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I think he said 'I Love you'


Question Posted Thursday April 8 2010, 11:27 am

Im 21 and my boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months. Last night while having sex i heard him mutter "I Love you". I wasnt sure so I asked him what he said. He just ignored the question. We've never said we loved eachother before and I didnt want to say it and look stupid if that wasnt what he said. Is it possiable i heard him right and he was too embarassed to say it twice? I love him but i've been to afraid to say so.

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Additional info, added Thursday April 8 2010, 5:01 pm:
I meant to also say that this has happened twice. The first time was a week ago. .

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SincerelyLyzzie answered Friday April 9 2010, 2:10 pm:
your 21 im 19 so i know you know like i know that boys/man will say anything while having sex expecially if its good... however if you felt like it was love maken n your all was into it maybe he's was too remember no one knows your man like you do so just follow your heart do and say what it tells you...




SincerelyLyzzie

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advicegiver1 answered Thursday April 8 2010, 6:07 pm:
i dont think it is right to be having sex if ou guys didnt even said that i love you yet.

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dearcandore answered Thursday April 8 2010, 1:35 pm:
A lot of things come out of a guy's mouth during sex. He may or may have not meant it. I make it a rule not to take seriously anything said during sex. Hormones are raging, emotions are high, things get said in the heat of passion. You asked him. He ignored you. I think you got your answer. He either didn't say it or didn't mean it (yet). Back off this one for a few days. Observe how he is acting. If he seems uncomfortable lately, ask him about that, why does he seem so uncomfortable. Maybe that will spark a deeper conversation. If after some time he still hasn't said anything, maybe you just need to come clean and confess your feelings. But be prepared. Think ahead. Picture the conversation. If he says he doesn't feel the same, what will you say or do, if he says he's not ready to go to that level, what will you do? Just prepare yourself, but after 6 months I'd say you have a right to know where things are going and how he really feels for you. Sometimes guys need a little push to reveal those things. Just be careful not to push too hard. Don't be angry about it, be curious. Good luck!

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