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does anymore know any good household products at home that can get well this is a little embarassing but blood stains out of your underwear? (link)
To remove bloodstains, simply soak your undies in a basin of of very cold water. if this doesn't work than you could go to a bit more extreme measures and soak your undies in bleach! lol! i hope i have helped out


I got a new laptop today. A guy at my mom's work left it there when he moved, and he has been contacted for about a year to come get it. He didn't come back to get it and my mom's company has been sold, so she brought the laptop home for me! The only problem is that there is a password. We don't know the password.

Is there a way to completely erase everything on the laptop, password included?

Thank you. (link)
all you have to do is reinstall windows and you should be just fine. all you have to do is put the windows cd in the cd drive and start installing!


hey iam a 22 year old girl in a muslim coutry where a girl's virginity is very important and an intact hymen has to be preserved till marriage.
now i've had several relationships in which i made out with my bfs & there was penetartion sevral times but i never bled or felt pain the penius goes in smoothly & i did'nt reach an orgasm.i really want to know if iam still a virgin coz i heard tht some people have elastic hymens & tht it does'nt have 2 b broken??? how do i check my hymen & i can't go to a gyno. i really need help please give me some advice. (link)
it doesn't matter whether its broken or not, youv'e broken the rules of islam and you will suffer dearly. your what people like to call a "slut" because by printing this info on the net you have given yourself a bad name and islam a bad name. people like you should be stoned. i hate your guts. die bitch!!! die! die! die! and by the way if you are fasting it won't get accepted. you should pray for forgiveness for the rest of your life! you disgust me so much to the point where i want to puke. how dare you talk about your 'personal' life on the internet. and by the way it doesn't matter if your hymen has broken or not you still did what you did. i dont care if you give me bad feedback. people should be warned about you so they don't make the mistake of marrying a stupid whore. you have maken the biggest mistake of your life. what you have done disgusts me so much that i would want to ruin your reputation and post you all over the net to tell people how much stupid you are


okay well my boyfriend and i just broke up and like i miss him soo much! and i think it may be kinda weird with us but i dont want it to be cause we were like BFFL before we went out and i miss him walking me to my bus and holding my hand and coming to my locker every day just to say hi to me and all! gosh i miss him sooooooo mcuh and i want to go back out with him but i dont know how to get him to like me again or if i just need to move on and find a new bf but he was my best ever! gosh im sooo confused i mean we were the perfect couple everyone said we looked like brother and sister almost!! arghhh i miss himmmm!!!!!!!!! please help me get him back or get over him(even thought i dont want to)! thanks for any help and sorry if i sound obbsed and took this long just for that. (link)
well the first thing that you need to do is him how you feel. because he might not still be over you! and if he does feel the same way then the reason for the break up might mean that your just having some time apart. don't let this sort of thing affect your friendship. you will both know if your ready to date again, time will only tell. but if he doesn't feel the same way about you then you need to move on. ways to do this is by not spending as much with each other than yu normally do, say 25% less time. you could find yourself a hobby to cover all the time tht isn't being spend with your ex. thanx i hope i've help out
madidlyqueen


Hi There,

I am a English male of Part Jewish non orthodox & Part COE (Church Of England) Blood, and am in love with a Muslim girl from Saudi Arabia. Even thou she isn't in an arranged marriage & her parents have given their blessing to a marriage of her choice providing the groom is an Arab or Muslim, I understand that the only way I would be allowed to Marry this girl is either me turning to Islam or by Mahr, as I am non religous I am very confused on what to do. I am deeply in love with this girl & want to provide her with the love she deserves.

Any advice you can give would be surley appreactied.

