about

Thats me Chrissy. when you ask me about your problems you might want to here something different then what i might answer. but i will only answer the real thing. i will answer with what i think is best what i really honestly think you should do. Dancing is my life. you might want to know im 13/F almost 14 in feburary. i have the greatest friends and not to mention boyfriend who goes by the name Jared.
ask me anything about dance, school, myspace, friends, relation ships, anything. instant message me, email me, add me on myspace. im always here to help. my best answers are about love life towards friends and family and relations ships. and ever better answers towards dance or muscle pains. need help on make-up ask clouded-bluee. on my favorite columnists shes one of my best friends. and other then her as my best friend i have ashley cassidy jason erin and taylor. they helped me through everything of teenage years and still got six years of them helping me through it.

advice

how do i make like a band profile on myspace, because i want to get certain songs but they dont have them so my friend told me to make my own one of those things but i dont know how, so yea if anyone knows how to do it, or a website i could go to to do that please help. thanks in advance.

when u click on music. somehwere it sys make a band profile

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my hair is blonde and just below my shoulder, it's natuarlly straight. what are some good styles for it? pictures and step by step instructions would be great!! :] thanks

1.) messy buns are so cute
2.) half pony tails cute
3.) scruntch it once in a while real cute

some websites:
http://www.totalhair.net/
http://www.hairfinder.com/
http://www.hair-styles.org/

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I have really dark hair & brown eyes & somewhat tan what shades of eye shadow would I use?

awe lighter color would look cute.

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how much make up should a 14 year old wear?

*&& if so, could you please tell me in steps? im new at this lol!

thank you !

oooh. 14 year old hmm not alot. theres 13 year old & 12 year olds that wear bronzer cover up eye liner on top and bottom eye shadow sparkles lip balm lip gloss. thats alot. soon their skin broke out. i use to wear the eye liner shadow and everythin i stoped as soon as i go the first pimple of my life. i was horrified that i was braking out more. i was even more horified when a kid said i had a uni brow of pimple. HORRIBLE. dont wear alot.

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Hey all! I for some reason can't figure out what to do with my make-up!!! I have lately just been doing the eye-liner and that's it. I need some ideas that aren't crazy or anything but something that would look good. I have Brown / Blonde hair (High and Lowlights) Brown Eyes and I'm pretty pale, but not goth pale. LoL I have SOME color to me. But help please...

alot of makeup stores do your make-up
ask em to do your make up
you possibly will like it since they find the right skin tone of cover up they might have a eye shadow that goes good with your eyes.

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i need a new screen name. mine is really boring. can anyone think of a good one? my name is em if that should go in it.

hmm. try Em Ah Lee with sum numbers !

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Okay so I have liked this guy named Braden for about 4 weeks but i never told anyone. About a week ago my bestfriend Katie told me that she liked Braden. He doesnt like her back like that at all. He flirts with me alot and I really like him. I talk about him a lot and my bestfriend can tell that we flirt because he calls me sometimes and we're always talking at school. Katie has even kiddingly said if you ever did anything with Brayden you know i would be really mad at you. i told her its not like that with me and braden at all but i dont know if she believes me. I dont want to hurt Katie but i really like brayden. How should i work it out

wow. thats a tuff one. really you should tell katie i liked him about 4 weeks ago but never told anyone. she might say its okey she might say but i like him eitgher way shell probably be mad at you. ask her "would you really get mad if i were to do anything with braden" if she says yes and you really dont wanna hert her HOES BEFORE BROZ you might wanna stick to your best friend where if anything happened with him and shes mad she wouldnt be at your side to help you through it.

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Okay so I have liked this guy named Braden for about 4 weeks but i never told anyone. About a week ago my bestfriend Katie told me that she liked Braden. He doesnt like her back like that at all. He flirts with me alot and I really like him. I talk about him a lot and my bestfriend can tell that we flirt because he calls me sometimes and we're always talking at school. Katie has even kiddingly said if you ever did anything with Brayden you know i would be really mad at you. i told her its not like that with me and braden at all but i dont know if she believes me. I dont want to hurt Katie but i really like brayden. How should i work it out

wow. thats a tuff one. really you should tell katie i liked him about 4 weeks ago but never told anyone. she might say its okey she might say but i like him eitgher way shell probably be mad at you. ask her "would you really get mad if i were to do anything with braden" if she says yes and you really dont wanna hert her HOES BEFORE BROZ you might wanna stick to your best friend where if anything happened with him and shes mad she wouldnt be at your side to help you through it.

