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Hey Im Lyzzzie & I've been through so much in my young life. I've learned 4rm mastakes growed 4rm my past & If I could help one person NOT make the mastakes I've made by giving advice than i will. Its up to you to except my advice & read my opinion... "Opinions are like a** wholes everyone has one". Said bysome one wiser than I..


SincerelyLyzzie
Location: Miami
Occupation: cosmotologist
Age: 19
Yahoo: eliz3312@yahoo.com
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My boyfriend and i broke up just about 2 weeks ago (he broke up with me ). He told me I was the best girlfriend he's ever had(and his first REAL relationship) .He told me im the most amazing girl he's ever met but he needs space and i guess he got sick of hanging around me so much.I did everything for this kid,all the time.even his friends would tell him how great i am and how pretty i am and how they wish their girlfriends were like me.We are on good terms and have hungout a few times since the break up,but while we were dating..he used to smoke weed and it bothered me so sometimes he'd lie to me about doing it.then i told him to be honest about it,so he told me the truth,and we'd fight over it often and he'd tell me im a "buzz kill" which obviously made me feel like crap.Recently since we've been broken up,he smokes more than ever.for the first time ,today he came to school high and told several of my friends he was getting high after school too.He skipped a few hours yesterday to do it.and it's just horrible.He hasn't done his work ,nothing! he has such a great family,he's so so smart,he has honors and AP classes,he is so good at soccer,he goes to church and he had me and this weed thing is throwing him down the drain and i feel like weed has been picked over me.Everyones telling me that he;s gonna miss having me around because i was so good to him and i was the first girl he ever really liked,...but how can he miss me if he's spending all his time getting high and not in the right state of mind?! HAs anyone else had this problem? He's such an amazing guy when he's not high .I just miss him and i wish he'd miss me too. (link)
You cant change someone who doesnt want to change. If him smoken such a big problem for you then you shouldnt talk to him. Im not asking you to turn off your feeling no one can just think about it. How can he miss you if you still hang with him. Dont be depressed over some guy. Dont give your all to someone who dosent give it back if he cares about you he'll straighten up if not soon then dont wait for ever... Im guessing your still young being that your in school. worrie about you listen to your heart move on when your ready do whats best FOR you



SincerelyLyzzie


I have an audition on Monday, and I have no idea what to sing. I know you're supposed to pick a song that's good for your voice, but how does one know that? Feel free to give tips and maybe suggest songs. I really wanna do well.:)


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J (link)
Choose a song that you know fully inside and out that touches you... that isn't hard to sing but shows your talent. try listening to the radio and you may here something you like... a song that touches me is even angles by fantasis... hope i'ved helped


SincerelyLyzzie


15/f

It's kind of a long story. I started dating this guy. Still had a crush on another guy. This other guy is my friend. Still talk to him..and I still like him. He just turned 18. My boyfriend is 16. Just extra info.

So I'm kinda confused what to do because I love my boyfriend. But you know how it is, you're attracted to other people. I found out my boyfriend liked another girl too. We ended up talking about it. Fixed it. And its fine. But it still kills me.

This other guy, we've been friends for about 2 years. Friends with his sister, so I mean, we're pretty close. I know he's into me and all that. We wouldn't really do anything about it anyway though. So I'm not planning on leaving my boyfriend for him. Cause I'm not planning to get with this guy. He's 18 and I'm 15, almost 16. The thing that gets to me though is that he compliments me alot and flirts and is a pretty good friend. My boyfriend is better though. I don't want to leave him at all..I just don't know what to do.

I don't know what is the best to do in this situation. I mean, I know alot of people have dealt with this before. Just when it happens to you, you get really confused. Maybe you can see it from a different view and give me some advice here.
If you don't mind me inboxing anyone let me know. Cause I think I'm gonna need someone to help me with this. Thanks so much! (link)
Have you ever heard the saying never leave the one you love for the one you like because the one you like a leave you for the one they love. however your oly 15 you have plenty of time to love so dont rush things you dont have to have one boyfirend test the waters. just live your life... hope i'ved helped.



SincerelyLyzzie





I like this guy who I go to school with, and I've known him for a while, but never really noticed how cute and nice he is until a few weeks ago. The thing is, we barely ever talk. At all. I talked to him more today than I have for 8 years (Ha) and it wasn't even that much. I look at him quite a bit, and notice him looking at me sometimes, too. But that might be nothing more than just glancing. Maybe I'm just hyper-sensitive to it now. He's in my phys/ed, biology, and pre-calculus classes (Just as some extra info...). I want to start talking to him more, but don't really know too much about him. How can I get him to really notice me and possibly get interested in me? Thanks so much to anyone who can help :)

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Maybe you should talk to him more, joke with him, get to know him, and be friends firts. If he's looking at you the way your looking at him you'll know it. Maybe feel it.Then make your move but always listen to your heart. Theres someone for everyone so dont put so much of yous self into it untill you know for sure that way no one gets hurt or shamed....


SincerelyLyzzie


Im 21 and my boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months. Last night while having sex i heard him mutter "I Love you". I wasnt sure so I asked him what he said. He just ignored the question. We've never said we loved eachother before and I didnt want to say it and look stupid if that wasnt what he said. Is it possiable i heard him right and he was too embarassed to say it twice? I love him but i've been to afraid to say so. (link)
your 21 im 19 so i know you know like i know that boys/man will say anything while having sex expecially if its good... however if you felt like it was love maken n your all was into it maybe he's was too remember no one knows your man like you do so just follow your heart do and say what it tells you...




SincerelyLyzzie


I'm too embarrassed to ask this in any other way but anonymously. I'm 19 and female.

Basically, I've never had an orgasm. I've tried to masturbate and nothing. I have a boyfriend who's gone down on me, nothing. I researched and I know the key to it is stimulating the clitoris, and I know where it should be, but I can't seem to make things work. I'm comfortable with my body, and I am so distraught and confused and upset with the fact that I can't experience what's supposed to be amazing. This isn't to say I don't experience pleasure, I just can't seem to get a big finish.

I'd heard about women who can't have orgasms in the past, and I wondered, solemnly, if I am one of the unfortunate few. Is that really possible?

I just need some solid advice. Thanks (link)
It's possible to have an orgasm as soon as you r sexually mature however some girls don't have their first orgasms for years. There's nothing wrong with you if you've never had an orgasm Having an orgasm depends on stimulation of your genitals (most girls and women find that the clitoris is more sensitive than thier vagina).... Your partner may not know what he is doing when going down on you. try relaxing, imagening, and stimulating your clit..
hope i'ved helped.


SincerelyLyzzie




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