JR

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it seems that converting to islam is the only option you have if you want a future with this girl. just because you are not religious it doesn't mean that you can't find what your looking for in islam. you should probably do some research over the net and ask other converts how they feel. i mean i am muslim and believe me when i say this: converting will be the best thing you will have ever done in your life. trust me i know arabs and one thing they won't allow is marrying their daughters to non-muslims. Islam is the true religion cause if wasn't then why are there more people converting islam than any other religion. islam is the fastest growing religion in the world. with over 1.3 billion followers why else wouldn't you convert. besides if you didn't, than you would be heart broken cause you will never be able to marry this girl. and if you do convert to islam you have to be serious about it not just to marry the girl of your dreams and end up not practicing and abiding the laws of islam properly.
for more info on islam email me at: madinahashimi@hotmail.com
thanx i hope i have helped you out.
madidlyqueen


I'm a Christian. Lately, I've been worried about something. I've been thinking things like "What if Christianity isn't the true religion and Islam/Buddhism is?" Basically I'm scared that Christianity may not be the true religion. I believe in Jesus, but what if Islam is the true religion? Then I would go to Hell forever because of one decision, you know? It makes me scared =(. What do you think..? (link)
Sorry about my attitude, but anything anyone tells about how christianity is the true religion is a bunch of bogus. seriously, if you convert to islam now you will not regret it. you will have peace in your heart knowing that you know like many others believe in the true religion. i think your probably worried because all the things that media says about islam. buddhism is definately not the true religion be cause what you worship in buddhism are man made statues. i mean who what worships idols made of stone. when you prayer to them and your prayer comes true, thats not the statues work that's the grace of God. In islam we believe that God created us for a reason: to test us to see if we abide by his laws. i sugguest you talk to other muslims visit this website: www.islam.com


hello i'm 14/f i havn't started my period this month. i am a virgen. i'm really scared and don't know what to do. is it possible for you to skip a month? please tell me if this is normal. i'm rally scared because this has never happened to me. thanks please help! (link)
thye first thing you need to do is to stop panicking! your menstrual cycle is probably a regular cycle which lasts 4-6 days and can occur between 21 to 35 days. you have nothing to worry about. the reason why you didn't get your period this month is probably because of a number of things. the menstrual cycle is a very sensitive thing and can become irregular for a number of reasons. these include:Stress


New cycle , that is the irregularity experienced by some young girls at the onset of the periods. Their cycle can be irregular for months or years whilst it is establishing itself.
Dietary problems , eg anorexia, bulimia or simply poor diet
Too much exercise
Drugs - prescription and recreational
Break in routine
Thoughts and emotions
Sexual activity - especially when it is a new occurrence - in your case NOT
Anxiety about pregnancy
Illness or physiological imbalance eg thyroid conditions

you have nothing to worry about, however, if you're still unsure and feel that something is not right, then there is no harm in going to the doctors and getting it checked out.
i hope that i have helped
xoxo
madidlyqueen


i know this might be long,but im sorry,i've been going through this for over a year..

okay,so,i'll start out- i moved to a new town,made a lot of friends,everything was good.next year,im really quiet,start turning invisible.now this year i really want to change.i've been so closed up,and every answer i give to someone,its just all akward.i have no confidence,and only a few people see me as a friend they'd hang out with out of school. im starting to join a new "click" which i like,but i dont want it to be like the last.how can i talk a lot? how can i keep the person interested with me? i dont wanna run out of topics.i need to learn confidence and also be happy with myself,but how? how do i become outgoing? like 3 years ago? its just so akward all the time with me,im so quiet,i dont know how to speak up,or get into things,help!!!thanks to all who help (link)
the first thing you need is some confidence! try practicing what you want to say in front of the mirror and then try it out on your friends. the last thing you want is for them to get bored of you and move on. you have find out things that you have in common with them and talk about that. always smile, but remeber: don't ever change just so someone can like you, its not worth the risk! if they don't accept you for who you are then they're not worth it. if thats the case then maybe its time for you to move on. remeber there are only two kinds of change that are good for you: a) change that benefits you as a person, and b)the kind of changhe that you have in your pocket. i hope i've helped out
xoxo
madidlyqueen


