i have a few questions if you would like to become an;
optomotrist (eye dictor)
dermatologist
or columnsit.
what would you major in. please write which each proffesion would major in.
i rate 5's on everything!
I am not sure how one becomes a columnsit, but if you can find someone who will pay the big bucks to have people sit on columns..I am all about it. If you want to be a columnist, then you should major in journalism and specialize in magazine writing and layout. That last part helps you get internships, which helps you gain experience, which is the only way to get your foot in the door.
I would be an optometrist, they make good money and I would never have to pay for contacts and glasses. Woo hoo free stuff!
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I am 14yrs old and have a bf I'm confused and need advice on is my not talking to my bf everyday or even every other day sometimes normal. He's always out and gets in the house late, then he has a sister and girls talk on the phone alot...so is it normal or what should I do about it,i don't believe it's a terrible problem but... it's bothering me.Pleez HELP!
XOXO i rate 5s
thanks in advance
I had a similar problem. I wasn't seeing my boyfriend enough for my liking. So I talked to him about it.
I told him if he didn't start seeing me more, I would start camping in his yard. I also told him that I was not to be ignored while brandishing a sharp pointy object at him. He had this horrified look on his face, but he has called me every day since! Yay for getting what you want by threats!
Now, seriously. DON'T threaten him, I spent several nights in jail and my new "friend" Agatha set me straight. She may have gone on a murderous killing spree, but that was PMS and she really was relationship savvy.
Just tell him you want to see him more. He should understand and he should agree. Maybe work out a certain time at night when he calls you or you call him. That way, he can plan for when to talk to you and have the phone free. It doesn't have to be everyday, like you said, but sometimes, just a phone call makes ALL THE DIFFERENCE.
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The other day I answered someone's question. And in that question I stated that ovulation can also occur after a person's period. ( 6-14 days) which I googled and found out I was right. Another person wrote my advice column to dispute this fact, but turns out she didnt dispute it al all: here is that she said word for word: Oh, and no you are not fertile AFTER your period you fucking idiot. You are not fertile UNTIL 14 DAYS AFTER YOUR PERIOD. Get your facts right. Now does everyone see that she said your NOT fertile AFTER your period, its 14 days AFTER your period! Duh thats what I said! Why do people resort to name calling when trying to dispute something? or is it just this person doesnt posess any class? 5's for all thoughts.. except for her's.
Heh, this is funny. My boyfriend actually has a theory on this. I was re-reading it just today.
I will summarize for you.
Normal person + anonymity + audience = shitcock.
"So you see, given me, a normal person, plus the anonymity of the internet, plus you as an audience, I will sooner or later degenerate into a total "shitcock". That's right. This is a scientific law, proven by all kinds of observations. However, until now, no one could feasibly explain why this equation held true, or why so many people on the internet were such ridiculous fuckholes."
He goes on to say how internet asshats will either drive away the nice people, or turn them into asshats themselves. If you think about it, it is true. When someone is a dick to you online your first reaction is to curse them out. That turns you into an asshat as well. Given enough exposure to shitcocks, either you join them, or go away.
This leaves only the shitcock asshats to roam the communities and websites once populated by nice people. Anonymity and an audience can turn someone into a total fuckhole. I would assume that is what happened with this idiot.
She attacked you when you were right. I wouldn't put much stock into what she says. She doesn't even understand basic ovulation. And she is a FEMALE. You can't put much weight on the rantings of an asshat shitcock fuckhole.
Heh, I don't think I have ever swore so much in a "brilliant answer" ever. Sweet.
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I had a question on here about a week ago. I had been raped and I wanted to be tighter again so I could feel like i was a virgin. Most people suggested I do kegels. I did kegels. The weird part is I think I got myself to tight? is that possible?
Id just like to kno because if sometime I do find the right guy, and maybe anytime soon I dont want it to hurt very badly.
It takes time to develop muscles. Doing kegels for a week or so isn't going to make you too tight..
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MY boyfriend and I have been going out for over a year, but for the last couple months we've been going out in secret while he rebuilds the friendships he lost. Innocent right? Not really.
