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Sex at my age??
Ok so i'm 15 and i like love ........sex...........lol but only had it when i wasl ike 9...when would be a good age for me to have it?
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I think that you were taken advantage of when you were very you and your reaction was to laugh it off and convince yourself that you love sex and that you were okay with it. When in reality you are traumatized by it and for very good reason. I think it would be best if you talked to someone about it and sorted out your true feelings. Also, wiat until you are older and understand sex and what happened to you to do it again.
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There's nothing funny about loving sex at 15 years old. If I read right, you had sex when you were 9? I can bet my whole life that it wasn't consensual & was with someone way older than you.
You need therapy. Wait til you're older to have sex.
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There's never a "right" age. Its more like when you and your partner are ready
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I can't believe you actually say "lol" so casually, like it's funny. In my opinion, you don't know if you 'love' sex...because you were only 9 years old. I don't even know if I believe that! A good age for someone as misguided as you are, is----never?
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If I understand correctly, you were only nine years old when you first had sex. Nine. And knowing that nine year-old boys do not have erections, how old was the guy?? Not only is that morally wrong on so many levels- you were still a kid, it's illegal, you (and every other nine-year old) could NOT have possibly been ready for it AT ALL. I am still shocked that I read about a nine year-old having sex.
You are 15 now, and even THAT is too young for many, if not most, teenagers. Sure, teens now are having sex like it's shaking hands, but that does not mean that they're ready. Nope, not even a bit- at least not for the majority. You need to focus on growing up and experiencing life rather than dwelling on when you should be having sex. You can when you are emotionally ready for it. And sorry to break it to you, your question basically implies to me that you are not emotionally mature enough to deal with the risks and responsibilities of having sex.
Please, if you must, talk to a school counselor or trusted adult about this. Don't be pressured into doing things (including sex) that "everyone else" is doing. Just because other kids are doing it does not mean it's okay at that age. And to add, if the experience of having sex at NINE had a negative impact on you emotionally (I will assume it has), talk to a counselor about it. Be safe, and just be a 15 year-old. You are not an adult, so do not try making adult decisions just yet.
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you should wait until your married
sex can wait masturbate.
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