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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.


I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

advice

okay, im a freshman at highschool, and ive been talking to a senior since july. ill be 15 in november, and he's 18. my mom knows about it but she won't let us hang out! its annoying because we really like eachother, and its not like im asking to fuck him, we just want to hang out. how can i change her mind?!

There really is no way to convince her. She's not doing this to make your life a living hell, she's doing this because she cares about you.

The fact of the matter is that he is an adult & you are a minor. Hanging out can get both of you in trouble. Hang out with boys your own age.

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so im a sophmore in highschool and have never done anything at all risky. i never had a oy friends pr hooked up or got drunk or anything. and im finding out that all of my friends have and it makes me really sad. i hate feeling left out and unexperienced. what do i do?

You should be proud that you're like that. There is nothing wrong with any of that.

You shouldn't be drinking anyways until you're 21. And you shouldn't be hooking up with random guys. A boyfriend is okay at your age, but hooking up & drinking are not.

You should be proud of yourself though, not ashamed. Kids like you are a rare breed.

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i really like the across-the-shoulder messenger backs from Victoria's Secret. they only have the pink ones left online but i'd rather have a different color. does anyone know where i can find bags similar to these? i know Coach has them and i love those, but i just can't spend that much ha. i'd like to keep them $30 or less. a store with online shopping would be preferable, thanks!

Try on www.half.com

They might have them on there.

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Ok so i'm 15 and i like love ........sex...........lol but only had it when i wasl ike 9...when would be a good age for me to have it?

There's nothing funny about loving sex at 15 years old. If I read right, you had sex when you were 9? I can bet my whole life that it wasn't consensual & was with someone way older than you.

You need therapy. Wait til you're older to have sex.

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Well my boyfriend and I have been dating for a month. The thing is we hardly ever talk and we don't hang out a lot either. When we do hang out we just sit there or drive around, we never hold hands, cuddle etc. He's 19 and I'm 17. Anyways, I kinda wanna break up because its a pointless relationship. What's your opinion? Thanks!

You pretty much answered your own question.

He's probably cheating on you, and the relationship is pointless to you. Break up with him. Don't stay if it's making you miserable.

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Alright here it goes.
I know that it's only the 27th of September and i usualy get my period around the end of the month but i am worried that i will not have it. But say i didn't have my period this month, does that nessacrely mean that i'm becoming pregnant?


Please help as soon as possible.

If you didn't have sex, then your chances of becoming pregnant are slim. It could just be a missed period.

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i'm thinking about coloring my hair, just a different shade maybe. lighter, or darker? i wanted to go with light brown hair, but i'm not sure if that really compliments me.

pictures:

http://i36.tinypic.com/1jq821.jpg
http://i34.tinypic.com/1ion11.jpg
http://i36.tinypic.com/14m3ynn.jpg

thanks :)

You're really pretty. I wouldn't go any darker because sometimes super dark hair doesn't always work. You can try going lighter hair or keeping it natural.

You may even look pretty as a blonde.

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okay so my mom wont let me get in cars with guys.
it sucks really bad.
she says that she needs to meet them first and let her get to know them and she means that by the guys coming over to my house.
i hate bringing guys home because its really boring at my house and nothing to do.
i sneak out alot and that is because she wont let me get in cars with guys. i wont do anything bad with them but she dont trust me. i really hate it. i cant ever hang out with a guy unless they come over to my house or i sneak out. i dont know what to do. everybody gets to get in cars with guys, even my best friends, there is this one really good girl and she even gets to and my best friend get to too and her mom didnt even know him. it just sucks, im tired of it. help me please. i will give out a 5. (:

It wasn't you that your mother didn't trust, it was the boy. But, now that you've been sneaking out & going behind her back, she doesn't trust you either. I know this rule is making it seem like your life is over or like it's so unfair and you'll just die if you can't go on a joyride with some guy from school, but I'm sure you'll get over it. Her house, her rules. If she wants to make that rule, then she can & you have to follow it. Breaking her rules & going behind her back are going to stop her from trusting you.

Either bring the guy home & find a way to entertain him, or stay home & gain your mother's trust back. None of what you're doing is going to make her trust you. You need to follow her rules because I'm sure that when you have kids, you don't want them pulling the same bullshit on you. I really hope you don't plan on bringing up that whole "But my friends got to go in a car with boys!" story because it won't work. Those girls aren't her kids so she could care less what they do. You're her daughter so she's going to worry about you.

Face it. You're not going anywhere with a boy until she meets him & you've gotta stop sneaking out or she'll never trust you. It's kinda your own fault.

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is elite modeling a good company thing????? PLEASE HELP!!

http://www.elitemodel.com/

Yeah, they're pretty popular.

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14-f

am i a slut??????????
1. i get wasted
2. im no where near being a virgin
3. i have let people take advantage of me
4. i am either going to be a playboy bunny or a stripper somewhere....

do these make me a slut??????????? bacause everyone thinks i amm...and i kind of dont want them to

I would say so.

You're 14. You shouldn't be drinking, nor should you be having sex or letting people take advantage of you. And you should want a better future for yourself. A playboy bunny, a stripper? Why not become a doctor or a teacher? Be something that's gonna benefit you.

If you don't want them to see you as a slut, then you need to change. Stop drinking, stop sleeping around, go to school & get an education, and stop letting people walk all over you.

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16/female.

where can i buy baggy sweat pants?
there SOO comfortable + i always see people wearing them. any stores in mind?

Just go to Wal*Mart & buy men's sweatpants. That's what I do.

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i know everyone seems to love it, but i hate it and i always have. i wouldn't have even joined if my friend hadn't made an account for me. i have only been able to deactivate it, but i REALLy want to delete it. PLEASE HELP!!!

