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I am a Canadian female age 21. This question is actually for a close friend of mine and she gave me permission to do this. She is having trouble with sex. The guy is having trouble sticking his penis into the whole and making it fit and my friend can't get her bfs penis into her hole either. It is also very painful to try to put it in even a little because she is very tight even when she is aroused. Any ideas on how they can fit into each other to reach penetration? and also how can she make it hurt less?
Thank you.
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If it isn't just an issue with lubrication it could be something medical. There is a medical/psychological condition many woman have where they "close up" when they anticipate penetration, even if they really do want to have sex. This can me diagnosed by a doctor or perhaps a sex therapist. Tell her no to be afraid or embarassed to seek help because she isn't the only one who has to deal with it, and she shouldn't have to.
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lots of lube definately and also foreplay. he should have her bf maybe finger her until she is comfortable enough to try to stick it in,and only stick it in a little at a time,eventually it will stop hurting. I wish her luck and good for her!!
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Welp. Its gunna hurt. To some people it doesnt, and others it does. It hurt for me the first 3 times. The most she can do is just keep trying && maybe force it in a little. Tell her to try to go on top and get it in herself. I tried that, it only worked a little for me. Hopefully she'll have better luck. Uhm, and remember to be RELAXED! It hurts soo much if youre all tense. Tell her to also use bunches of lube and doo tons of foreplay before hand.
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Good luck
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