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Okay so I have liked this guy named Braden for about 4 weeks but i never told anyone. About a week ago my bestfriend Katie told me that she liked Braden. He doesnt like her back like that at all. He flirts with me alot and I really like him. I talk about him a lot and my bestfriend can tell that we flirt because he calls me sometimes and we're always talking at school. Katie has even kiddingly said if you ever did anything with Brayden you know i would be really mad at you. i told her its not like that with me and braden at all but i dont know if she believes me. I dont want to hurt Katie but i really like brayden. How should i work it out

wow. thats a tuff one. really you should tell katie i liked him about 4 weeks ago but never told anyone. she might say its okey she might say but i like him eitgher way shell probably be mad at you. ask her "would you really get mad if i were to do anything with braden" if she says yes and you really dont wanna hert her HOES BEFORE BROZ you might wanna stick to your best friend where if anything happened with him and shes mad she wouldnt be at your side to help you through it.

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I am playing about 15 or more hours of soccer a week and i recently got elbowed in my arm. It hurts alot. I figured that I would just rest it and it would feel better, but the other day by friend bumped into my arm and i started hysterical crying. I dont think its supposed to hurt that bad. Does anybody know what i should do? ok, thanksss.

you probably have a bruise really deep in to your arm.

might even have a bruise on a muscle in your arm
^if so at wal-mart target k-mart there is this stuff called mountain blue put it on your sore spot.

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i like this really cute guy. i talk to him but i want him to like me more. does anyone know any tricks on how to get the guy you like? ty 13/f

1.) give him clues
2.) dont start the conversation first
(let him walk up to you and say hey)
3.) BE YOUR SELF

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13/f

OK, my boyfriend and i have been going out for 3 months. Well, a lot of girls in my school like hiim. They always talk to him and flirt with him, and he flirts and talks back. I have asked him many times to stop and he claims hes just talking. But all my friends keep telling me that he always does this. Plus, he told me he thinks other girls are hot. Should I end our relationship? I am getting really mad at him about this and need help!

hmm. maybe you should ask him do you like me or like the girls you think are hot. of course hell probably answer he likes you because your his girlfriend. but im also 13 almost 14 in febuary. i have to tell ya girls our ago need to calm down about relation ships. you are never going to be inlove at this age and if anyone thinks they are GOD BLESS THEM. because you know if anyone our ago brakes up they will end up liking each other again. take it from a 13 year old who knows i went out with one kid about 15 times.

maybe you two need a brke and see what happens
1.) does he flirt more with them
2.) does he look sad
3.) doe he look rather happy
4.) is trying to talk to you saying WHY
5.) is he paying a little more attention towards you ( could be a sign he actually cared for you)

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ok so i reallyy reallyy like my brothers bestfriend. im 13 and hes 15 but the thing is hes against dating sisters. i reallyy like him and hes wickkedd hott. i dont know what he thinks about me but like he always talks to me and we even have our own little jokes. i dont know what to do! i reallllyyyyy like him HELPP!

to tell you the truth i had the same problem hes probably being nice and you have your own jokes because hes your brothers friends.

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i have been with my boyfriend for almost a year but im starting to have major feelings for an ex boyfriend. i know its very bad of me but my boyfriend now just isnt making me happy anymore and i dont know what to do. my boyfriend lies to me about everything so im to the point i dont know whats real and whats a lie. hes lied about smoking (twice), going to a party, going to school, and to as stupid as how much he spends on something. i just dont understand. he tells me hell change but hes said that since day one and it continues. also on two occasions he didnt go to school once i found an earring and the other time i found an ankle bracelet. i asked whose it was and he told me he didnt know. i told him i thought he was cheating on me and he got all mad and said he wasnt. im just not happy anymore. i love him to death though. but my ex boyfriend and me have been talking the past 3 days and im not sure whats gonna happen but hes making me so happy. ive been smiling nonstop and hes making me feel whole i talked to him yesterday from 1:30 pm all the way til 5 am nonstop. on the internet and phone. i just dont know what to do. i dont want to hurt my boyfriend but in the same sense im not happy. but i dont wanna rush it with my ex boyfriend either. please help me

awe. you said your not happy. if your not happy and he lies to you. he aint worth it. im not trying to say brake up with him but from what your telling me if seems you care more about the ex-byofriend and it also seems you know the right thing to do if probably talk to the ex-boyfriend about if he likes you too. i will help you through this all. talk to your boyfriend now more and say hey you been lieing to me im pretty sure your cheating on me and i aint happy.

chrissy =]

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How do you tell your 8th grade crush you like them and your in the 6th grade.does age matter.what do i do?help.

awe. ge doesnt matter unless of course hes like a senior. but hhis 8th grade. im a 8th grader i no how boys my age are so. just ask me any qouestion when you need. help.

just tell him you like him
but dont have your friends do it for you
it doesnt turn out to well
he might like you
you never know
just tell him you like him
he might like you told him on your own and he might like you after that

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ABOUT ME! I'm 14 years old, slender, and young. I'm about 5 feet tall also.