Now, all he does is joke around about liking these other girls and then will be like "jk, i love you". He hurts me all the time. His myspace doesnt have one mention of me, his 'girlfriend' and 'best friend' but at least 5 things for this other girl. He wrote this poem to my other friend and now he's entering into a contest. He's always in a bad mood around me but act likes the perfect guy around everyone else. I understand he's trying to get his friends back, but I really want to be treated like I mean something to him. Online, he hardly talks to me! Sometimes 10 minutes will elapse before he'll say "ok" or "cool". I don't know what to do! The only time he acts like a real boyfriend is when we're hanging out just the two of us. He always sends me parts of conversations with other girls that I don't want to see and I tell him not to send it but he does anyways.
Am i just overreacting, or reading too much into it? I'm pretty sure he loves me, but all his 'jokes' about liking other girls is starting to make me question our relationship. I feel forgotten and talking to him about it makes everything worse. He just says I complain too much or im 'abusive'. I love him so much and I'm so confused! All the stuff he used to do to me he does for other people while i just stand on the sidelines being jealous.
Help!!
Reading this over i sound ridiculous but I'm really hurt and this whole this is both emotionally and physically draining.
Your boyfriend is being a jerk and needs to be treated as such.
Stop trying to talk to him online. And if you do, tell him about what guys you like..then say jk, without the I love you.
And in the mean time, shop around for a new guy. This one's antics are going to get real old real fast.
If he isn't showing you that you are special, find one that will.
Oh and this going out in secret is a crock of shit. You should NEVER have to be with someone secretly, unless he is married. Doing that to someone is wrong, period. He should have never asked that of you, and you should have not agreed to it. It is beneath you and you deserve more.
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f/17 ok so theres this guy and i like him so much i had not seen him a whole year because we moved schools and in january i saw him again! He asked me to go to his house so i went nothing happened we only kissed. But only this time the kissing was better than when we went out before and i know there was a conection.i asked him so are we back together hes like yes. The problem comes now... Afterwards there was a little contact on msn but he never phones me he never has i think its because ive always phoned him.Well i then got the flu and was really ill so we never spoke for ages and now i hear hes really ill someone said urber? ill i don't know if that means super ill but i sent him messages when i found out and hes not answered me hes not text me, hes not emailed me back, hes not even picked up his phone well he came on msn the other day and i was like hello u have had me worried are u ok and i said can you text me to let me know you are ok and ive heard nothing hes been of school a week but i don't go his school anymore so i don't know its from a friend i heard hes not well.Now my question is what shall i do??? also i think i like him more than he likes me although he says he loves me and that he will do anything for me and he has stood naked in frount of me once but we never had sex! i don't think he wants it and im still a virgin at 17 is it wrong?someone help me please i will rate you high for any answers that help.thank you in advance.
If he is really sick, he probably doesn't feel like talking or typing. He probably just wants to sleep.
You are freaking out and I don't really think you should be.
He is ill, it makes sense that he isn't around to chat with. Have a friend at his school let him know that you are worried and thinking of him. Ask for him to call you when he feels better. If you have his address, send him a get well card or something.
"also i think i like him more than he likes me although he says he loves me and that he will do anything for me and he has stood naked in frount of me once but we never had sex! i don't think he wants it and im still a virgin at 17 is it wrong?"
Come on...it has only been a few days and he is really ill. Are you that insecure about this that you have to ask this stuff? He said he loves you. A few days of not talking because he is really ill isn't going to change that. He is just sick. If he doesn't talk to you for several weeks, then demand answers.
I am not really trying to be rude, I understand that you are upset, but, seriously.
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I need your help. I have been going out with this guy for five months now. He is a very nice person, he treats me well, and we have fun together.
The main problem is recently he lied to me. We were supposed to meet, but he did not appear. He claimed he was carjacked. He has keys to my house, so he went and took money and pretended the carjackers did it.
I want to forgive him but I'm not sure what to do. He asked for forgiveness and promised that this incident will never be repeated. Can I trust him again?
but i raelly luv him and i dont know what to do :(:(
You have only been with him for a very short period of time.
He didn't just lie to you, he robbed you and betrayed you.
If you want to forgive him, that is great. Most people wouldn't be able to forgive something like that. Forgive him all you want, after you kick him out of your life for being a horrible person.
Chances are that he was very nice and treated you well in hopes that once he showed you his true behavior you might be willing to forgive him.
Don't do it. You won't be able to forgive yourself after he does it to you again.
Fool me once, shame on you.
Fool me twice, shame on me.
This was too big and too criminal for it to be just a one time screw up. Get rid of him fast.
