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my ex boyfriend


Question Posted Sunday March 12 2006, 11:00 am

i broke up with my boyfriend and said that i just wanted to be friends then he was saying that he loved me and stuff like that. i only feel like i still like him when he talks about other girls and stuff. well like yesterday he started going out with my best friend and she knew i still liked him. on his away messages he always puts i love sarah turner.
he never put i love paityn smith on his away message and we went out for almost 3 months and they have been going out for one day! we arent friends anymore because of this. and i really want to keep it that way.i dont know what to do , and im miserable now without him. do you think its just jealousy or do i really love him?
im in the 6th grade and hes in 7th i know this probably sounds stupid, but he is the only boy ive ever loved.
thank you for reading this
paityn


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advicelady232 answered Sunday March 12 2006, 4:43 pm:
You are in love! This means many things, you still love him and that is totally normal!! go for it and ask him say i always think about you and i still love you.

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Jay answered Sunday March 12 2006, 4:12 pm:
i think that you need to talk to him and work it out together to find out if you really do love him. If he is your first love that is something special and you want that to last but you have to remember there will be other people in your life. Trust your heart is the answer.

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Chicken_flavored_eggs answered Sunday March 12 2006, 4:05 pm:
I think you are just stung because he told you that he loved you and now he supposedly loves your ex best friend.

If you really loved him, you wouldn't have broken up with him. You said it yourself...
"i only feel like i still like him when he talks about other girls and stuff."
Nuff said.

If I were you I would just focus my energies on all of the guys who aren't dating my ex best friend. That pool of guys is much, much bigger.

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LoViNu2mOuCh answered Sunday March 12 2006, 2:57 pm:
He does not love your friend, I have a good feeling that he is doing it to make you mad.

So my advice to you is to forget him...yes that may seem hard, but trust me it will be the best thing for you.

Get yourself a new boyfriend and move on.

You have your whole life ahead of you, you are what 12 years old? You have sooo much ahead of you, you probably would not have been with that boy forever, so move on and have fun, don't worry about some boy.

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AskCary answered Sunday March 12 2006, 2:42 pm:
I promise you that your ex does not love your best friend. He is behaving like a jerk and is only trying to make you jealous. I'm willing to bet that he is using your friend for that reason and it doesn't say much for his character. It's totally normal to feel jealous when someone that you used to be with is involved with/talks about another girl. It doesn't mean that you love him. Whenever someone else gets something/someone that used to be ours, it's normal to feel a twinge of jealousy and doubt. That's just basic human nature, and those feeling will pass with some time. It's too bad that you and you best friend aren't friends anymore because of this guy. However, she doesn't sound like a very good friend anyway so I say it's her loss.

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