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Sometimes I get really lonely for no reason. I'm always around family and friends but I feel really lonely. I just feel down and depressed. I don't know why I feel so lonely and abandoned. Does anyone know what's wrong with me? (link)
It could very well be just puberty things that are hitting you at the momment!
Hope i helped!

Hev


My parents will no longer let me hang out with one of my friends. I don't even see why. She's very respectful and nice. They just don't like her for some reason. How can I make them let me hang out with her again? She's a really good friend and I don't want to lose her. I will rate any1 who helps. So please help. Thank you in advance. (link)
you can try having your friend talk to your parents instead of yourself, because most of the time it really does work.
Have her tell your parents that she would really like to hang out with you, because you guise are really good friends, and she doesnt know what she has done wrong, but what ever it is about, she is sorry!
This should work, because it has happened to me before, and that is what i had done to fix it, and now we are talking again, and my parents are now cool with her and all, so it is good!
I hope that you solve your problems!

Hev
PS: By the way, let me know how it goes if you can, and my email is hev7777777@yahoo.com!



i've had a crush on this guy for what feels like forever. he seems perfect for me and he flirts with me. he's really nice and really like him. i wish we could go out but both of us are extremely shy about that and so i don't know what to do. if i don't tell him how i feel i'll feel like i'll never be able to tell him. what can i do? (link)
you can try writing him a letter, but if you have somebody give it to him for you, it is considered a bad luck thing, so give it to him all on your own, okay!
Well, i hope that this works for you!
So, let me know about what you decide to do, and about what happens, okay!
My email is hev7777777@yahoo.com, so email me if you ever need any help with anything!

Hev


Heey guys :D
HAPPY 666 (6/6-06) HAHA :P

Okeey, here's the thing, I just got a new bulletin board to my room, and I wanna make it cool!

What can I put upexcept pictures (already done that) is there anythikng else, any ideas to make it look cool??

thanks!! (link)
I dunno if this will help, but i hope that it does at least a little.......
.yarn for a boarder
.colored paper and cut out shapes
.colored feathers
.paint
.pictures out of magazines

well that is pretty much all that i can think of at the momment, sorry!

Hev


So there is this guy and well he really likes me, I fooled around with him for a while, but got really bored of him, now he text messages me and Calls me and he's even said he comes to my house in the middle of the night in his car and watches it all night cause he misses me, he seems really weird, what should I do?

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I think that you should just tell him how you are feeling, and he might take it a little harshly, but he shoud get over it sooner or later.
I hope that i have helped you!

Hev


okay so when i wear tampons i almost always use the "heavy" ones because i don't find the "regular" ones protect me as much. but when i take out the "heavy" ones (after 7-8 hours) they are sometimes not fully absorbed. are there any risks in this? (link)
no, that is completely fine.

I hope that i have helped.

Hev


My bf has an older brother (11 years older). He looks up to him like a father cz he helped bring my bf up. I like his brother a lot. Hes a nice guy.
Ive realised that whenever his bro is with us my bf doesnt treat me too gd (rude etc), for no reason. As soon as his brother has gone hes really nice to me.
He can't even be bothered to see me, or talk to me, if hes going out with his bro later on.
When we talk on the phone he doesnt make an effort. Its like Im talking to myself. When he talks to his bro they're laughing n hes telling his brother everything.
Before I didnt see it. Then I thought I was exagerating n I thought it was me who was acting diff. But now its jus obvious to me.
I have tried talking to him about it but he jus says Im being stupid and he wouldn't do that to me. If I say smething about his bro hes gonna get annoyed with me. He always does.
I dunno how to approach the situation. (link)
Well, if he really cared for you, then he would take it into consideration instead of just saying that you are being stupid.
Anyways, i think that you should talk to him about it a little bit at a time, and when the conversation starts to get a little roudy, then bring it up again the next day, and continue with it until he gets it in his head that it is really bothering you.
I had the exact same prblem with one of my boyfriends.
By the way, if he really cares about you and all, well, he should learn to listen to how you are feeling.

I hope that i have helped.

