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Is He Genuine?
Ok heres the deal my bf has been in a relationship before me with another girl and he was very serious with her and while they were going out he treated me like crap. Then, they broke up and he was all upset bc he said she was the love of his life, blah blah blah. So then me and him start to flirting and stuff and we both like each other and he asks me out well I said I need to think about this and the next day I find out he's back with her. Well he dumped her and then we some how end up together. But now he says he loves me and a part of his always has and was thinking of me when he was going out with her, but how do I know this it feels like he's using lines on me that he used on her and idk if their genuine or not or if he's just saying this and is going to end up changing his mind, P.S. this boy said he had liked me since fourth grade and it's been a while since then and we've dated before, THANKS SORRY ITS SOO LONG!!!!
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well, i dont know blake as good as you, but i think he seems like a pretty understanding person. And wehn i was going out with him I felt the same way as you do. Cus I knew that he had liked you, and stuff. But I didnt talk to him about how i felt, so i think thats one of the reasons our relationship failed. So i definetley think you should talk to him and work this out, because I know you really love him and it seems as though he really loves you too. And theres really no way to tell if they are genuine unless you ask him, but stll then he could be lying to you to about it. So I suggest talk to him in person and see what his facial expressions, movements, if he seems like hes nervous. But you know how blake is you really cant tell how he feels, cus the so many times hes done this to both of us.Remember im here for you, and i wont tell him, you can trust me. tell me how everything works out.. Good luck to you! lylas much!!
<3 mandy
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yea he can be a bitch!
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Break up with him, sounds like he is a bull shitter(sorry) but i think you need to leave him.
Sounds like he is just using you to try and get over her, but he will probably end up hurting you and go back with her...so if you don't want to get hurt, you should get out!!!
Good Luck!
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You were a rebound girlfriend, he's not only using lines on you...he's using you. Give him an ultimatum and stick with it. Such as "I am not going out with you again until you have been away from her for three months" Don't give in..if he really wants a relationship with you he'll do it. If he goes back to her, or finds someone else then it wasn't meant to be.
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Sometimes people change, but more often they do not. If a guy has a history of, in your own words, 'treating you like crap', then chances are he'll do it again. If he's hot and cold with you and fliting about between you and his ex-girlfriend then he doesn't like you enough to make a commitment, whatever lines he pulls about having liked you for years.
Maybe he does have some genuine feelings for you, but that does distract from the fact that he's behaved and is continuing to behave badly to you. Moreover, you don't trust him. Why be in a relationship if you aren't sure any of the sentiments are real?
Give yourself a break from this guy. If he does have genuine feelings for you he'll start behaving differently and you'll get some confidence that his feelings are real, and you'll be able to start on a meaningful relationship. If on the other hand he is just spinning you lines, he'll just swing straight back to his ex-girlfriend or somebody else, and you will have been saved some heartache. All the best.
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