I was going to try & help you along through the process by clicking "Deactivate" on my personal FaceBook, but I decided that was probably a bad idea.

So, I used Google. This is the first thing that came up & the first thing that I clicked. Someone made a group with instructions on how to permanently delete a FaceBook account.

http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=16929680703

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So I am bi sexual and I am a girl and im in a relationship with another girl. Well we have decided to move in together and I am so ready but scared because one my mom dont know I am with a girl or moving out whats she gonna think when she finds out I am moving in with a girl im dating? what should I do?

I'm assuming that you're not out to your parents yet? If so, that's the first thing you should've done. What makes you think you can just move out & not tell them? They're going to find out or they're going to get suspicious when you're not there anymore.

You need to sit your parents down & tell them. Tell them you're in a relationship with another woman, and that you and that woman have plans to move in together. If your parents are open-minded, chances are they won't really mind the relationship too much, but you can expect them to probably blow their top about you moving out. If they're not open-minded, they'll get pissed about both of those things.

In the end, the decision to move out is always going to be yours. If you're 18, your parents cannot stop you. I moved out of my house the day after my 18th birthday, and I moved 2000 miles away. Moving out of a parents house is a very hard thing to do. I really hope that you have a job and transportation of some sort because moving out without either of those things wouldn't really be a wise idea.

Also, not to totally wipe out your whole idea of moving in with your girlfriend, but I suggest you re-think it. People are very different once you live with them. They have bad habits, behavior, manners, etc that you don't see when you're not together all the time. While moving in with someone can be a good thing, there are negative aspects so you really need to make sure that you can handle the changes within the relationship because it's a very hard thing to adjust to and if you don't like the way that person is when you're around them 24/7 then that's a big thing. So really take the time to consider that before you make a final decision to move out.

I really wish you luck. I hope your parents take the news well, and I hope that you take the time to re-consider moving in with someone. It's a really big decision that sometimes does not work out as planned.

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I want to know if Margie and Luke won the Amazing Race?
they are so cool! but i missed the final episode.
can you help?

Tammy & Victor won.

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I'm so depressed.I can't bear it anymore. I've donea lot of research but it's not helping me.

What's other ways I can treat/better my depression without anti-depressants or therapy.

There aren't many ways to treat depression without getting help from a professional from it. Not getting treatment for depression can often times be dangerous. I would suggest that you seek therapy because it's very hard to get over it without the aid of a professional.

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Does anyone know where I could get clothes like the new boyz wear? I tried Hot Topic but their skinnies aren't like the one's on the video. I also went to DrJays.com and Karmaloop.com but they didn't have much skinnies :(
Hmmmm...any help is greatly appreciated!
16/f I don't mind wearing guy skinnies I actually like 'em better than the girls, oh one more thing!
If I'm a size 10/9 in girls what would that make me in a guys? if you can answer thanks bunches!=)

Guys wear girl skinny jeans so there's really no difference.

I don't know what the transition into men sizes would be, so that's good reason to stick to skinny jeans for girls.

And no offense, but why would you wanna dress like them? That whole crunk scene when it comes to music needs to die. It's nothing but a stupid fad with people who have virtually little to no talent. They're ruining the scene, just saying.

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15 Female, He's 18. USA
We've been best friends for a few years. I've had crush on him about 2 months now and well yesterday while we were hanging out I started to get so irritable with him (dont even know why). I blurted out "I have a crush on you..." he just seemed so proud of himself then he said "I'll have to think about that for awhile." then he had to leave... What does that mean?!
-Gabriella

He's probably thinking about whether or not to follow through with you.

If he likes you back, there's really nothing he can do about it. Since he is an adult & you are a minor, doing anything other than hanging out with you can get him into trouble.

It's nice you have a crush on him, and I'm sure he's more than flattered, but you guys can't date.

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Ok I'm turnning 16 in 4 weeks and my dad agreed to let me get any piercing I want! I really want Vertical Snake Bites!

Like this dude has: http://i404.photobucket.com/albums/pp121/sarahndipity81/Piercings%20and%20Tattoos/n5vq-vertical-snakebites.jpg


But I can't find any shop that'll do it for me since I'm 16 :(
I live in Illinois, anyone know a nice CLEAN shop that'll do it for me? In Illinois, Idiana and Wisconsin at most. If not...My second choice are Spider Bites.

Like so: http://i84.photobucket.com/albums/k17/jordannrhodes/lip.jpg


I'd be getting them on both my left and right side, so it'd be four times...o-o
Know any place that'll do either or for me? WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR TELL ME!!!!>:U

One more thing I'm looking to get my septum too, but, I'd like to know. Do you think I should wait a while first before I get 'em or get everything done at the same time?

--Thank you!

I actually like the spiderbites better than the vertical snakebites. However, I don't suggest getting it on both. It's usually just a one side thing. Adding a septum to it would be even worse because it would make your face look cluttered with metal. The last thing you wanna do is look like Trace Cyrus.

Get the spiderbites & leave it at that. You need to pull out the phone book & call around. Either that, or search the internet. Do any of your friends have piercings? Ask them where they got theirs done.

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im a 16 yearold girl and i know this may sound really dumb, but can you get pregnant from masturbating? i know it sounds crazy but i just want to know if there is anyway possible. im not an idiot, im just having pregnancy like symptons, and the only thing ive done is masturbate. so im just a little confused. thanks in advance.

No, you cannot.

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Sasha Katherine-Rose & Elena Ricci-Regine.

I think they both have a special ring to it. ^_^ Both middle names for the girls are named after parents.

Opinions?

I like Elena Ricci-Regine better than Sasha Katherine-Rose. I just don't think the names Sasha and Katherine go together well.

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