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Ok, I'm a 13/F and I'm happy like 24-7. I mean everyone always comes up to me and asks me how I could be so happy all the time. I mean everyone knows me as the "happy peanut" (school nickname don't ask lol) And I mean I am. And I'm always the friend people come to if they have a problem or if they need someone's shoulder to cry on or anything. But I mean lately everything in my life's been going wrong. My dad's left my family, a kid who was like my brother just died. and I mean I don't know how to talk to anyone about it because they always come to me. And like no one else. And I just want to like SCREAM!! I don't know what to do. It's like I've lost controle of my own life and can't get it back together again. I just want someone to know what's going on. The bad stuff. Because someone needs to know or I'm going to go insane. But I just don't know how to tell anyone. I rate 5's for any answer!! Good or bad, long or short. I'm really in some need for advice. Thanks a bundle if you can help =D ♥Samm
You sound a lot like me. When I was in high school, I was the level headed one that always seemed to be able to help. My friends came to me when they had problems, and I never had anyone to go to when bad things happened to me.
I know that it was hard on me, but if you have a computer you can try an online journal. This helps especially if you don't feel like you can go to your friends. I have a LiveJournal. You can say whatever you like and you can make it completely private. There are plenty of outlets for feelings and venting frustrations. If you don't want a journal, or you worry about it being seen by anyone you can email me if you need to vent. Sometimes it is easier to talk to people online then it is to talk in person.
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well i like or liked (i totally dont know what to think anymore? ) this guy named peter! and well i think he liked me back and he always smiled at me and smiled at me but i'm kind of shy so i never smiled back. so once in my bus he sat next to me and talked to me but i was in a bad mood and very mean to him! well not THAT mean but kinda mean lol so then he never talked to me again but sometimes he still looked at me. so i felt bad and i called him today i was like me: hi my name is cornelia can i please talk to peter peter: yeah i'm peter me: oh well hi its me you know that mean girl? uhm yeah so i just wanted to appologize for being so mean! peter:uhu silence.. me: so is everythink ok again? peter: uhh yeah silence me: ok than silence peter: bye me: bye and well that was it and i started grying cause it totally went wrong! i thought he would say like ok i except it or whatever but he said nothing at all? does he hate me now? i am really upset! i think he's gonn atell everybody now that i called him and then there all gonna laugh at me! but i dont get it! he even told me he loved me once (i was kinda mean then 2) but i tried to be nice now! he act like he didnt care! i need advice i'm really upset!!!! oh and please dont delete this cause i really need advice and i dont wanna write the whole question over again.
You probably took him by suprise calling him. He had tried to show interest in you and each time you were mean to him.
He may have thought that it was a joke or that you were going to be mean again so he didn't say much.
Talk to him the next time you see him. Sit next to him on the bus and apologize in person. Try joking and making fun of it or yourself(just not of him preferably)
If he doesn't respond to you, well I can't really blame him and neither should you. You wouldn't take someone you liked being mean to you very well, would you?
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i'm an embodiment of confusion.
can you be in love with two people at the same time?
i'm so freakin confused, and so damn upset that i just have to be very open here, because i need help..
almost two years ago i got into.. what's it called.. "paper marriage"? or a "marriage contract" or something like that, that i'm "half married", means I’m not living with him yet. yes it happens in some of the muslim countries. i've known my "husband" for 6 years now. he was the one who fell in love with me, i said "yes" for some very stupid reasons, firstly i came to my country after a long time and was not used to the society here, i was living in saudi arabia, and i totally freaked out when he would tell me stuff like "i'll keep following you till you say yes to my proposal..." yeah it was kinda romantic, especially when you're 18 it is. actually judging him objectively i had no reason to say no, he's VERY handsome, we have the same profession now, he's VERY nice in EVERY way, a WONDERFUL guy, kinda guy a girl would dream of having as her life partner. BUT... we have very basic cultural differences, for one thing, secondly, there have been incidences where... i feel... some very basic elements of his personality have shown, which bother me. my basic needs happen to be "deep intellectual, open minded conversations and an awesome brain with a very high IQ". sex and all is secondary for me. i'm very romantic by nature, quite impulsive, restless, and usually so nervous i'm almost neurotic. he's not understanding at all, he has very shallow thinking, he shuts his eyes and ears to questions regarding religion etc.. he's not all that intelligent, though very hard working.. something which i really appreciate. there's not the slightest hint of "philosophy" in his mind and he thinks it's all crap. and he has caused me a LOT of pain many times... things which i can't forget because they really matter to me, they weren't just fights... i recently made a new "friend", (yes i do have guy friends...), this one is DAMN SMART, really, a very bright guy, he's hindu.. he's VERY open minded, he NEVER "tells" me what to do and what not to, he treats me like a "human being", like a "person" before like a woman (which means he gives value to my opinion and doesn't make my ideas a matter of his ego), and we are similar in so many of our weird ways. (by the way, not that i'm trying to act or trying to show off or to praise my own self here, but for some strange reason every person who has ever gotten to know me in my life has told me i'm "different" from other girls.. i think they mean other girls in my society.. don't know.. whatever.. but this other guys says that too.. and i'm so much like HIM that he has fallen in love with me).. the problem is, that i feel "love" for this guy, but also for my husband because we have spent some wonderful times together, and he was the first man in my life, my first love, i lost my virginity to him, and 6 years is a long time.
