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HEY EVERYBODY IM AUNDREA; A HIGH SHOOL STUDENT FROM TEXAS. I LOVE TO SING,RUN TRACK, STAY FIT HAANG OUT WIT MY FRIENDS AND TALK TO MY BOYFRIEND AND FAMILY.I ASLO LOVE TO EXPRESSION MY POINT IF VIEW AND I LIKE TO HELP PEOPLE WHEN THEY NEED IT THE MOST SO IF U NEED A ? ASNWERD COME TO ME I'LL ALWAYS HELP.. BYEEEEE!!!!

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Last Update: February 3, 2007
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myspacestop.com layoutcentral.net mygirlyspace.com freecodesource.com

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is there any really good free photo editor i can download off hte internet?

yee it www.corel.com itz a 30 day trial but its worth it.. but go 2 picasa dats free

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i have a boyfriend and he asked me out last week on friday 10th.i was happy because i never had a boyfriend,my best friend told me that he wouldn't stop talking about me and he even said he liked my butt lol.I don't know if thats a good thing anyways i need tips to make my boyfriend like me more like flirting tips.And want kind of gifts to give him thats nice and cheap.Because i love him a lot and i want to give him something special,my boyfriend is kind and nice.sometimes i think other girls are flirting w/ him i need tips to not be jealous too please help.

Well ok jus like come up to him and give him kisses.. when you just sitting around feel on his chest then he will begin to be hottt around you and like you more knowing thht you can be agressive or spontanous..mostly boys dont like gifts becuase it tends to make them feel weak but you could give him like watches or chains.Being jealous from other girls will never stop; no gurl cant stop that,buts its a good thing to because that also means that you care about him and love him and dont want NOBODY else to have him.. but hope u keep him. MOST IMPORTANT WHILE FLIRTING DONT CHANGE WHO YOU ARE.. dont flirt to much; keep it to a minimum just every now and then flirt. Hope u take my thoughts . and get back to me...


~ MIss_Diva ~

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hey! i have a really big problem. so i dated this guy jake over a year ago now for almost 2 months. he dated thisgirl i knew and then they broke up after 2 years and me n him dated. which was quite crazy. anyways, we ended up breaking up bcz he cheated on me with her and they got back 2gether n have been on n off for almost a year. well, now he is dating sum other girl that idont know n the other day i messaged him on myspace, i havent talked 2 him since last year n i asked him for directions 2 get this oneplace we went 2 last year when we dated. he messaged back sayin he has nothing againts me n he knows he did some bogus shit n to give him a call ormessage when we wanna hangout for old times sake... so idont know if im taking this too overboard but he was my first realll bf that i reallylikedn my friend's birthday is coming up this weekend, and he knew her, thats how we met n began dating bcz his x was friends with my best friend n because of allthis she hated us... well i really do have feelings 4 him n want to ask him 2 come by but is it 2 weird?? but thing is... he never said sorry... what should i write back? thank you somuch

well if your very comftable talkn to him u should tell him how you feel about him now ....you guys maybe coudld get bac together because he just might feel the same way and all but dont kno how to taell you.. he must have sum feeling left if he just want to hang out for old times sakes ...just tell him how you feel and you should hang out sumtimes ..im pretty sure he will miss being around you and have fun with you jus give it a try and tell him how you feel ..you dont want to have any regrets about what you coudl have done and what if you said sumthn,would you two be together so go for it..get bac to me
~ miss_diva ~

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well yeah. i just started taking birth control last sunday.
and i just went to take one and while i was getting a drink of water from the faucet to swallow it i dropped the pill into the focet and it went down and i couldnt grab it.
so what do i do.

my boyfriend and i have planned to have him ejaculate in me on christmas eve so do i really have to worry about it. and just go on taking them or not?

yea you do go on taking them becuz if you stop taking it.. then have sex n have him ejaculate in you then you can get pregnant like that so unless you dont want a miracle christmas preseent i say you should keep taking them..get back 2 me