Hev


i have vaginal inflammation and irritation... but no infection. however, the discomfort is unbearable. what can i do, other than hot-water soaks, to soothe the pain? (link)
You should try vasaline and baby powder.

I hope that i have helped.

Hev


what is a good amount of money per hour

if i dont really know the kids except that that they are a sister of a family friend

and that the daughter is 2 and the son is 7

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well, i would charge $4 for the ywo year old each hour and $5 for the seven year old each hour.
I hope that helped.



Hev


i recently learned i am pregnant. so far, im thinkin its prolly a month and a half along. im 16, and there is NOOOOOOO way in the world i can have this baby. theres no way in the world i can tell anyone my boyfriend of over a year got me pregnant. my family's real good friends with his, and things just wouldnt be pretty. also, both our families are real religious and would drown us in all the 'sex before marriage is a sin' stuff. well, fact of the matter is, since we havent told anyone about it yet- i havent gone to a doctor. i know youre supposed to get prenatal care the second you find out youre pregnant- but i cant bring myself to tell anyone, and truthfully- i really dont want to have this baby. i will NOT have an abortion, but i think i might be having a miscarriage, or about to be having one. i have all of the symptoms. i guess my questions are;
1. how do i tell people?
2. how do i know for sure if im having a miscarriage?
and 3. am i a horrible person? (link)
no, you are not a horrible person, and people make mistakes in life that sometimes end up being bigger then you imagined that it had been going to.
Even though your parents are really religious and all, well, they should be able to understand after time goes by that even though you have sinned, you can always ask God for forgiveness, and he will take that sin and put it behind him.
Try telling somebody, anybody that you trust, like an adult, and have them come with you, when you tell your parents.
Also, if you want to do it the hard way, you can carry the baby the whole way through, and wear baggy clothes, and then have the baby, and give it to one of the hospitals, or a fire station, if you dont have a hospital near you, and they will take the baby with no questions ased, and you have two weeks to decide weather or not it is that you want to keep it or not. you can always pick it up during that time.
Well, i hope that i have helped you at least a little bit.

Hev


13/f
Ive noticed that in the past few days ive been crying all the time, and i dont know why, cos im happy, yesterday was great and its the half term so things are fun. But yesterday i was reading this book about two people in love and then they had this big emotional row and just because of that i started crying.
Then this morning i checked my email and there was this chain mail about how you dont realise how much you love your parents until theyre gone, which made a few tears come from my eyes. Then, i was just watching the streets new music video (where he sings about how he misses his father) and i almost cried.
I dont know why, as i hardly ever cry, why do i keep crying at all these little things? (link)
Well, you are probably just going through a little bit of puberty issues.
I do the same thing sometimes. It is just a thing that happens to girls at certain times, and it really doesnt matter what time at all though.

Hev


well i the last 2 month a had my period for only 2 days! and this month i only had it really short. there was just a little blood in my underwear and the next day i go this really bad cold and now i never lost any blood since then? so whats going on??? is it something i have to worry about? please help


i'll rate (link)
well, you could maybe be pregnant, if that is possible for you anyways, because some peopl do still bleed a little bit when they are. My sister bled for her first few months, and then stopped for the rest of the time.
I hope that i have helped.



Hev


okay i have a cingular phone and i need a website that i can get ringtones without having to get online on my phone to recieve it... i know cingular.com has ringtones but they never fully get to my phone please help me i hate all of the ringtones i have and i need a song ringtone im so bored with my pretones (link)
well, you can actually go online at home and find ring tones, if that is what you are asking!
Here are some websites:
.www.RingToneJukeBox.com
.www.ringtones.double.com
.www.mtv.com/starmtv/ringtones/
.www.zingy.com/
.www.ringtones-direct.com/

Well, i hope that i have helped you out at least a little bit!

Hev


I bite my nails and they look really bad. So on special occasions I buy fake nails at like target or something and glue them on. They look pretty good. The only problem is that the glue is never sturdy enough and can never hold my fake nails down to my real nails. Where can I buy glue that is able to hold them down and keep them fully attached to my real nails in water for up to 4 hours! What nail glue can i get and where can i buy it? Thank-you (link)
Actually, you can buy achirlic nails to do all on your own if you wanted to try that. You can get them at sallys beauty supply! Then you can get that and one pack will last like a couple of years, instead of buying a bunch of packs like every week, which actually costs more, believe it or not.
Well, i hope that i have helped!