i NEED someone to tell me, whom i should be with now... i know this sounds stupid, but really i'm so freakin confused, both love me so much, both tell me they would do ANYTHING just to be with me, i love this new guy a lot, can't see him upset, we do have little fights but i love the way he handles them, he's very intelligent and can actually almost read my mind every time. but sometimes i get so depressed thinking about my husband, i've been telling him in the past that we're not made for each other, and it's ok, he can have his time to decide for himself. i think my being "different" is what makes him want me like he does, otherwise he doesn't like anything about me, i'm not religious at all, he hates that, i come from a differnet background, a different culture (of which he knew when he proposed to me and i reminded him again and again to THINK about his decision because it doesn't matter to me where he comes from but to HIM it might) and he's suddenly realizing that he hates my culture (i speak urdu, he speaks pashto etc) though he tries his best to accept me as i am, but he can't, the matter keeps popping up, he thinks MY culture is not honorable like his.. on top of all that, he denies that he hates these things about me, but his actions speak otherwise..........
WHAT DO I DO!!!
my apologies for this being tooooo long.. but i don't know what the heck to do.... i have noone to talk to about this, noone whom i can ask for advice..
I am not sure that I understand the idea of "half marriage" but it sounds to me reading your question that you would really be happier with your new love. Your husband slowly realizing that he hates most things about you and thinking that your culture is beneath his will be an awful thing to have to deal with.
6 years IS a long time, but it could end up being 20 years with him not stimulating you mentally and respecting your ideas and thoughts and background. That, is what you said is MOST important to you. Your half husband doesn't respect or help you expand your ideas.
You sound like you would be much happier with the other guy and you know this already, you are just looking to validate your decision to be strong enough to break away from your half husband.
The longer you wait, the harder it will be and the messier it will become. But, you need to do it.
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i broke up with my boyfriend and said that i just wanted to be friends then he was saying that he loved me and stuff like that. i only feel like i still like him when he talks about other girls and stuff. well like yesterday he started going out with my best friend and she knew i still liked him. on his away messages he always puts i love sarah turner.
he never put i love paityn smith on his away message and we went out for almost 3 months and they have been going out for one day! we arent friends anymore because of this. and i really want to keep it that way.i dont know what to do , and im miserable now without him. do you think its just jealousy or do i really love him?
im in the 6th grade and hes in 7th i know this probably sounds stupid, but he is the only boy ive ever loved.
thank you for reading this
paityn
I think you are just stung because he told you that he loved you and now he supposedly loves your ex best friend.
If you really loved him, you wouldn't have broken up with him. You said it yourself...
"i only feel like i still like him when he talks about other girls and stuff."
Nuff said.
If I were you I would just focus my energies on all of the guys who aren't dating my ex best friend. That pool of guys is much, much bigger.
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about a month or 2 ago..for like a week..id come home..and fall asleep for maybe like 2-3 hours. and i was fine.. got up and finshed my homework...and went back to bed around 10.
i get up @ 5-5:30 everyday for school and i go to sleep around 10-11. like every normal teen.
my eating pattern has been a little messed up from stress and crap. and i got sick 2 weeks ago and was out of school for a week. and i just got all caught up with everything and just got me really stressed out a bit.
yesterday was the first time i slept for 15 hours..and i woke up still tired a bit.
maybe this was just a one time shot...but im still a little tired.
insomnia was the first thing i thought of when i was talking about it with friends and then i thought..could that be possiable? i mean isnt insomnia when you dont get any sleep at all? not over 12 hours?