~ miss_diva ~

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KINDA LONG BUT PLEASE BARE WITH ME!!! Okay, I've been with my bf Josh now for 11 months. Around the 9th month, we've been fighting quite more often... and sometimes he just takes it overboard, he dosent hit me or anything, but he practially cusses me out and call me a stupid b***h, and stuff like that, I mean I love him very very much, but I tell him he can't just talk to me like I'm some kind of puppy.... so I just got this new job and the person who trained me is named johnny. Something about him just attracts me too him... he's patient with me, he never once did ridicule me about making mistakes (cause I am sooo clumsy!), he knows how to make me smile, we share alot of interests... we just click very well. Like one night we had to close the store together and he was on the phone so while he was on the phone, I took off his drive-thru headset and put the till infront of him.... later he walked up to me and was like thank you for that, no ones really done anything like that for me (I know it was little but it was a big thing for him I guess) and I was like your welcome.... and then one morning we had to work together and he wanted breakfest and didn't have a car, so I loaned him my car and he ended up bringing both of us breakfest and I thought that was sweet. He mocks (jokingly) everything I say and teases me playfully, and I like that...but I don't know who to choose.....PLEASE HELP!!!

Which is better a man that treats you good or one that doesnt. but think about your future:and about your bf ask him y he talks to you like sum gurl out on the street. SEE if you bf loves you the way you love him and hoe he feels about you. and you should ask johnny how does he feel about you and tehn compare the too and the person you have the mosy strongest feelings for choose him..

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The last time I had sex with my boyfriend was 2 weeks ago. My period is not due for another week or so. My stomach has been feeling weird now, I feel fatter/heavier, and I just don't feel well. When is the best time to take a pregnancy test and have it accurate? Is it a week before your first missed period or something like that?

my freind had the same problem just wait anotehr week and if nothn comes up then get a pregnacy test..just tomake sure itjust proly late and from your sickness you just proly from your worriedniess and parinoid about it ..

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I've been dating a man for about a year and a half. I love and adore him with my whole heart. I have never had so much fun with anybody just hanging around and doing nothing. We have the most incredible chemistry and banter. Even when we're not together, I'll think about something he said, or an exchange we had, and it'll make me laugh out loud.

HOWEVER, we are both very passionate people and when we get in arguments, they are HORRENDOUS. Things just escalate at an insane rate. We have horrible, brutal arguments. And unfortunately, they are very frequent. We've talked about it multiple times, and we've promised each other that we won't fight or that we'll fight nice, but it never works.

I ache at the thought of having to leave him...but I cringe at the thought of more arguments like what we've had in the past. I can't imagine living without him, but I dread the thought of having to live with these arguments. I just don't know what to do.

How do you know when it's time to leave?

Well first of all dont argue over petty things and if you tow love each other then you will pick the right thing..but no relationship is perfect me n my bf fight errday sumtimes its harsh but we kno we love each other and laugh about it and the end but yee erverybody fights... think about it u love each other just think about it wen your fightn is it over somthing really stupid or it really a matter ..

~ Miss_Diva ~

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me and my boyfriend have been together a year the 15th of this month and i have no idea what to get him. i wanna get him something cute or do something cute for him without spending over $100. do you have any cute ideas for me? itd be greatly appreciated.

okay well tell me wut kinna stuff he likes but u should get him a chain that says sumthn special but not to where it in public.. but yea just get back to em on wut he likes asnd i can help u out..

~ Miss_Diva ~

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He gave me a note he told me he liked me.
he started texting me and he stopped and when i text him he wont text back so i just stopped.
but i like him ALOT to and he doesnt even act like he likes me anymore. I dont get it.
either he started liking a new girl but i dont think you could be able to get over me just like that. hm

y dont chu just go to him face to face and ask if he likes you or etxt him maybe his foen is off or wutevr but im sure he cant get ove you that fast

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I want to make my own original layouts for myspace!!!what programs do you recomend!!!or websites!!!! I will apreciated!

corerel paint shop pro x jus go 2 www.corel.com

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My birthday is coming up in 2 monthes and i have NO CLUE WUT TO DO FOR IT! I usually make up a bunch of games and invite people and we play tehm but this year for my 15th birthday it seems like were getting a little too old for musical chairs and stupid kid games like that. I wanna eevryone to ahve a good time and maybe go somewhere but not too expensive. where should I go? this party will have around 15 people. mostly girls, thanks aLOT!

