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SEX: DO you remember your first time?
i am 15 female.
one of my bestfriends just lost her virginity to her boyfriend and she'll be 15 in a couple of days. i know the guy she lost it to and he's very sweet at times. she told me that his penis was big and fat. wow.lol. she told me it hurt like hell and im really curious about if it should even hurt because i heard only when you're nervous it hurts but she claims she wasn't nervous and wanted to loose her virginity to him right away. why, i have no clue? Could anyone please tell me stories about thier first time and every feeling you had.
to be honest i kind of feel pressured to have sex because everyone around me has either lost it at 12,13,14, and 15. But i know who i am and i know that loosing my virginity won't make me a betta person than i am now..but still im curious about sex...please tell me everything i should know!! thanx in advance
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hey chick good for you!!! you shouldn't feel pressured to do anything you don't wanna do i lost my virginity at 18 i'd always hear my friends stories of their first time when we were 15. I knew i wanted to do it with the person i love and yup we did, we skipped school (which i don't suggest you doing, lol) he beckoned to my needs before his. We have been together for almost 4 years here on the 8th of Sept. It just hurt that one time i bleed maybe a dime size and that was it. after that its just natural. it was awesome i remember that day like yesterday, my suggestion to you wait for the right person it will truly pay off, you seem very smart girly keep on, i'm sure you'll be fine. Its really a beautiful thing only when your ready and your heart will tell ya, best of luck!!
in response to your other questions its sad to say that i wasn't my boyfriends first so he already knew... but than again once after our first time he did ask me if it was it what they do (this may sould gross but...) they grab the head of the penis and basical feel around until they hit the hole if they get the wrong one, yeah it happens, they know its harder to get in. hope i helped really chicky dee its not that bad. once you get used to it its awesome and my god Orgasms are amazing. ;)
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well good for you for not wanting to loose your birginity at such a young age, its always best to wait untill your ready. I waited and am very glad. The first time does hurt alot and the next few times after are a lil painfull, but it gets ALOT better, so dont worry adn dont stress out about it. Its best to wait because when your relaxed and comfortable it does hurt less and everything is better. The best advice is to just wait untill you are ready and dont let any one make you do anything that your not comfortable with
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It's natural to be curious about sex, especially when you are smack bang in the middle of puberty and so aware of everything related to it all of a sudden.
You know, I didn't have sex until I was 18. I had...opportunities to do things with a guy before that who made it all sound very inviting and I was attracted to him, but I refused to do it, even though he kept pushing the point. I knew he didn't really care about me and I didn't want to lose my virginity to some guy who would just consider me a notch on his bedpost. I wanted to do it when I was in love and ready.
So I waited and I met this amazing guy and eventually, we did it. I'm not going to say it was the most incredible night of my life or that he 'rocked my world', because the first time was very painful. However, I was SO glad I had waited because we knew we truly did love each other. Three years down the line, we're still together and now we have a home together too.
The most important things you need to know about sex are not to do it until YOU are ready and have found a guy you know it won't be wasted on. Then, when you have found him, make sure you do it safely. Use condoms at ALL times, because you can pregnant whether he climaxes inside you or not and make sure that you are on the Pill, which is around 99.9% effective when taken correctly. If you use condoms and the Pill together (what the Dutch call going 'Double Dutch'), you're about as safe as you can be.
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Well you shouldnt feel pressured into sex just because everyone else was doing it.It should be at the time YOUR ready.
I was 15 when I lost my virginity.Im completely comfortable about talking about this.Yes it was a young age and im 16 now.Do I regret doing it?, absolutely not.I was never pressured into having sex.Actually I was the first one out of my friends to have sex and after that they kinda followed me which wasnt a good idea...You see I felt comfortable and ready.I trusted the person who I was with.Which is my still bf of a year now.My first time I was nervous but it didnt hurt at all or bleed.After we went ouside and it started snowing and it was the first snow of the starting of winter.So I guess it was kind of a magical moment for us and we always look back on it.I was so worried I was pregnant even though we used a condom.But after a year you kinda get familar with it : All im just saying is not to rush.I mean its not like your missing out or your being forced to.Its your choice.
well good luck
xoxox
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One: you should never have sex with anyone at the 12,13,14,15 and so on.
two: have sex with someone you love & marry.
three:Never have sex because of pressure from other people. Those people are stupid for having sex at such a young age. Seriosuly the most they probly know about sex is the word itself. They dont know about the diseases they could get. They dont know the conseqences that they would have to deal with.
four: sex hurts the first couple times no matter what. But being nervous & scared adds so much pain & causes it to be a horrible experience.
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I dont have a sexual experience because im a virgin. But i have a slutty extended family so ill tell you a little about them.