- ♥ thanks
It is the inability to sleep or remain asleep for periods of time. Only being able to really rest for only a few minutes is a sign of insomnia. It has many underlying causes including...stress.
You may be able to fall asleep for intervals, but they do not last very long.
Being sick and having catch up (for school) stress could be causing your sleep and eating woes.
As things calm down your sleeping and eating patterns should go back to normal. If this continues to happen for any longer than a few more days or a week, go to a doctor. They can prescribe sleep aides for temporary relief and to get a good nights sleep. That might be able to help you while re-adjust to your old patterns.
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OKay so me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 8 months , and we are definantly in love. Lately we have been talkin about sex, a little more and more each time we talk to each other. Like last night we were texting each other and he said and i quote "Blaire, I love you, & you no that, i would do anything in the world for you. And , well now, i think im ready, for well you know, to have sex. I think we should try it. But only if your ready"
and the thing is , were young. He is 16, im almost 14.(one more week) and well, i would really love to loose my virginity to him, but he has already had sex(he used to be in the major party scene. He quit for me.) So should i have sex with him?
-Confsed
I am laughing at some of the replies you have gotten here. Many are just saying "No you're too young" or "He just wants the sex and doesn't care about you"
That is pretty funny since in the time he has been with you, he has quit partying and HASN'T PRESSURED YOU into sex. You have been together 8 months which is a long time to be together without having sex.
He is brining it up because he is ready and is trying to find out if you are. If all he wanted was sex, he would have left by now and found someone who would have given it up.
Since the two of you are having open conversations about sex (which is an excellent thing by the way) tell him that you would like to lose your virginity to him...just not quite yet. He is over 2 years older than you and he should take that into consideration.
He seems like a decent guy..despite what these other twats are saying..give him a chance to show you and ask him to wait for you a little longer until YOU feel that you are ready.
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okay..is it normal to fall asleep @ 6PM. wake up for 5 minutes around 10PM. then go back to sleep. wake up @ 1 then fall back to sleep. then again at 5AM. then 7:30. Then getting up @ 9AM. still really tired. is that normal at all??
Normal, not really. I do have some questions.
How long are you actually awake during the day?
How long has this been going on?
How are your eating patterns?
How are your moods?
I would say that if this has been going on for longer than a few nights and your eating patterns are disrupted and your moods are shot that it is just more than mere insomnia.
You should ask your doctor and maybe go in for a check up.
Some people just don't sleep. It is unhealthy, but even medications haven't helped them. An old friend of mine, Lance, he never slept more than two hours a night if he was lucky. He had tried every sleeping pill the doctors gave him and nothing works. He functions fine, other than being incredibly bored up late nights.
If you are not functioning fine then you need to see your doctor.
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okay so everyone at school calls me a slut n even my friends. like i no there jsut kidding and all but it really bugs me and i want it to stop. ive had sex with 4 people.. is it THAT slutty? im 15. i dont no wat to do i just wish it never happend. i just want to earn respect from my friends and clear my bad reputation. ]
any ideas?? it would be greatly appreciated
What you do is your business and no one elses. If you want respect, usually you have to act in such a way that reflects how you want to be seen.
Since that isn't really an option for you, you need to stand up for yourself. You need to stand up to your friends and everyone else that calls you whatever. You don't have to fight, you don't have to yell, you just need to be no-nonsense and serious.
4 partners at 15 will seem like a lot to the others around you and there is nothing you can do about that. But if you don't/refuse to take it, they will get the message. People will still call you a slut. You are probably far more experienced than most of your class.
But everyone has things they are insecure of and sensitive about. If they can exploit yours, you can exploit theirs. Maybe if they understood how crappy it is to be singled out, they wouldn't be so quick to do it themselves.
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hey i need major help on getting a new screen name and i was just wondering if you could help me..
my name is kaela but a lot of my friend call me kay
im in dance
i have a boyfriend named ed
i love the color pink
i like to shop at hollister & abercrombie
i hope this helps you! thanks a lot
Kaela,
I think the key to a good screen name is for it to be unusual. That makes you stand out and be unique. Take mine for an example. Chickens lay eggs. Eggs are chicken, so, chicken flavored eggs...is redundant and silly. Which is why I chose it. Coincidentally...there is also a story behind it.
Personally I think that all screen names having to do with Hollister & Abercrombie, pink/red/rose/mauve are played out. They are all too common and kind of, well, meh. So, I shall give you uncommon and unique screen names and you can decide for yourself. You can add your name and or tweek them as you wish.
