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obssessed with "I love you"
Well it seems I have this little problem with saying "I love you" too much... My fiance says its starting to get really annoying lol, But don't get me wrong he does say it back a few times but sometimes I get really offensive or mad when he doesn't say it back everytime even though I think I do over do it too much (I don't know I guess one would just assume "I love you too" is an automatic response). Do you think maybe I'm just too insecure? Lol I mean I suppose there is such a thing as saying it TOO much but how do I stop? I mean obviously I do love him and I want him to know that.... Is there a way I can teach myself not to sound like a broken record though?
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Maybe instead of trying to say you love him all the time, focus on trying to show him you love him. If you're walking out the door, maybe instead of just going "I love you", give him a kiss on the lips and be like,"Love you, I'll see you later, alright?" Or maybe just even kiss him on the lips and say "Bye". Also if you feel yourself starting to say it, just slowly start to try and hold it back and mention something else, or just start thinking of something in your head to make yourself focus elsewhere.
Maybe you're also feeling the need to say it so much, because you're also feeling the need to hear it back just as much. I mean, come on, everyone wants to hear that they're loved and love to hear people say it to them and everything. :] So maybe instead of just saying it to him, show it to him. Take him out to dinner, take him to a movie, maybe somewhere new and he's been wanting to go to.
If he brings up the topic you're saying it too much again, just be like,"Haha, well I'm trying not too, so it might take some time. I just love you tooooo much." And laugh it off and just explain to him you're at least trying.
He just might be annoyed with it slightly because he already knows you love him ; you're his fiance. And whenever you feel you're getting upset if he doesn't always say it back ; you say that to yourself also. That he's your fiance, he asked you to marry him and you KNOW that he loves you.
I mean I guess one CAN say it too much, but you just might be more of an expressive person that your fiance, and feel the need to tell people more your emotions and let them know how you feel about them. I remember with my one boyfriend, we couldn't STOP saying it to eachother, haha. I just don't see how he'd get annoyed, I would love it if someone told me all the time that they loved me!
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♥♥ Aw, well personally I think there is nothing wrong with saying "I love you" too much! You have so much love for your fiance that you can't control it.
Maybe your fiance wants you to prove it or show it instead of saying those 3 words over and over again.
When you feel a sudden urge to say "I love you" show it physically by showing him affection.
Before you try this, say I love you one more time to him. If he says he's annoyed, then ask why. See what he says. If he says "You say I love you too much. Say "Can you really say I love you TOO much?" Then see what he says.
I hope this helps. Im only 15, I know i'm probobly a lot younger than you, but I hope this helps you. Let me know!
love,
Lauren♥
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