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ok im a 16 year old girl and i dont no how to have ps like i am horny a lot but i dont no what to say like he seads he wants to eat my you no wath and mi like yes i no and if he seads ok no im stiking my dick in your pussy im like i no you want to like im sorry for speling bad words but thats how i no to spel anay was i did not have sex with hem i will have sex win im marideed so i have not haved sex with no one yeat but he is the one im going too marie but i just have ps or i just cant moon for hem plees hellp me (link)
phone sex can be soo much fun. But if you are not ready it can be the most uncomfortable situation in your life. when having phone sex guys like when you finger yourself(if you dont feel like it just tell them you are) and they want you to moan for them possibly have an orgasim that drives them crazy. some people like when you moan there name or whisper it. and fequently ask them what they are doing and be like add detail. when your moaning. always say harder or deeper they love that. and try to talk low and sexy.. have fun


Im 21 and my boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months. Last night while having sex i heard him mutter "I Love you". I wasnt sure so I asked him what he said. He just ignored the question. We've never said we loved eachother before and I didnt want to say it and look stupid if that wasnt what he said. Is it possiable i heard him right and he was too embarassed to say it twice? I love him but i've been to afraid to say so. (link)
i dont think it is right to be having sex if ou guys didnt even said that i love you yet.


i was wondering if i could get pregnant,when it was my first time having sex with my boyfriend when he egaculated before he put on the condom?could there be a possability of me getting pregnant? (link)
absoloutly! take a pregnacy test! for precation


I am 17 year old female, my girlfriend just broke up with me...and now she is in the hospital because she od on pills, because she felt bad for hurting me. i haven't been able to see her because she is in PCU and only family can visit. When igot home last night from the hospital i cut myself a few times. I didit because i felt numb and empty, and because i was so freaked out about her and worried. I dont know what to do. I know that i need help. But i don't know how i can tell my mom. Can someone please help me? (link)
I think it is important to get in touch with your ex after she gets out of the hospital or even call her in the hospital so that she knows that you care and let her know you wanna make sure she never does anything like this again. As for you if you feel numb and empty frequently mabye you can go to a anomonous counseling over the phone they could help alot! If you dont feel comfortable telling yiur mom about the situation or your not close enought to tell her that sort of thing then pass on it. Just go for help


I've had fake/acrylic nails for such a long time now (done by a salon). I'm just sick of going every few weeks, so my problem is.. is there any way I can get them off at home? I don't like it when the professionals take them off because it really hurts their way. Is there any products I can use or soak them in to get them off? I've heard soaking them in soapy, warm water helps but that takes forever! Any tips or advice would be greatly appreciated. (link)
soak them in nail polish remover it dicinagrates the glue


My brother just had a heart attack and my mother was diagnosed with Parkinson's disease. It has been SO stressful. So, between flying home and sending money back to my family to help them out in this time, I was diagnosed with HIV! (And that starts fears of dying from AIDS, you know?) My car just got repossessed to top everything off. I know that I've made bad decisions with my car and, obviously, getting HIV by being careless but this feels so extreme. It's so much pressure and stress and I don't know what I should do or who I can turn to right now for help. Where do I start? What do I do? I know I have to do something...I can't just sit here and cry about how bad my life is going all of a sudden...right? (link)
Well the most important thing is to stay positive and live your life to the fullest! Spend as much time with your family as possible, you guys all need eachother right now and could all help eachother in a way that medication cant.

if you need someone to talk to i am here and would love to help- giveadvice1@aol.com


Can somebody please recommend a good scar creme? Something that will work quickly and do its job well. (link)
medermia
sold in any local cvs or drug store


Is it possible to get pregnant if your on the pill, but you have sex during the week of the inactive pills? and what if you miss a couple pills during the active weeks too? (link)
YES! They pill is never 100% preventable itself, forgeting about missing a couple than that whole month is like ruined escpessically if your active when you missed it that month. why do you think your pregnat???


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my bf's parents wanted me and my mom to come up to see them so they new i wasnt a computer perv but now my mom says no they have to call and am afraid they will say no. My mom wants to tal kto my bf first anyway and am afriad they will say no. Am afriad my mom and his parents will never agree with us dating n will get angry that we will not listen n keep dating. a, afraid my bf will not ignore them and still dump me if they dont approve n believe am a regualr 14 YEAR ODL GIRL! Q:1 what should i do to get them to agree to talk to each other over the phone then they meet each other kids?
Q:2 do you think my bf will dump me if they dont approve or believe me and/or my mom?
Q:3 Do you think am bein a crazy gf who worries to much?

Thank you so much for answerin

Jacklin (link)
i dont think your a crazy girlfriend for worrying about this, it is good to wonder! i think if he loves you and wants to go out with you as much as you want to go out with him he will ignore the parents and stay with you, if he feels like oh, i dont like her that much and will only go out with her for a little i should listen to my parents cause i will have them forever than he is gonna dump you. mabye u should talk to him and ur parents about the situation.


18/f
I actually don't know how to word this haha, so please bear with me.

I started to get a brownish discharge about 2-3 days ago. Sometimes there would be a reddish color to it, but usually it is nor. I have had regular periods and if it is on schedule, my next one should be next week.

I tried googling this, it came up with similar results but the cause was different. Most of the causes were based on birth control pills, STD/STIs, sexual activity, pregnancy, etc. I am not sexually active, nor have I ever had sex. Some answers to this question say stuff like: it's normal, it might be cervical cancer, an infection or something about dry blood and the uterine lining.

