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Boyfriend liking other girls
13/f
OK, my boyfriend and i have been going out for 3 months. Well, a lot of girls in my school like hiim. They always talk to him and flirt with him, and he flirts and talks back. I have asked him many times to stop and he claims hes just talking. But all my friends keep telling me that he always does this. Plus, he told me he thinks other girls are hot. Should I end our relationship? I am getting really mad at him about this and need help!
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he's going out with you for a reason. because your his favorite. guys are dogs, and we like to practice flirting a lot. also we dont like JUST one girl at a time some like 10 or 11 girls at a time but still have only 1 girlfriend, im sure theres another guy besides him you have feelings for...its just life.
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hmm. maybe you should ask him do you like me or like the girls you think are hot. of course hell probably answer he likes you because your his girlfriend. but im also 13 almost 14 in febuary. i have to tell ya girls our ago need to calm down about relation ships. you are never going to be inlove at this age and if anyone thinks they are GOD BLESS THEM. because you know if anyone our ago brakes up they will end up liking each other again. take it from a 13 year old who knows i went out with one kid about 15 times.
maybe you two need a brke and see what happens
1.) does he flirt more with them
2.) does he look sad
3.) doe he look rather happy
4.) is trying to talk to you saying WHY
5.) is he paying a little more attention towards you ( could be a sign he actually cared for you)
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End it with him..he probly thinks he is such a pimp and every girl wants him..yea he is full of himself so just break up with him because if you told him over and over and he still doesn't listen chances are he will never listen.I hope you find someone better. ♥
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Yes, you should break up with him. If he tells you to your face that he thinks other girls are hot, and flirts with other girls. Just imagine what he's doing behind your back. I know it's probably easier said than done, but you don't deserve this. There are plenty of other guys out there, who will treat you with respect and not do these things to you.
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okay gurl gone had and end your realationship because you shouldnt b unhappy with who your with because of his actions and you told him to stop and he wont change for you .(Sign#1) he doesnt care(Sign#2)he dioesnt have respect for you..So you should let him go and move on to another sexy hot boy of you liking and that is more respectful or you and your feelings....Get bac to me please.
~ Miss_Diva ~
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If I were you, I'd end the relationship. It sounds to me like he might want to venture out and meet other girls and be single, which you should do also. I mean, you guys are only 13. Girls are going to come and go for him, just like boys are going to come and go for you. This is the age where everyone first gets to date people and wants to date all these guys and girls and everything.
Plus, being in a relationship with a guy whose liked by so many girls and he thinks they're hot, doesn't let in alot of trust into the relationship. He could possibly be cheating, thinking things, who knows, he might not. But who the heck TELLS their girlfriend they think other girls are hot? He doesn't sound too respectful towards you and your feelings.
So like I said, you're young. Try meeting someone else whose new and exciting and will actually respect your feelings and not tell you such rude things and you can have fun with them without worrying every second if they're out flirting with some girl or something. Plus, guys like that usually are called players, and then after awhile, once he's played every girl in the school, he has nobody and winds up by themselves.
I hope I helped.
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sounds to me like hes just a flirt. im a bit of a flirt myself, so i kind of know what im talking about. some guys just flirt non stop, its the only way they know how to talk to girls. i dont think telling him to stop is going to help, it may just make him resentfull, most younger guys have a real problem with being told what to do.
i think your best bet is to have a good talk with him about where your relatonship is going, make shure he understands that his constant flirting is hurting you. if he cant control himself than hes not realy boyfriend material. if you do end up dumping him over this, id recomend doing it in a public place and making a big deal of it, if alot of people see and hear you dumping him its a bit harder for him to change the story later and make it sound like he dumped you.
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