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Guys and drama =(
Hello.
So im 14/f, and in the 9th grade.
So I have this boyfriend right, his name is Joey.
Then there's these 2 other guys, Ian and Tim that I like, a lot.
Well, Joey is like in LOVE with me, and it's pretty annoying at times.
Well Ian is just, I don't know, theres something about him that I absoutly love, and want and hes sooo hot..
And with Tim, hes just so funny, hes not that cute though.
Well I know with relationships, personality matters the most, but looks are a huge plus.
Now to the real problem...
I really like Ian, and i've been talking to him on the side. And like Joey hates Ian, and I have no idea what to do... Me and Joey argue all the time. And I have no idea what to do, so please help, if you were in my position who would you go out with ???
Please answer fast !!
Thanks in advance.
-Brittany
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well, if you like this other guy and you and joey ar e arguing all the time, leave him but do it gently. tell him you're sorry but DON'T tell him the reason why. if he asks, tell him it's your own business.hope i helped!
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Well first of all, I would break up or just take break from Joey for awhile. If you two are fighting all the time, and you're sitting there liking other guys, you two aren't having a very healthy relationship at the moment and you shouldn't be looking at other girls while you have a boyfriend.
Anyway.
But just explain to him that things are really messed up between you two right now and you like him and all, but you're just sick of all the fighting and you want to take a break for awhile and you two should think of your feelings for one another.
Then, take a chance with Ian, and see what happens. If he's worth staying with, then stay with him, and I'm sure Joey'll get the message that you've moved on if you don't talk about getting back together with him. If he asks about it, just explain to him you're sorry, but Ian just came along and you guys sort of clicked, but you hope the two of you can remain good friends.
And if looks are a plus for you, then I wouldn't suggest going for Tim then, if you're not pyshically attracted to him and you're going to just keep thinking about his looks. Plus, you see more attracted to Ian and Joey anyways. And Tim kind of sounds just like a real funny hang out friend, if you ask me.
But if nothing works out with Ian, wait awhile and just start talking to Joey again about where you see the relationship is going and how you miss him and want to try and give it all another shot and see if he'll take you back or not. If he really loves you, he will and you both really need to work on everything and be really commited towards eachother.
I hope I helped.
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heres what i would do ::
tell joey you need a break.
then "try out" ian as a bf for a while.
but tell ian not to tell alot of people.
and if things dont work with ian go back to joey or try tim.
its just my opionion.
hope i helped.
-mwalnuts
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Hell, you're young right? Dump Joey and go for Ian.
I wouldn't do it with reckless abandon. Find a way to let Joey know that things aren't quite the way they should be, and you want to try and fix it. Then, if it doesn't get fixed, there's no point in dealing with something that doesn't work.
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