Advice on what is happening or what I should do would be really helpful.

Thanks in advance. (link)
No one knows your body better than you! If you think it is not normal than stick to yourselfs opinion. Just to be safe you should schedule an appointment with your doctor or gyno.


14-f

am i a slut??????????
1. i get wasted
2. im no where near being a virgin
3. i have let people take advantage of me
4. i am either going to be a playboy bunny or a stripper somewhere....

do these make me a slut??????????? bacause everyone thinks i amm...and i kind of dont want them to (link)
well ummm. i think if ur proud of what u r then who cares what other people think just protect yourself. and be careful


I've been having these really bad headaches that lasts a week sometimes a week and a half at a time no matter what kind of pain meds I take what should I do? (link)
i am the perfect person to answer your question! i have been suffering migranes for about well ever since i can remember me being alive since i was like 5. the last thing you want to turn to is meds. if it is really bad once in a while you can take one or two advils or tylonoles but try homeopathic remedes or spirutaly energy relief or squezzing the piece of skil betwwn your thumb and you pointer finget that is known to help or try rubing your temples

tell me how it goes


Everyone in my school doesnt like me...I'm thinking its because of the vicious rumors that have been started by an old ex boyfriend of mine who doesnt know how to mind his own business. I try to be friendly to everyone but it just doesnt help. I feel like im the only person at this school who doesnt have friends. No one cares about me, and honestly, i dont care about me anymore either. i hate this school. help me. dont tell me to go to counseling either :/ (link)
I think you should join some school clubs or sports that way you get interaction with other kids in your school go up to someone and introduce yourslef people that are beliving your ex dont waste your time judgin b4 meetin isnt nice anyway good luck

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My Friend Ricky is going through a lot in his life right now. I want to help him out...

1.) He lost his full scholarship to a college
2.) He started smoking weed a lot
3.) He broke up with his girlfriend of 3 years
4.) He lost his grandmother

I tried telling him I was here for him but he's not taking any help from anyone. He's not working and he's unhappy...he needs to be pushed...I WANT to help him I can't let him fall through the cracks he doesn't deserve that!

What should I do? Please help! (link)
i know you feel hopless because you dont want to say something to him that will make him mad at you> but the best thing you can do for him right now is focuse on being a good friend to him because it sounds like thats what he really needs right now.... and mabye when u get close enough to talk about his addiction u can tell him that its not goin to help him and that smokin weed isnt goin to get his girlfriend or grandma back and if hes grandma was here she wouldnt be very happy remember she can see him everywhere and she is probably very dissapointed.


heyyy


I've been really bored lately on the internet, does anyone know any good sites other than My space and face book? Thanks for whoever respondss♥ :) (link)
http://advice1.weebly.com
you can ask advice


I'm a 23-year old female and my 22-year old fiancee and I just had a big argument over the price of my ring. He didn't buy me an engagement ring and though he promised to "get me what I wanted" he's basically saying now that expecting him to spend more than a couple of hundred dollars is outrageous.
I know he's not trying very hard to save, which is also pretty upsetting. What I'm asking for isn't a 5ct rock...just something I can be proud to wear.
I mean, we aren't rich, but I can't shake the feeling of wanting something I'll be happy with for a long time. I don't think spending $500 is exorbitant considering how much it will mean to me.

Did anyone go through something similar and if so, how did you and your significant other compromise? (link)
i have witnessed simialr situations and you are completley right! if you guys are excpecting to spend you whole life together he should definaltly spend more than a couple hundred dollors on your engagment ring even though you guys arent rich.......

good luck! hope everything goes well


I visited my dermatologist today and I have a mole that is physically fine but I want to have it removed for cosmetic reasons. She discourages it because it may or may not heal well and it's in a well seen spot but I hide the mole anyway, so I really just want to be free of it. Can anyone tell me from their own experiences of mole removal if it hurts, how long it takes to heal, and what the scarring is like? Has anyone tried creams to remove their moles? I've read about stuff online that makes it fall off but I don't know if I can trust it.

Thanks so much (link)
It is important to have self confidance and if that mole is bringing down your slef confidence then you can consider having it removed? but i think before you get it removed you should definatly ask your dermatoligst questions you have and do some reasearch. obviously it is going to be a little painful, there taking something off your face that you were born with!
i am sure if you decide to get it removed everything will be fine
but if you decide not to get it removed and u dont like it try some cosmetics such as cover up makeup
GOOD Luck


So, i'm 15 and female. My boyfriend for two months who I'm really starting to develop strong feelings for asked me to give him oral the other night. See, now I'm not prude okay? It's true I've never done that before, but I think it's normal to be nervous about EVERYTHING the first time. Hell, I was nervous the first time i got fingered! I just really don't like the idea of putting a guys penis into my mouth. Like common, thats kind of gross...for all you girls out there thats done it, is it that bad? Also, I don't want to be used by this guy! Like, if I'm open to exploring new things because he wants to, I don't want it to be a situation where we do this stuff and hes bored & leaves, you know? Anyways, do you think I should give in and just try giving him a blow job? There's a first for everything...or shoould i like stand my ground bc its kinda disqusting? hahaha let me know, kthanks, much love (link)
umm>> i think that it all depends on you there is a high risk and things but if ur really serious with the guy then go for it




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