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am i a slut??
14-f
am i a slut??????????
1. i get wasted
2. im no where near being a virgin
3. i have let people take advantage of me
4. i am either going to be a playboy bunny or a stripper somewhere....
do these make me a slut??????????? bacause everyone thinks i amm...and i kind of dont want them to
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If you question an activity as being "slutty" or "whorish" then it is, nine times out of ten, a slutty, whorish behavior/activity. If you have to question it, then there's a reason why you feel that way. Sometimes your conscience is screaming at you even when you don't want to listen. Most people who ask questions like this to a pool of people they feel do the same thing are simply looking for psychological relief for their guilt of being perceived as a slut for the bad activities they do. (Associates degree in psychology taught me this.)
For the brief answer:
Yes.
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yes.
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well ummm. i think if ur proud of what u r then who cares what other people think just protect yourself. and be careful
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Pretty much. If you don't want people knowing you are, change your behavior.
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How do not know the anwer to your own question?
Examine the motives to your behaviour your in a self destructive cycle find the sourse address it. If you don't want the tag bad girl image simply clean up your act and act lady like or at least try to. You won't regret it. Good Luck
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ive been there honey. i was stupid and thought it was cool to lose my virginity at a young age, do drugs, and do whatever people wanted me too. all at 14. thank GOD i got out of the stage because now i have true goals in life.
if you cant handle your sexual side while gettin wasted, dont get wasted. youre gonna be the girl everyone things has a disease or most likely to prostitute if you keep goin this way. you need to take care of yourself, not what people think of you. but if you DO take care of yourself, your image will change.
please do take care of yourself... girls get raped while theyre wasted and easily willin. ive gotten fully taken advantage of while i was on drugs and drinkin, and i really regret it more than anythin. WHEN i was 14.
you can also get diseases, get violently treated, get pregnant... you have to stop this now.
good luck, talk to me for whatever hun
x sweeethoney
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you should change some of those things. dont let your self get taken advantage of. you can change that. you can try not to get wasted as much, and you can set some goals that are better for yourself then being a stripper or nude model. dream a little bit bigger then that.
you cant change what you've done but learn from it.
and as for being considered a slut, who cares what people say about you. do what makes you happy, and all those petty little voices wont matter.
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I would think that you are . Your 14 and not a virgin and no where near being one that's crazy . I think you should stop doin what your doin because people is gonna end up talkin about you . And think about your . Future . Noone may not wanna have sex with u wen u wanna settle down
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wow, you've really got some great goals in life....
yes. in conventional terms, you would classify as a slut. But if you like the idea of being used as a sex object for the rest of your life, thats your choice. change your behavior if you don't want that as your reputation.
-Gunner
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I'm sorry honey but you make yourself look like a slut.. You're doing everything you shouldn't be.. I have one solution for you & his name is JESUS! Trust me Hun, he is the only one who can help you and never let you down.. Just be smart about these decisions you're making.. because you know they are wrong! Does your mom approve of this? You should never do anything that you wouldn't do in front of your mom because that means you know it's wrong!
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I would say so.
You're 14. You shouldn't be drinking, nor should you be having sex or letting people take advantage of you. And you should want a better future for yourself. A playboy bunny, a stripper? Why not become a doctor or a teacher? Be something that's gonna benefit you.
If you don't want them to see you as a slut, then you need to change. Stop drinking, stop sleeping around, go to school & get an education, and stop letting people walk all over you.
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Well you are obviously not going to do much in your life and the things you are doing are absoulutly discusting but a slut is a horrible name and is so offencive.
Tell themhat you can't help who you are and that you shouldn't call me that. hope you change your ways soon.
abbie xxx
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