Question Posted Tuesday September 19 2006, 10:47 pm
Ok. so there`s this guy i really like but he doesn't know it, john (well i don't think he knows). and my friend alisha (she doesnt know i like him either). so last week john asked alisha out and she said no. so i talked to John and he said he was fine with it. but John`s been talking to me online about how alisha thinks he`s mad at her. he says he doesnt like her anymore he just wants to be friends. but my question is why is he coming to me for all of this i mean i just met John like in the beginning of the school year. could he like me? and does anyone know any ways to help him w/ this situation and conversations to start? (because i really like him) oh yeah and if you really wanna help me let me know and ill give you my screen name and i`ll show you the conversation.
madidlyqueen answered Wednesday September 20 2006, 5:07 am: Dear i like him...
ok its sound like you have a very huge dilemma. Now you said that john has been talking to you online behind your friends back and despite being rejected by her he's come to you. well it sounds to me that he is in denial. because rejection can be a hard fact to face many just stay in denial about they're feelings for someone in case they risk getting hurt again. i don't believe that john is interested in you but i could be wrong. he is probebly only talking you online because you're alisha's friend and you can give him the low down on anything that you're friend says about him, just in case she might be interested. i know it might hurt to see he guy you like go for you're friend but you have to repsect his feelings about her. you should probebly ask him just in case because if you dont ask then you will never know and this is the kind of thing people regret for the rest of their lives. tell him how you feel because he might be interested in you and he might not know whether your interested in him. believe me its worth the risk.
xoxo
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