*clears throat*
These first five are Paintings by Salvador Dali...he rules all!
Exquisite_Cadaver
Meditative Rose
Clothed Automobile
Burning Giraffe
Persistence of Memory
impulsive camel
Cow_flavored_steak (I am making fun of myself here)
emo_emu
organized ostrich
lawless carrot
aprehensive hamster
Fidgety Sphinx (that is funny because they are made of stone and don't move)
Galloping Gopher
And because it is breakfast time and I am hungry:
magical candy
magically delicious
Unlucky Charms (I like that one)
Calculating crouton
pink honey (you might actually like that one!)
Waffles (mmmmmm....waffles)
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first off is there anyway to get an STD if you dont do anything sexual? cuz my friend has never done anything like that and apparently she has an STD...how does that work? T H A N K S !
The only ways she could have an STD without having sex would be to have gotten at birth through the birth canal. That is unlikely since in the last 10-15 years they perform C-sections on women who have STD's to prevent any harm to the baby.
If she is a drug user, then she could have an STD through sharing various paraphernalia.
If you know that she is not an IV drug user, then most likely she is lying about not being sexually active. It also depends on what STD she has contracted.
Oh and please, I beg you, please ignore the advice given by xomarisox. Her advice here makes me sad. Her answer could possibly apply to the normal communicable diseases such as cold, flu, meningitis, etc..etc. But you do NOT transfer STD's by touchin someones thigh and holding hands with others. --that is just stupid.
Most STD's are transfered through open sores and or exchange of bodily fluids. Example: Sex, oral sex and anal sex. You can infect yourself if you have an open wound or cut and come into contact with blood or other bodily fluids.
You don't get a sexually transmitted disease on your thigh. You get them in your genital area and if certain kinds are in your blood stream, you can have symptoms around your eye and mouth area. STD's that are in later stages because they were not caught can cause infections and death, but won't be a danger to anyone else unless you are completely careless.
They are viruses and do not live outside the body for very long.
Everything she said is uninformed and idiotic.
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hey is there any way I can put on eyeliner so that it wont come off after a few minutes? I think I may have watery eyes or something but it all runs to the outer corners a few minutes after I put it on and i use a top quality one too (Rimmel London)
is there anything to help?
thankx luv
rach xxx
If you do not have a Sephora near you, you can try Urbandecay.com
They have this makeup primer/eyeshadow primer. It goes on before you apply your eye makeup and it adheres it to your skin so that it does not rub off easily. It is kind of expensive, but you don't use a lot and it will last you a while.
I use it before I go out at night. My make up stays on.
If you apply it lightly under your eyelash line and let it dry then apply your eyeliner, it will stay put.
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What is a shocker?
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=shocker
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Ok, heres my question. Around October, I found the blog of an Australian girl on the Internet. She'd kept the blog for about a year before I read it. I started noting it and we added each other on MSN. Now we're pretty good email friends, strange as it sounds, I always seem to have tons to talk about to her. We never set out to email, it just started out kind of accidentally.
Anyway, she recently found out that a friend of her fathers is opening a chain of coffee shops and has offered to send her over here (England) to work there. She's always wanted to travel and is really thrilled by this. Anyway, she's going to be in a town about 2 hrs on the train from where I live and obviously she suggested meeting up. Well I have absolutely no reason to doubt she's genuine (ie. not a dangerous rapist) except for the fact she's an Internet friend. I've swapped photos with her and read her friends blog, and I'm planning to speak to her on the phone before we meet up, and it'll definately be somewhere crowded in the middle of town. I'm not telling my parents about her, although I'll tell my friends. My question just is - are there any other precautions I should take to be 100% safe? I'd really really appreciate a detailed answer,
Thanks so much in advance,
Me :):)
Nothing in life is 100% safe. That is what makes it worth living. The two of you have been talking since October and if she still seems like a genuine person, then she might just be that. I randomly found a guy online.
I messaged him and we started talking...we found out we had a few things in common and eventually we met. We have been together ever since.
People can lie to you whether it is over the computer or in person. I have been lied to more by people in person than by people I have gotten to know online. I guess I have been pretty lucky with that. I have come across some really genuine folks.
Just go and have fun. If you are in a public place, you should be fine. I wouldn't worry about it too much. Just see where it takes you.
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