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does anyone know of any place to get a good strapless bra for bigger chested women. im skinnier and athletic, but i have big boobs. i like to wear strapless shirts, but its hard to find a good strapless bra for big boobs. thanks in advance! (link)
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Victoria Secret has wonderful bras. Yes they are pricey but they last a life time.
They have wonderful bras with full support and they even messier you for size...
good luck
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I know it isn't really sex but I didn't know what else to put it under.
OKay this is mad embarrasing but i figured I'd ask here. I'm 17 years old and I still can't get a friggen tampon to "work". I try to use em but they hurt so friggen bad. I tried the little OB mini ones which kinda work but I'm always afraid i'll bleed through them. It's really embarrassing ... any advice anyone? (link)
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This is such a wonderful question...I am 38 and cant wear a tampon.
I asked my doctor why and he stated that I have endometreosis and the lining of my vagina is thick so I cant fit a tampon inside me.
It is too painful and I cant even sit when I put it in. Not even the small ones are comfortable. All woman are built differently and at the same time there may be a reason that you are having so much discomfort.
You should possibly see a doctor to find out if youre okay and if you are its just that you cant use tampons.
I never bleed enough to use them either. If you are too dry that may be another reason that they hurt too much. I use panty liners because I only come down when I use the tinkle.
Good luck and I wouldnt worry so much about it. Use the small OB mini ones and just make sure you change them frequently if you are heavy.
Good luck
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my family has never really had problems, but lately, it's just been like one thing after the other. at the beginning of last year, my cousin and grandmother had cancer. i was so stressed with everything happening in my life that i was doing horrible in school and i became anorexic, because it was just the only thing that was resulting from all the stress. Thank God that my cousin and grandmother were cured by a miracle and are both doing perfectly fine. I recovered from my eating disorder. I ended school well, graduated, and started college this year. I still live at home, but I go to a state school, I was working, but I stopped because right now, my schedule was a little too hectic and hopefully when it changes, it will be easier to earn a little extra cash on the side.
I feel terrible about this, but the day of graduation I had a huge fight with my mom. We woke up the next morning and were still fighting. Those who know my mom understand that she doesn't let go of things. She'll say something is okay, and make up with you, and the next day, she'll give you dirty looks and won't talk to you. So, that's exactly what happened the day after. I remember I woke up at like 1 in the afternoon because i had a long night. She kept on with her looks, but i ignored her because I knew better. Until she started screaming and throwing her tantrum where she throws herself to the floor and screams. I was so angry that I just cried and told her I hated her and that she wasn't my mother and that i wanted my mother. I know it sounds mean and all, but you weren't there and everyone says things they dont mean every once in a while.
well anyway, by that i meant that she wasn't acting like herself. that she was being impossible, and that wasn't the same person I knew. Then she told me "you're right, i'm not you're mother." and that's how she decided to tell me that i was adopted. Ever since that day, I get these sparatic bursts of anger. It's like I get really mad and if anyone comes near me, i scream. I burst into tears, throw myself on the floor,cry like a madwoman. Then, when it's all over, I don't remember what happened. My mom asked me why it is that I get so angry. I told her I think it's because I felt lied to. Everyone in my life knew about it: aside from my parents/grandparents and other obvious family members, my best friend knew, her parents knew, my boyfriend knew, his parents knew, my cousins, who have been like brothers/sisters to me knew. They all knew! So it's just that I feel like everyone kept all these secrets from me... i think it's normal to feel angry.. not necessarily that they didn't tell me I was adopted, just the fact that everyone in my life has been keeping secrets from me. I understand and am grateful and everything like that. But imagine, that for 18 years, all those people knew, and NO ONE said ANYTHING! It was so well kept, i didn't even SUSPECT! i even look just like my mom. And I'm angry that she didn't tell me in a loving way. She told me in a fight.
Needless to say, she got mad, hasn't spoken to me all day. She doesn't deal with things or feelings of others,s he just gets mad and doesn't speak to anyone. So, I don't know what to do. My family has never had so many problems, and I don't know why it's starting now. i don't know why I get those sudden bursts of anger, but I don't like it. It scares me and I can't control it, it's like I just can't stop crying.... and loud cries. And when anyone tries to console me, I push everyone away. I'm about to lose my whole family to a mental issue I can't control..... what can i do? i've never been this type of person. This isn't me and I"m scared. I'm a nice girl: honor roll, cheerleader, dean's list, go to college, same friends since i was 6. Same boyfriend since i was 16. I'm not a trouble-maker. I just don't know what's wrong!
Any comforting words are appreciated.
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Wow...thats a lot to absorb in such a short period of time.
BUT I would like to say that everything you mentioned are life experiences. Not one thing in your story is of the abnormal.
Everyday people go through what you have and more. Illnesses, death, adoption, anxiety, fear, anger and so much more. So just take a deep breath and understand that this will blow over.
I was told at the age of 36 that my father wasnt my real father and that my mom cant exactly tell me where my biological father is but she has told me some things about him. It was hard but I faced it and moved forward.
I wouldnt take it out on your mother. So many people adopt children to protect them and give them a better life. Much better than a foster or childrens home. Trust me I have been a sponsor and mentor and you wouldnt complain if you knew the way the children were moved from one place to another. Several even abused at the hands of their foster parents.
So just allow it a little time to absorb. Try to calm down. Take some time to yourself and possibly write all the things you feel down. Even some questions and give it to your mom. Its much easier to write things than to say them sometimes...