Hev


i do 100-200 pushups a day and theyre not getting rid of the flab under my arm any ideas how i rly need help i dont wanna wear sweatshirts forever. ill rate 5's (link)
well, push ups arent exactly for that, they are mainly for your abs, but they are also for that kind of, but it helps them to gain muscle instead of flab. A faster way is to lift weights. You do three sets of 1o-20 at a time, and depending on how stronge you are, you start off with about 40-70 pounds in weight.
I hope that i have helped!

Hev


My boyfriend broke up with me because
he thought we'd be better off as best friends again.
We were best friends before.
I'm in hell right now I miss him so much.
I want to be back with him...I dont know what to do. Should I talk to him about it?
I'm a wreck. (link)
Yes you should talk to him about it, because even if he doesnt feel the same way, a true friend will always stick with you, ALWAYS!
Also, that could be the easy way out for him to say that he wants a break from the relationship at the momment!
Well, i hope that i have helped at least a little!

Hev


Okay, so I dye my hair a lot. Well, I havn't cut it all year, and its still the same length and I think its gotten shorter. I straighten it with a wet/dry straightner when its wet and I wash it once or twice a week. How do I get my hair to grow faster? B/C apparently all the crap I put it through is why its so short.


I rate high! Thanks in advance. (link)
Well, i seriously think that you should try not washing it only once or twice a week, but wash it every day, because washing it less and having it grow faster is as myth!
Also, you might want to try the blow dryer for a little while to straighten it, until it gets healthy again!
Well, i hope that i have helped!

Hev


Hey people :D

I recently bought TWO tanning lotions, Natusan Holiday Skin, and Dove summer glow, now I was just wondering - how do you apply these? Can you use them on your face“? And if not, what do you do to make your face the same colour as your skin? Anything to think about?

Thaaank yoOu! (link)
Yes, you can put it on your face, but be careful for skin cancer, because it is really common to get it on your face.

Well, i hope that i have helped at least a little bit with your issue!

Hev


im not just here for the rating. Wehn you ask a question and you give the honest answer and you answer the question they asked. Why do they rate you a one.? Is there anything to do about them rating you a one when you deserved something like a four or a five? (link)
I really think that you dont rate just to rate the answer, but you rate for them to know about how much they have helped you out with your situation.
Also, you cant change a persons rating, but you can delete the rating!
I hope that this helped you at least a little bit!

Hev


First off i'll give 5's for anyone even considering to read my dream :]

KSO I had a dream about this guy I like.

The guy that i'm i like with came over to my house and helped me babysit my siblings. But i've never even talked to him before and even at my house we still didn't talk. But we kept on looking at each other and smiling and just staring at each others eyes. Then we went to the living room and sat next to each other and watched the tv. Then I started playing the piano and he was watching me and I told him "im not very good at this so don't be surprised when it's bad." and he said "That's ok with me." But before i could even start to play my brother interupts me. Then before i start to play again my sister interupts me. When this is happening he starts laughing and smiling and so do I. Then after them 2 leave before i start to play again, he says to me "Well I better get going now..." He gets up and walks over to me and then gives me a big hug and whispers in my ear "I love you.. Maybe we should hang out more often and see where this is going because i dont want to stay just best friends with you." But we're not even best friends. So I say back, with tears in my eyes, "I love you too and dido." Then he gets up and starts walking to the door and i say "don't say that we're not gonna be just friends we're going to be boyfriend and girlfriend." and he just smiles and says alright and walks on out.

After that i felt verrry happy and in love, then extremely nervous and then i felt a strange tranquility wash over me.
I had a heart drawn on my hand and i just looked at it and smile and then my alarm went off and my dream ended.

What could all this mean? Please help!! 16female if that helps any.. (link)
Well, that is pretty crazy, but to be honest, dreams dont always mean reality! It only becomes reality if you are psychic!
Well, i hope that this helped a little at least!

Hev




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