QUESTION: How do you loose body fat around your stomach? Is it true that if you do a lot of sit ups each day, your stomach fat will be gone? What are things I could do, and eat so I won't gain more fat, and loose more fat.

Thanks beforehand!

well. i have the same problem
i hate that fat
and ya i aint fat at all
im a dancer and me and my friend ask our teacher
what can we do to get rid of it. she answered sit up/crunches would do it.

when we do sit ups/crunches at dance we start regular position then raise our legs straight then back down. if you put your legs in different positions it helps better to get abs and the fat to go away. try 100 a day. i do 100 everyday and i realized i lost some fat from just starting aawhile ago.


please dont think itll go away like before you snap your fingers it will take a few weeks

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my boyfriend and i had a fight last night- i was mad at him and this morning i got a text asking: is this it? is this over? wat should i say? i dunno if he wants to im so confuzed plz help!

if hes asking you hes probably scard its over. if you want it to be over then follow your heart and tell him its over. but dont let a silly fight get in between a relation ship with your boyfriend or your friend.

you will end up fighting with your boyfriends and when you get married even worse fighting. sure you might get in a fight but if you really dont know what to do maybe that isnt what you should do. especially it might be a silly fight to dump someone over.

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school just started a month and a week ago, im already failing EVERy subject. im trying to get into another high school. but i need straight A's for that. now there testing me for a disablty or something. i just wanna get good grades. i know im not mentally retarded. does anyone have any advice about how i can get REALLY good grades?

i once had that problem last year. i was fine in the beginning of the year then towards the middle and end i started getting bad grades my first F and i realized it was because that was when i started hanging out with other people. and i was always talking to them passing notes to them. now what im not tryin to say get new friends. but your friends can be a big reason why you get bad grades. because for one you might be talkin to them like me and not payin attenchion.



so maybe you pay attenchion alot. and if you have a question ASK!
tell me how it goes

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Ok so this is really a question but also advice.
So there’s this boy in my Church group and I think he likes me but I’m not sure.
This one time (the first time I laid eyes on him) he kept smiling at me. And even when he knew I was looking he was still smiling for a few moments and I did too. But then looked away. Then later he asked if he could trade spots with the guy next to me so he could “talk to the other guy next to him” the guy said no though. But anyway, today I came in and I all the seats were rounded in a circle and so I walked in and there was a seat right infrount of me. It looked like all the other seats were taken. And it was right by him. I don’t know if he was saving a seat for me because his stuff was there and he moved them when he saw me come in. But I’m not sure. So then I sat down. And he actually started talking to me. and he asked me "Is that liipgloss?" he was mentining my keychain that had lipgloss on it. and I answered "Maaaabey" beacuse I thought yes sounded to cheesy and no sounded well rude and whatever. he smiled and said "can I use some? I need some" he said joking ly. He was smiling I could tell he was joking.so I'm like "yea...sure!" I said sarcasticly with a smile. at that moment I liked him. also his full attenetion was on me smiling. Then the teacher told me I got to go o the trip friady. "your going?" he asked. then said cool. he put his hand up for a high five So i highfived him. He asked me questions and asked if he could see my phone. Then I cought him once or twice lookling at me. And I’m not sure but I THINK I saw him put his foot near mine. But I was looking up, but I think I saw it at the end of my eye but I’m not sure. So mabee that doesn’t count.later when I was bored I forgot about the lipgloss convo and put some on. "So it is lipgloss!" he said jokeingly. I smiled. " you know I still need some." he said then laughed. I laughed too. So does he like me???

i totally think he likes you. and by the way who is this. i agree with you when you say you think he saved you spot. I THINK SO TOO. i think he likes he. and i think it might just be a lot.
tell me how things go. ILL HELP YOU THROUGH IT ALL. so tell me =]

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is it a bad idea to use pads when you are cheerleading? thankss..

not bad at all. i wear pads at dance class.

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