I am 14yrs old and have a bf I'm confused and need advice on is my not talking to my bf everyday or even every other day sometimes normal. He's always out and gets in the house late, then he has a sister and girls talk on the phone alot...so is it normal or what should I do about it,i don't believe it's a terrible problem but... it's bothering me.Pleez HELP!
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[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? hev7777777 answered Friday April 28 2006, 4:07 pm: well, i dont mean to be mean or anything about what i am going to say, but it is just my opinion.
I think that your bf is probably not wanting to be in a relationship anymore, because usually guys start to do that sort of stuff when they are trying to get you to get loose.
Maybe you should try talking to him about how you are feeling though!
Well, i hope that my advice helps at least a little bit!
Chicken_flavored_eggs answered Friday April 28 2006, 12:20 am: I had a similar problem. I wasn't seeing my boyfriend enough for my liking. So I talked to him about it.
I told him if he didn't start seeing me more, I would start camping in his yard. I also told him that I was not to be ignored while brandishing a sharp pointy object at him. He had this horrified look on his face, but he has called me every day since! Yay for getting what you want by threats!
Now, seriously. DON'T threaten him, I spent several nights in jail and my new "friend" Agatha set me straight. She may have gone on a murderous killing spree, but that was PMS and she really was relationship savvy.
Just tell him you want to see him more. He should understand and he should agree. Maybe work out a certain time at night when he calls you or you call him. That way, he can plan for when to talk to you and have the phone free. It doesn't have to be everyday, like you said, but sometimes, just a phone call makes ALL THE DIFFERENCE. [ Chicken_flavored_eggs's advice column | Ask Chicken_flavored_eggs A Question ]
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