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Last Update: October 12, 2006
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Ok so this is really a question but also advice.
So there’s this boy in my Church group and I think he likes me but I’m not sure.
This one time (the first time I laid eyes on him) he kept smiling at me. And even when he knew I was looking he was still smiling for a few moments and I did too. But then looked away. Then later he asked if he could trade spots with the guy next to me so he could “talk to the other guy next to him” the guy said no though. But anyway, today I came in and I all the seats were rounded in a circle and so I walked in and there was a seat right infrount of me. It looked like all the other seats were taken. And it was right by him. I don’t know if he was saving a seat for me because his stuff was there and he moved them when he saw me come in. But I’m not sure. So then I sat down. And he actually started talking to me. and he asked me "Is that liipgloss?" he was mentining my keychain that had lipgloss on it. and I answered "Maaaabey" beacuse I thought yes sounded to cheesy and no sounded well rude and whatever. he smiled and said "can I use some? I need some" he said joking ly. He was smiling I could tell he was joking.so I'm like "yea...sure!" I said sarcasticly with a smile. at that moment I liked him. also his full attenetion was on me smiling. Then the teacher told me I got to go o the trip friady. "your going?" he asked. then said cool. he put his hand up for a high five So i highfived him. He asked me questions and asked if he could see my phone. Then I cought him once or twice lookling at me. And I’m not sure but I THINK I saw him put his foot near mine. But I was looking up, but I think I saw it at the end of my eye but I’m not sure. So mabee that doesn’t count.later when I was bored I forgot about the lipgloss convo and put some on. "So it is lipgloss!" he said jokeingly. I smiled. " you know I still need some." he said then laughed. I laughed too. So does he like me??? (link)
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It sounds like he really does like you. How old are you? If you are old enough to date, you could ask him if he wants to go out and get coffee or a smoothie or something. It sounds like a good beginning. :) Good luck if you decide to pursue this.
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i am so confused. for some reason, i have these "urges" to make out with my friend, have sex with her, and like take showers with her and stuff like that. the thing is, i have this HUGE crush on this guy like a huge one. i have had boyfriends in the passed. i have no feelings for my freind. none at all, i don't like her like her. so then why do i have these urges? is it normal?
ps: i know i'm not bisexual. (link)
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I'm not saying that you're bisexual, but I must question why you would state "i know i'm not bisexual" as if it were such a horrible thing. It's not. There's nothing wrong with it.
A lot of girls go through these kinds of feelings, and it's really not a big deal. It will eventually pass, and if it doesn't, you may just be lesbian or bisexual.
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Pete and I talk, and he's a pretty decent guy. He always tells me I'm hot and sexy, but he's also cool to talk to. The only problem is, he smokes pot. I would never do pot, and he knows that. I don't know if I should stop talking to him because of that or what. I also know my friends would think he was a druggie and would tell me to stop talking to him. Help? (link)
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Due to prior experience, I don't recommend getting into an intimate/more than friends relationship with a "pot smoker", however, I have a lot of friends that smoke pot that don't pressure me to partake.
It really depends on where you're from, because where I'm from, pot smoking isn't that big of a deal. I've never smoked before, and I don't advocate it, I'm just saying not to judge him because of his habit, that he will most likely outgrow.
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hey iam 17 and iam going to universal studios in october and my mom said i could go since my cousin is taking me,but she said i couldn't ride any of the rides while iam there.I mean what's the point of even going if i can't ride the rides that's the whole point of even going she treats me like iam a baby but iam not how can i convince my mom to let me ride some of the rides thankyou. (link)
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I really don't understand your mother's reasoning, but she sounds a bit unreasonable.
If she's really set in her ways, I don't think anybody can say anything to convince her otherwise.
But, I really don't understand the purpose of going to an amusement park and not being able to ride any of the rides. (unless it's due to a health issue)
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hi.
i'm 13 years old and i'm about 5'5". yet i weigh about 200 pounds. i am really overweight, i know. a lot of it seems like muscle, because i am really strong. but i really wanna loose weight because i am getting stretch marks everywhere and i sweat like crazy. i leave sweat marks on my chairs at schooland it's so embarassing!
i play basketball every winter and ive done track and field, gymnastics, cheerleading, football, and soccer. but even if i do sports i can't seem to loose weight.
it's not a thiroid problem either because i've already had those tests done. i eat healthy too. i have multi-grain bars for breakfast and lunch and for dinner i usually have some kind of meat with some sort of side dish.
i really need to loose weight because i have a really important dance at the end of the year and i want to look really good in my dress.
please give me advice, i really really need advice on how to loose weight!! (link)
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My sister has this problem too, and her case is very much like yours. There are lotions you can use on stretch marks, and as for sweat, all I can do is recommend a good deodorant/antiperspirant called Ban. It's green, and it works well for me.
Keep working out, keep eating healthy. Maybe do more cardio than anything. Cardio will get your heart rate up, and will help you lose weight.
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Can you get a tan during the spring, winter, and fall?
Thank you in advance. (link)
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You can get a tan during any season, even if it's cloudy outside. As long as the sun is shining, you can get a tan (or get sunburned).
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