If god loves every one then why dose it seem that being gay is wrong. im a big gay rights person and i dont understand how in most religions its like one of the bigest sins (link)
like the saying goes:..god create adam and eve...not adam and steve. the reason why it is against many religions to be gay is because gays can't populate with each other. its just like asking the meaning of life (which i already know: it's that life is atest and that God tests you to see if you abide by the his laws or go agianst them, being gay is one of them). if you had true faith in the first place then you wouldn't be questyioning God in the first place. i am muslim and have been all my life. most people think that we muslims are opressed because they think we have to cover ourselves up, well yes that part is true but we have choice and by covering ourselves up it means we have faith in God.
madidlyqueen


i have about shoulder length hair, and its thick but straight. it's so thick that i can't scrunch it.
i can curl it though, so it holds a curl with a curling iron or curlers. any ideas of REALLY good scrunching products, i've tried about 30 and none hold up my hair. i've also seen this one thing called something like "scrunch and curl" it's like a kit and has these gloves or something, i don't exactly know, so if you know anything about that, i would LOVE to know.

thanks so much.
mwwwahh (link)
because your hair is very thick i suggest that you don't use a straightener or curling tongs as thick hair needs to be straintened/curled longer and this can damage your hair and make it very dry. i've done a little research on this scrunch and curl product and i personally think that it might work. scrunch and curl is a revolutionary thermal glove styling system. it creates instant natural flowing curls. curls last all day long with definition, softness, shine and frizz control. the only place that i could find this product was on this website http://www3.jetro.go.jp/ttpp/EAN.CR06_EAN?id=1081244&corner_id=999
good luck with your hair
xoxo
madidlyqueen


Ok. so there`s this guy i really like but he doesn't know it, john (well i don't think he knows). and my friend alisha (she doesnt know i like him either). so last week john asked alisha out and she said no. so i talked to John and he said he was fine with it. but John`s been talking to me online about how alisha thinks he`s mad at her. he says he doesnt like her anymore he just wants to be friends. but my question is why is he coming to me for all of this i mean i just met John like in the beginning of the school year. could he like me? and does anyone know any ways to help him w/ this situation and conversations to start? (because i really like him) oh yeah and if you really wanna help me let me know and ill give you my screen name and i`ll show you the conversation. (link)
Dear i like him...
ok its sound like you have a very huge dilemma. Now you said that john has been talking to you online behind your friends back and despite being rejected by her he's come to you. well it sounds to me that he is in denial. because rejection can be a hard fact to face many just stay in denial about they're feelings for someone in case they risk getting hurt again. i don't believe that john is interested in you but i could be wrong. he is probebly only talking you online because you're alisha's friend and you can give him the low down on anything that you're friend says about him, just in case she might be interested. i know it might hurt to see he guy you like go for you're friend but you have to repsect his feelings about her. you should probebly ask him just in case because if you dont ask then you will never know and this is the kind of thing people regret for the rest of their lives. tell him how you feel because he might be interested in you and he might not know whether your interested in him. believe me its worth the risk.
xoxo
madidlyqueen


f/14

ok so my armpits sweat a lot. its such a problem i made this account just to ask for help on this. its so embaressing in school. i try all these deoderants and nothing works!! today i put a pad under my arms but that didnt work cus it like slid off. so now idk what to do. help pleaseeeee (link)
dear sweaty arm pits
So you sweat a little? big deal, its all natural. now first things first, you need to shave you pits before you put any kind of deoderant on as underarm hair is usually one the cause of sweat. seconldy, you should use talcom powder after having a shower as this prevents your armpits from sweating in the first place and then after that wear and anitpersprant. if none of these work, then you should consider seeing your local GP as you may be suffering from Axilliary hyperhidrosis - Excessive Underarm Sweating. Axillary Hyperhidrosis involves extreme, dripping sweat in the armpits, with constant odor that is usually resistant to all deodorants. Axillary sweating may be present, alone, or in conjunction with any or all other types of hyperhidrosis. Sufferers are prevented from wearing certain fabrics and colors because the sweat causes staining and rotting of the clothing. The sympathetic nervous system over-stimulates the sweat glands, causing the hyperhidrosis. This condition may be aggravated by anxiety, but it can occur without it.

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