17/f
Okay so I kinda like a guy at my school, he's a freshman and i'm a senior but I don't see age as an issue. We've been texting back and forth but ever since I got on my vaca he jus randomly stops answering. Last night he told me the guy that walked up to me thought I was hot and said he had good taste. So basically he told me I was good looking. I said aww thanks :) ur sweet...and I didn't get an answer...so wtf is he not interested?! In tired of the mixed signals like that!! Also I wanna ask him to my prom but now I'm afraid he will just say no. What do I do to make this better? I need to know if he's interested bc sometimes he makes comments like he is and other times he either doesn't answer or outta nowhere says um I'll let you go. Ahhhhh help! Thanks.
Additional info, added Thursday April 8 2010, 8:18 pm: Also should I text him first after a day or so or just wait on him even tho I think I'm the more forward one???. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Alicee95 answered Friday April 9 2010, 3:28 pm: Im not to sure about ages since im not from america
(freshman...senior..?!)
but maybe since your abit older than him he feels intimidated ? maybe he thinks if he gets to close that he will have competition with older boys? or he might feel abit inexperienced compared to you ?
he just needs to get to know you and open up i think :) [ Alicee95's advice column | Ask Alicee95 A Question ]
Trauma answered Thursday April 8 2010, 4:30 pm: He may be afraid of the same thing you are, that you don't really like him or that you'll think he's coming on too strong. Part of the reason he didn't answer your text could have been that you didn't really give him much to say (no offense). Try texting him and asking questions so that he'll have an opportunity to say something back. As for the prom thing, I would go for it. Sure, he may so no, but you never know until you ask. Life is about taking risks, and being rejected may suck, but it's not the end of the world. [ Trauma's advice column | Ask Trauma A Question ]
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