work and everything! (link)
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tylenol pm works great take one the first time than after a while start taking two. Helps wonders good for when your stressed and need the sleep headaches go away fast.
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Can you get pregnant if he cum`s in you & right after you clean yourself off. Could there be a chance that I can get pregnant after having sex twice. (link)
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the answer to your question is yes. It only takes one time to get pregnant if you didn't use a condom most likely you better see a doctor. Even if you clean up sperm can live for a few days inside a womans u know what. Again you may want to see a doctor.
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My boyfriend has another girlfriend and I known this from the start it piss`s me off but I love him to much to leave him and stuff but his bestfriend/cousin said I have to make him like me more then her. But I just don`t know how to do that. What should I wear, what should I say and do. got any advise please help me out :[ (link)
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hi, in regards to your question, its sad that he has another girlfriend and yet your still with him. honey, if he's dating someone else that means he obviously doesn't really care for you. If he did he would have left her for you. Again i'm really sorry to have to tell you but its true. My opinion girl you can do sooooo much better than someone like him, i know you love him but put yourself before anything you don't deserve to be hurt like that. Pamper yourself, looking super hot one day and dump his ass!!! If he really loves you he will come to you, make him suffer like he makes you. ;)
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i got a myspace account a couple days ago. i decided i don't want it anymore.
how do i delete it? (link)
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go to myspace help option for delete is given
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Whats the point of putting water in a water bong?
I know it makes a noise lol but does the water somehow make you more high? (link)
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okay your question made me laugh cuz i always wondered the same thing, i asked a professional, my boyfriend lol. Yes the water basically denses the smoke thats why you get more high. Cool huh. ;)
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My boyfriend and I have been having sex only for a few weeks now. He's been enjoying it very much and it doesn't take him long to 'cum'. I see no pleasure in it at all. It doesn't hurt any longer, it's just...blah. Why is this happening? Is this on my part or his? I was a virgin before him and I thought sex was supposed to be amazing when you're in love! (link)
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I would suggest try something new, be creative, its sex!! lol no really though try something new talk to each other see what you do and don't like. My boyfriend was my first and i can't get enough, its the best thing you can do. ;)
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Ohhhhhhkay. So my boyfriend and I have been together for awhile - I'm 18/f, by the way - and in the beginning of our relationship, I thought his mom liked me.
I even heard her say she did once. But as we've been together longer, I've gotten to know her better and I don't really like her...I mean I do, but there are things she does and says that I really, really don't like. I think she's picked up on that, and she doesn't like me.
I don't know if that's WHY she doesn't like me, or if she's one of those "no one's good enough for my baby!" types of moms, but whatever the reason, I think she dislikes me. I've also been told she doesn't like any of his girlfriends.
His dad seemed to like me too, but I'm not sure about that, either, now.
I...guess I want to win them over, but I'm not sure how. I've never had the issue where a boyfriend's parents didn't like me. It's usually my parents that don't like my boyfriends, but they like him this time. Odd.
At first it didn't matter to me at all, because I wasn't really in this for something serious, but it kinda got serious, and now I care...which is kinda bad...help?
Good spelling and grammar please...! (link)
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My boyfriends mom was the exact same way, i managed to get to the bottom of everything and she said, its because she felt i am taking her place in her childs life now she knows thats not what i was trying to do and we managed to work around it but the only way to fix what you've got going on, talk to her its the best thing you could ever do, not just for her mainly for yourself.
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this kid keeps horrasing me about somthing he shouldnt be because its nothing funny at all.i actually have an awsome sence of humor.but this isnt funny.he wasnt supposed to find out and its making me mad cuz like we were cool and all but like in phys. ed he will like pull my hair (not mean just so i would look at him)..and like when i walk to my bus he goes "haha you were rapped"(he does this wen i pass his bus and hes looking out of the window)..and i dunno what to do!! ps im not telling any authorities or anything
and im trying to get my friend to beat him up..but im not sure he wants to..so idk (link)
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my advice to you is like the other comment said tell him your going to tell an adult just so happen to mention to him that harrassment like that can get you into big trouble and it really can honey kharma's nothing to deal with as a matter of fact i feel bad for that kid cuz come on who's really that mean i wouldn't have anyone try to beat him up that would just make matters worse act like it doesn't bother you bullies like that they strive on the reaction of the victim which means if you show him it makes you feel bad he'll keep doing it just don't pay any attention to him you would do good to forget all about him sooner or later he'll forget it to.
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I am not sure but i think it might be possible that i could have genital warts.. there is only one spot but the thing is that there is no way i could have been infected from someone else because its been there since before i have been at all sexually active. i have done some research but i am not sure is it possible that the disease is hereditary and i could have gotten it from a parent or do i have nothing to worry about... please help, its been making me really nervous around my girlfriend and i have been avoiding going too far because of it (link)
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i'd suggest talking to a gynocologist about your problem only they can tell you if you have genital warts or not. poeple don't always get it from sex sometimes it can be transferred in the wierdest ways but do your self good by seeing a doctor it'll help
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