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idk whats happening to my "bff"
13/f
alright so my best friends name is jess. we have been best friends since 4th grade. but lately, i dont know whats gotten into her. she neber eats lunch anymore and when she does its a pretzel. she doesnt sit next to me at lunch like she used to. you would think that she would because we only have 1 class together. i dont know whats going on. now shes turning into a complete anorexic hoe. she wears jeans wayy too tight and her shirts are way to low cut and tight. i have tried talking to her about it but she doesnt take me seriously and she gets mad. and she also keeps blowing me off to go hang out with someone else. dont tell me to drop her because i dont want to do that. she has really changed. i dont know what to do.
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i noticed you said you only have one class with her. i have 3 classes with my best friend and everythings great till she goes to lunch with her other best friend who i dont get along with. and i totally know how you feel about the blowing off part. what i did was hang more with other people and tried to get her jealous but it doesnt work so dont try that. but mostly you should talk to her more and say hey dont take this too seriously and dont get mad i just dont want to lose my friend since 4th grade and just tell her how you feel. dont make it seem your mad at you although u might be but just show you really care
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Seems to be that your best friend might have new interest. Sad as it is, people change and theres nothing that we can do about it. You seem to really care for her so maybe go to her house sometime sit and see what is going on with her. let her know that you guys have been friends for to long to stop now. Most importantly, i noticed you mentioned her not eating regularly, thats not good at her age remind her of the hazards that come with eating disorders. I wish you luck really hope you let me know what happens. GOOD LUCK.
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