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Question Posted Monday October 9 2006, 6:28 pm
Ok so this is really a question but also advice.
So there’s this boy in my Church group and I think he likes me but I’m not sure.
This one time (the first time I laid eyes on him) he kept smiling at me. And even when he knew I was looking he was still smiling for a few moments and I did too. But then looked away. Then later he asked if he could trade spots with the guy next to me so he could “talk to the other guy next to him” the guy said no though. But anyway, today I came in and I all the seats were rounded in a circle and so I walked in and there was a seat right infrount of me. It looked like all the other seats were taken. And it was right by him. I don’t know if he was saving a seat for me because his stuff was there and he moved them when he saw me come in. But I’m not sure. So then I sat down. And he actually started talking to me. and he asked me "Is that liipgloss?" he was mentining my keychain that had lipgloss on it. and I answered "Maaaabey" beacuse I thought yes sounded to cheesy and no sounded well rude and whatever. he smiled and said "can I use some? I need some" he said joking ly. He was smiling I could tell he was joking.so I'm like "yea...sure!" I said sarcasticly with a smile. at that moment I liked him. also his full attenetion was on me smiling. Then the teacher told me I got to go o the trip friady. "your going?" he asked. then said cool. he put his hand up for a high five So i highfived him. He asked me questions and asked if he could see my phone. Then I cought him once or twice lookling at me. And I’m not sure but I THINK I saw him put his foot near mine. But I was looking up, but I think I saw it at the end of my eye but I’m not sure. So mabee that doesn’t count.later when I was bored I forgot about the lipgloss convo and put some on. "So it is lipgloss!" he said jokeingly. I smiled. " you know I still need some." he said then laughed. I laughed too. So does he like me???
crissyx3 answered Saturday October 14 2006, 12:07 pm: awe. this guy sounds like a suhweetie. my guess is that he does like you because if he didn't, why would he go to all the trouble to save you a seat, and talk and joke around with you. he was teasing you, so thats a sure sign he likes you. and my guess is that when he saw you put on the lip gloss& said 'i still need some', he wanted you to kiss him because thats one of those things that guys use to get to girls they like. =]. so i think you& this guy pretty much like each other..and maybe you should ask him if he likes you& if he says yes, hey great!! but if he says nahh, i was just joking around, i wanna be just friends, then play it off& maybe he was just joking around before.
but i am still VERYY sure that he likes you =].
Hope this helps, good luck!!;; xx [ crissyx3's advice column | Ask crissyx3 A Question ]
PrePPyBiatcH411 answered Friday October 13 2006, 8:38 pm: yeah of corse.i think he is to shy to ask you out though,so make the first move and go for it.i thing that you can get a good relationship if it goes all right! i hope my advice works!!=] [ PrePPyBiatcH411's advice column | Ask PrePPyBiatcH411 A Question ]
unluckychick answered Friday October 13 2006, 5:10 pm: Ok...personally if I were to say those kind of things to someone I would have to like them somewhat at least as a friend...
I'll try to give you some definitions of the signs...
Interest in you: Ok...this is a good sign that he does like you...I can't tell how much by your text, I'd have to see it.
Smiling: This is a number one sign of likeness...once again, I can't tell how much by your text, I'd have to see it.
High five: This is a typical friends gesture, we all do it...
Lauging: Depends on how he laughed, like if it was sarcastic, then no...but if it was really laughing or giggling in a guy way..then yes.
Footsies: This means he wants to get closer to you, in what way I'm not too sure.
All this to say that I think he does like you and if you think it will work out for you, ask him out to the movies or something like that. Hope this helped.
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AshleyH answered Thursday October 12 2006, 11:17 pm: It sounds like he really does like you. How old are you? If you are old enough to date, you could ask him if he wants to go out and get coffee or a smoothie or something. It sounds like a good beginning. :) Good luck if you decide to pursue this. [ AshleyH's advice column | Ask AshleyH A Question ]
ADViCELOLA answered Thursday October 12 2006, 9:45 pm: that sure seems like it. it souds like there was a lot of flirting going on. i think that he does like, but just to know for sure, keep talking to him, but don`t make it obvious that you like him. seriously it really does sound like he likes you. go for it girl. [ ADViCELOLA's advice column | Ask ADViCELOLA A Question ]
ChrissyK answered Thursday October 12 2006, 9:39 pm: i totally think he likes you. and by the way who is this. i agree with you when you say you think he saved you spot. I THINK SO TOO. i think he likes he. and i think it might just be a lot.
tell me how things go. ILL HELP YOU THROUGH IT ALL. so tell me =] [ ChrissyK's advice column | Ask ChrissyK A Question ]
thelaura answered Wednesday October 11 2006, 7:00 pm: Well, this guy is certainly interested in you, seeing as he saved you a seat and is making conversation with you alot!
Seems to me like he wants to get to know you more and either wants you as a friend, or quite possibly something more.
Carry on as you are with him (talking etc) and if you like him, it could be worth asking him to hang out etc sometime! (If he doesn't ask you already)
Best of luck. [ thelaura's advice column | Ask thelaura A Question ]
adviice_whore answered Tuesday October 10 2006, 6:55 am: this boy is head over heels for you hun! he seems like a very nice guy you should deff. get to kno him more. ask for his number or something and show that you like him like he does to you because there is no doubt he likes you! [ adviice_whore's advice column | Ask adviice_whore A Question ]
MorganBerry answered Monday October 9 2006, 9:51 pm: Whoa! He is totally into you! When he moved his stuff off the seat so you could sit there, thats a good sign! That means he wants you to seat near him. He was totally flirting with you!
MelLeDisko answered Monday October 9 2006, 9:39 pm: It sounds to me like he likes you alot, but with the high-five thing, that sounds just sort of friendly. But I mean, I've never seen a guy save seats like that for just girls who are friends or stare at them a few times and keep on smiling.
I would start flirting with him more and seeing how he reacts and if he flirts back. And just compliment him and everything and like I said be flirty, and just see where it goes. If he starts showing you alot of attention and hugging you and sitting close to you, and paying you compliments and flirting back, then I'd definetely say he likes you!
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