My boyfriend has another girlfriend and I known this from the start it piss`s me off but I love him to much to leave him and stuff but his bestfriend/cousin said I have to make him like me more then her. But I just don`t know how to do that. What should I wear, what should I say and do. got any advise please help me out :[
He's nothing more than a player, who thinks he's cool enough to have 2 girlfriends at once. He could even have MORE for all anyone knows.
There's no real way to "make" someone like you. They should be liking you for you, and if they don't, you shouldn't have to change yourself to make the person like you.
I know you say you can't do it, but you got to do it. I mean, he's hurting you alot, and you don't deserve to be treated like that. You deserve a good guy who'll want to date you and only YOU.
alisonmarie answered Wednesday August 30 2006, 5:40 am: Unfortunately, none of us can 'make' someone else like us. And ultimately, why would we want to change ourselves in order to manipulate someone else's feelings?
You deserve to be in a relationship with someone who likes you for exactly who you are - no changes needed.
Whle I understand the frustration of your situation, it might help you to try to take a step back and look at this objectively. He's dating two girls at the same time - which you could conclude means that he is not interested in an exclusive relationship with either of you.
mexsmiles answered Wednesday August 30 2006, 3:00 am: hi, in regards to your question, its sad that he has another girlfriend and yet your still with him. honey, if he's dating someone else that means he obviously doesn't really care for you. If he did he would have left her for you. Again i'm really sorry to have to tell you but its true. My opinion girl you can do sooooo much better than someone like him, i know you love him but put yourself before anything you don't deserve to be hurt like that. Pamper yourself, looking super hot one day and dump his ass!!! If he really loves you he will come to you, make him suffer like he makes you. ;) [ mexsmiles's advice column | Ask mexsmiles A Question ]
Jodieee answered Wednesday August 30 2006, 2:57 am: You know about your boyfriend having another girlfriend???
DUMP HIM!!
He doesn't deserve to get away with having 2 girlfriends.
DUMP HIM. You might feel bad, but in the end, broken hearts heal, and he's the loser who thinks he can get away with having 2 girlfriends. [ Jodieee's advice column | Ask Jodieee A Question ]
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