Cuzn1: at the age of 12 she got a boyfriend - had sex & had a kid at the age of 13. Then she didnt learn her leason & had another kid at the age of 16. & another kid at the age of 18. And since she started having sex she has had a total of 5 miscarriges. Because she doesnt care. She is now 19 & doesnt take care of any of her kids.
cuzn2 aka her sister: started having sex at the age of 13. at the age of 14 she had a kid. Now shes 16 & pregnant with twins. And again she doesnt take care of her kids.
Those kids are now my aunts responsibilty & if she didnt take them in those kids would be in foster care.
Do not have sex because you do not & probly cannot afford the conseqences. And losing your virginty at such a young age & not with the guy you are going to marry. There is nothing special on your wedding night.
hope i helped
Kim:)
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YES THAT MAY BE TRUE BUT IF THEY DONT LISTEN TO THEM THEY END UP SCREWING UP THEIR LIVES. aND THEY DONT WANT TO ACCEPT THE FACT THAT THEY DID THIS TO THEMSELVES. THEY WANT TO BLAME EVERYONE ELSE. (i did caps on purpose)
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Props for you for still keep your virginity in tact. So many ppl, myself incluced lost it because of so much peer pressure. You stay a virgin however long you want and wait till its with someone you love and you know loves you back, when you have that, then sex is a wonderful thing. Now, on to your question about Do you remember your first time. Prime example of peer pressure: (I'm 24 now...was 16 at the time)
My best friend called me August 28th and told me she just lost her virginity and now I should too or I was going to be left out. My other best-friend called me August 29th and told me she lost her virginty too (THEY DIDNT KNOW IT AT THE TIME BUT IT WAS TO THE SAME GUY HAHAHA) anyways, August 31st rolls around and my guy friend came over and he always would pick with me and say lets go in your room...welp he said it, like I knew he would and I said...Let's go! His mouth dropped! Yea we had sex for about 30 seconds before I told him to get off of me. Just felt so wrong. I lost my virginty to someone I didn't even love. Something that you can never get back. And you will ALWAYS remember...that first time.
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You should be proud to still be a virgin at 15. Why? because you have something so wonderful and that is your virginity.
You can lose your virginity and your self-respect so easily, but once it has gone you can't get it back. There is nothing "cool" about giving yourself to a guy that probably only wants another notch on his bedpost.
How do you know when you are ready for sex? I always tell people that if they have to question whether it is right - then it is most definitely wrong for them at that time, or with the wrong person.
Sexual intercourse is the most wonderful feeling when you are in the right guys arms. You need to feel wanted and cherished and to know that he is the person that you want to be with. I know it sounds so old-fashioned but in this day and age when you never know what has gone on in a guy's past, who he has been with and what diseases he may have been in contact with.
My own experience is losing my virginity to my wonderful husband. I never wanted to be with any of my other boyfriends in that way. It didn't hurt because I was relaxed and in love, I also knew he was the person I was going to spend the rest of my life with. We have now been married for 24 years. I don't feel like I have missed out on sleeping around and I never had to worry about any STDs because he was a virgin too.
I hope that I have been able to ease your mind a little. I wish you well whatever you decide.
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I wanna start out and say that, don't go and have sex just because everyone else is. Waiting to have sex shows you have good morals. Me on the other hand always said I would wait until marriage. That was before I met my boyfriend. We have been together for over a year, and hes 21. 7 years older than me. I lost my virginity to him when I was 12, so he was 19. I know that sounds wronge, but yeah. But, I loved him and it was my idea to have sex. He actually didn't want to because it was well one, illegal, and he loved me more than just being a female with a vagina. Anyways, on with your question...I really don't feel like giving you the story, cause its like impossible for me to tell a story, and leave out the details. So, I'm just gonna tell you what you need to know. Your first time hurts, even when he has a small penis. My boyfriend, has like a 3rd arm. It hurt. But I have heard that everyones first time hurts and penis size doesn't matter. The second time hurts too, it takes a couple of times before you really can get used to the feeling and it not hurt. Don't do anything that you are pressured into, you want your first time to be special for you and just not a fast fuck job. Lose it to somebody you have been with for a long time, and know you want to spend the rest of your life with, or at least be with for a really long time. As you know, use a condom. Just make sure that you are relaxed, it shouldn't hurt that bad if you are relaxed. I hope I helped! <3 =]
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ok honestly,do you think its right to be 12 and not a virgin?i think its completly sick to lose it at that age.im turning 16f and never had sex oooooh big deal.its not going to make me any smarter,prettier,definetly not healthier.its just going to make me a slut because obviously if i did it with my booyfrind and broke up with him then got another boyfreind and did it with him and we broke up by the time im married,my reputation will be like,"oh that girls a slut,she did it with everyone god created,"people that are 12,13 and 14 that do it barely even know about it.they do it because their freinds do it and they feel pressured.dont make the same mistakes they do because they end up depressed and regreting it.you can get std's and even hiv wich leads to aids!!!hiv gets transfered when you do it with someone that already did it 27893798 times before(obviously he has the disease and is passing it to you!)i prefer virgins over people that lost it because they are more modest and disease-free.
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