just throw a house prty thats real cheap

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About 4 months ago I got dumped by my bf. We were in a long distance relationship- I sort of gave him an ultimatum that I wanted a ring on my finger (I'd been with him for 3 years). He had been stringing me along and sort of playing games with me and just got sick of it. He ended things with me very childishly and was a real jerk at first- not returning any of my emails or calls. I gave up after 3 days. He was- and still is very stubborn and has difficulty expressing emotion. In the past when we have fought and broken up I have always been the one to mend fences even though he was the one being a jerk. I've decided this time if he wants me back then he needs to contact me with no effort on my part. I'm sick of doing all the work in this relationship and I know I deserve better than this abuse. Anyways; my question is that since we've broken up I keep seeing male friends of his come into the store I work in. They pretend they are shopping but I know they arent in my department because I sell kids clothing. They just stare and watch me and don;t talk to me. Do you think he's been getting his friends to check up on me? And if so does that mean he still cares about me? He lives out of town remember.

Yess becuase if he cares he doesnt want any other guy taking you away from him at all so he taking no chances and want to make sure you dont go off with another guy.. yess does care he and maybe yo u should talk t him and ask why he doesnt liek to expres emotions and he proly think thats kinna femine.ya kno how boys are these days.. but he might just care for you if he all the way out of town and has friends come to your job and stare at you .... get back to me ....

~ Miss_Diva ~

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14/f

I like a guy named David. Seems simple, right? Wrong. He happens to be a friend of mine. Well, I've liked him before, and I've notified him. Recently, I told him I liked him. He didn't care but said he wouldn't give me a chance.

I eventually got over him, but now I'm falling for him again. Ten times harder. And he's been flirting with me nonstop - but I can't help but wonder if that's just his nature. He flirts with me, and he came to my halloween party. My friend asked him if he thought I was pretty, and he said I was. So I'm confused as to whether he'll ever give me a chance and if the flirting is just hormones. :/

I kno this will be hard but ust simply ask him or have a friend ask him does he like you and that girlfriend way..and if he does flirt with him back to and then sooner or later somebody will ask somebody out..and make sure he doenst want you for sex make sure he really like you and if he doesnt then stop wasting your time and find the right guy he would give you the time of day and not you chasing himand everthing ..get back to me

~ Miss_Diva ~

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Yes, my girl dumped me. I no longer have to be in denial that someday will be back together, giving up, gave 100% of myself, just an empty shell left behind. So ? What to do? How to move on?

I dont spend any time alone at home.Not at all. I do not get drunk or take anything. I go everywhere, clubbing cinema, every single day found my self a great girl, hot sexy and smart. Only many times I kind of...mix her name with my ex's, I sometimes just want to walk away alone from everyone, I...cry every now and then...when I acomplish stuff I think I am doing it for my ex.
My friends talk to me as if nothing important is going on while I am really dying on the inside (and the outside,lost a lot of weight). It really is the end of the world for me. I think that good times will come again but unfortunatelly, I cant believe it. I think about her all the time, dont sleep at night cause of her, I put twice the effort to accomplish stuff in my job cause I think of her, I know she will not come back.
My brain is killing me, it is just stuck, thinking over the same things again and again. Thinking about it so much, that late night, I can really listen to my thought in my ears. It is crazy, it is my brain going in circles and I am listening to it, I hear my though...but...crystal clear.
There are 2 ways to end this, none of them will do. One is taking pills, fuck them I dont need them, other is killing myself, no way out of the question I got to make money in my life. I ve taken new hobbies kept myself busy.
Well, i am sorry I think I did not leaveanything for you to advice me. Maybe some online support group where I can find people like me? You know that circle people make and hug each other,only online.

