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loosing my virginity
hey iam a 22 year old girl in a muslim coutry where a girl's virginity is very important and an intact hymen has to be preserved till marriage.
now i've had several relationships in which i made out with my bfs & there was penetartion sevral times but i never bled or felt pain the penius goes in smoothly & i did'nt reach an orgasm.i really want to know if iam still a virgin coz i heard tht some people have elastic hymens & tht it does'nt have 2 b broken??? how do i check my hymen & i can't go to a gyno. i really need help please give me some advice.
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it doesn't matter whether its broken or not, youv'e broken the rules of islam and you will suffer dearly. your what people like to call a "slut" because by printing this info on the net you have given yourself a bad name and islam a bad name. people like you should be stoned. i hate your guts. die bitch!!! die! die! die! and by the way if you are fasting it won't get accepted. you should pray for forgiveness for the rest of your life! you disgust me so much to the point where i want to puke. how dare you talk about your 'personal' life on the internet. and by the way it doesn't matter if your hymen has broken or not you still did what you did. i dont care if you give me bad feedback. people should be warned about you so they don't make the mistake of marrying a stupid whore. you have maken the biggest mistake of your life. what you have done disgusts me so much that i would want to ruin your reputation and post you all over the net to tell people how much stupid you are
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Its obviously a big deal in your country. But since the hymen can be broken through a number of activities (riding a bike or horse, exercise, etc.) a guy (not even a doctor) will not be able to tell if you are a virgin by looking at your vagina.
If its ever questioned you can say: My hymen must have broken when I was young. However, that penis went in your vagina, and in all honesty you are no longer a virgin.
If there was no bleeding when you had sex then its likely your hymen was already broken, or was naturally wider. There is no way to tell how it broke.
The hymen is considered a big deal to Muslims because it used to be the only way people could GUESS whether a woman was a virgin and therefore 'pure'. However, modern medecine shows that this is a very inaccurate way of GUESSING. If a woman has a hymen intact then you can say she's DEFINATELY a virgin. If the hymen is not intact then she MIGHT be a virgin.
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I'll answer each question in order:
-No, you are not a virgin. Penetration is sex. Whether you or him reached climax or not. It's sex.
- Elastic hymens? I know that for some women it's harder to be torn that others. Your hymen can be broken or torn at any point. Using a tampon or having your first period, sitting down, riding a horse or bike... Anything can tear it. But your hymen has nothing to do with virginity. Because, if having your hymen torn ment losing your virginity, I would have lost mine at 12.
-There is really no way to check yourself. You would NEED to go to the gynocologist. Other than that there is really no way to find out.
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The hymen is just a covering of the openning of the Vagina. It has nothing to do with virginity. If it did, then some girls would lose their virginities in activities having nothing to do with sex. Virginity is the state of having never had a penis in your Vagina.
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