Aww po baby SORRY 4 YOUR PAIN but down to the point. It i not the end of the wourld for you .you justthink it is an the more you think aout it teh more obsessd yo become with thinking about her..you neeed closure or sumthn just once and tell her how you feel; if she takes you back or not you still accomplished a greed task on moving forward because you have all that emotion bottled in you and you need to let it out..by telling her your last feelings about her..just to get it out of your head and hunting you from your sleep.and then you could maybe focus on you and your new realationship and all adn not so much on her..i will say it is not easy but you gotta commit to it and get rid of you rthoughts by teling youe ex... thats one big step to take ..get back to me..


~ Miss_Diva ~

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Two of my friends, lets call them Ken and Barbie, well might be ending their relationship because of me. I wrote Ken a note asking him if he wanted to go out with me this weekend and he said gladly. Barbie took it the wrong way and wants to end things with Ken. What do I do?

Just tell her what you meant about the note ..did she evn ask(ken) what he thought about it instead of just ending thing she need to talk things through to get to the bottom of everything...
GHet back to me.

~ Miss_Diva ~

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okay, i'm getting a new cell phone and i cant decide between the chocolate, the motokrzr, or just a regular flip phone with a camera and all that good stuff. which one works the best ?

chocolate it is very reliable

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So I'm 15 and my boyfriend is 16. I posted a question yesterday.. and this is a continue on.. Well my boyfirned went back and forth with me and two other girls in the way beginning and then when they didnt work out he came to me...So I really felt something strong between us. I also felt like a rebound. but we have been together for a little over 7 months and we have been pretty strong. I don't think hes cheating on me its just I get really jealous. He talks to this girl he used to really like...and he always goes on church retreats or to camp and i get really worried about him falling for another girl. He tells me he wouldnt and he can't be attracted to anyone else... but from the past i get worried. I also have anger problems when i get jealous i just ignore him until i break down and cry. We talk about it eventually but i treat him wrong when i'm jealous or sad. I wish I didn't and I don't know how to handle myself. I'm scared of him thinking I have too many problems and just getting up to leave me. I just want to know what i should do.

Yeah i can relate to you, but hey just calm down and breath for a sec... I think my bf does taht to (will fall in love w/another gurl)its scary but what i do is try to occupy my tyme to him so that he woulnt have time for that other gurl at all.... do things that make him happy then he wont think that you have probelms and that you care for him and tell him you love you(only if you really do)and when your mad try doing things that make you happy or just write your anger out on paper;make a poem or sumthn ya kno..dont go all offf yelling and screamn becuase that will stress you out more..THINK BEFORE YOU ACT OR BSAY ANYTHIG ..i kno its hard but you have to accomplish handlin you anger.Member write a poem about it or just write down how you feel at that moment.. Get back @ me..


~ Miss_Diva ~

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i cannot keep a bf for longer then two weeks. ill start out liking these guys then BAM i break up with them..then i want them back && its too late so i am screwed..and i learned from a good friend how bad it hurts when girls play guys and ill just not like them anymore..it sucks..what is wrong with me?what can i do?

ps my last "relationship" lasted a day and a half

I guessyou really ghot a problem but hers a trick dont go out witha guy just because u like him go out witha boy that you really like and can have good converstaions with and a good time and that will be around and wont bore you.It seems that you like the guy then he might bore you so you dump him but .thats it just pick them right..okay get back to me


~ Miss_Diva ~

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my b.f and i just broke up and hes been telling my best friend that he has regrets and wants me back. i really love him and i knw he does too...and its only been a 4 days since we broke up. if i do decide to go get back together with him...or how should i talk to him..i mean he has to knw he cant just come back when he wants but i dunno (you know what i mean?)what should i do...?he hasnt spoken to me yet, but everytime i go on msn he comes online like 2 secs later and he changes his name to reflect to me but he wont talk to me..and i dont knw wat to do! help

Well first of all dont waste time thinking he just cant come back when he want to ..soon enuff some otha gurl gone come n take ova his mind soo just sit down and tell him how you feel or over msn one or the otha ...but ask him do he wants to get back together with you.If nobody speaks to each other then NOTHEN will happen at all so youu gotta step up 2 the plate and do what you got to do times ticking ..get your man back if you really love him it wouldnt matter if he can just come back when he wants .most people cant find love so get him back nothn should matter but yall love trust etc. for each other.. gee back 2 me...

~ Miss_Diva ~

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