God bless and things arent so bad
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I love watching the Olympics but I know they don't have it every year. I'm not sure how often they have the Olympics so I can't figure out when I can watch it again. I don't want to ask my friends because they'll think I'm stupid for not knowing probably. When is the next Olympics? How often do we have the Olympics? And where will the Olympics be this coming time? THANKS!!!!!! (link)
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The Olymics are every four years and the next Olympics are in 2012. Hope this information helped you
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My brother just had a heart attack and my mother was diagnosed with Parkinson's disease. It has been SO stressful. So, between flying home and sending money back to my family to help them out in this time, I was diagnosed with HIV! (And that starts fears of dying from AIDS, you know?) My car just got repossessed to top everything off. I know that I've made bad decisions with my car and, obviously, getting HIV by being careless but this feels so extreme. It's so much pressure and stress and I don't know what I should do or who I can turn to right now for help. Where do I start? What do I do? I know I have to do something...I can't just sit here and cry about how bad my life is going all of a sudden...right? (link)
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A very personal friend of mine was diagnosed with HIV as well. He went to a counselor because of the illness received medication as well as a stiffen for monthly rent since he was unable to work.
If you are taking medication and there are counselors at the clinic you are attending they have so many programs to help you.
Having a heart attack is serious but your brother has support back home where he is located and your mother having Parkinson's disease is a disease that causes tremors and shaking but it can be controlled if medication is properly taken.
PLEASE take care of you first. If you become distressed you know that you immune system will be affected and you cant have that at this time.
Take a deep breath and start by taking care of you right now and find some resources for your place of residence and bills first. Im sure that they also have someone to pick you up for your doctor visits as well. Think positive
Good luck
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I am looking for a dating site for adults over 21 to about 35 or so that is reliable and not riddled with sex addicts. I'm so sick of signing up for online dating sites and getting messages about sex over and over. When did dating become soley about sex anyway? I do not give out personal information but wouldn't mind having to pay if the site was decent. Does anyone have some decent suggestions? (link)
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Ive been told that eharmony is one of the most reliable sites. Yes you do have to pay for the site but it is safe and not a sex site.
Good luck
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I actually don't know how to word this haha, so please bear with me.
I started to get a brownish discharge about 2-3 days ago. Sometimes there would be a reddish color to it, but usually it is nor. I have had regular periods and if it is on schedule, my next one should be next week.
I tried googling this, it came up with similar results but the cause was different. Most of the causes were based on birth control pills, STD/STIs, sexual activity, pregnancy, etc. I am not sexually active, nor have I ever had sex. Some answers to this question say stuff like: it's normal, it might be cervical cancer, an infection or something about dry blood and the uterine lining.
Advice on what is happening or what I should do would be really helpful.
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Anytime your body is a brownish discharge it is a concern.
What are your symptoms if any attached to the discharge? Do you have any discomfort, any abdominal pain?
Usually the brownish discharge isnt until after your almost finished with your period from dry blood that has sat inside you.
I would be more concerned that possibly you have a cyst that has ruptured and is releasing from your abdomen. My suggestion to you is to see your gyno and get checked.
Most of the time if you have a ruptured cyst you may need an antibiotic or it can cause infection. If you are in any sports or work out as well this can cause infection. So the best thing to do is to get checked.
Good luck
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For weeks I have been iffy about even writing this.
I am young 18 and just got married in August. I am pregnant that is not why we got married but I think we rushed into it. We were planning the wedding already had my wedding dress before i found out I was Pregnant.
Sometimes I find myself regretting getting marred My reasons. I wanted to work days and go to school nights. It would be tough but id be able to better myself for me and my family he through a fit and didnt support me at all. told me either work or go to school but advises me to work because we need the money. Being pregnant I have my mood swings like most if we have an argument its all my fault he will yell at me and blame me then make me feel guilty by saying oh its always all my fault i forgot your so perfect. sometimes he makes im crap. If i feel nauses or sick at night or anything and he wants sex he pouts and acts like he is mad by not saying a workd until he gets it then goes to sleep. he goes hunting, fishing, baseball teams and tournaments etc. anything he wants and i dont argue about it i just let him.
I have asked a million times to look harder for a job. he works 2 days aweek at a sale barn doing something he likes i work full time on my swallon feet 40+ hours a week and come home exhausted and tired. its like he dont care he doesnt want to even try to look he put an app. in at burgerking one app.. in 5 weeks? we live at my dads. which i dont feel is save but dont have a choice. hes lazy
and to top it off he always wants to spend money. i used to get food stamps which just stopped but hed want a gallon of tea every 2 days. go out and buy food he wants all the time because hes to lazy to cook one thing or wait for it to get done. as soon as he gets paid he goes and spends most of the money on garbage food and gets mad when i tell him i dont want it id rather eat food i cook at home.
I love my husband to death trust me and want to work things out but i dont know what to do i talk to him about it and itslike it is in one ear and out the other. (link)
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I clearly hear what you are saying when you state that you want him to spend time with you or to possibly invite you to any events or gatherings he is attending.
This is what I tell my friends...Think about the way your relationship was when you first met the man you are with.
Were you together all the time? Did you always invite you to all gatherings and events that he attended? Did you spend more time with your friends as well? What interactions did you actually have? Was your relationship based on sexual intimacy and time alone then he would run off to see the guys? Think long and hard about all those questions...Please think about the way it was before you conceived your child and that will answer why he is the way he is today.
He probably hasnt changed very much and you have. You had to change because you are now pregnant. Unfortunately we dont always grow up because we are having a child. If you just happened to get pregnant then you have to realize this wasnt planned and nothing about this man has changed.
How many times do you actually converse and not bicker? Its hard because the pressure of having a baby is extreme and when someone that cannot provide has to have someone always being critical of them is hard.
Trust me Im not trying to bash you. I think your great just very young and possibly demanding something you didnt have before. People dont change just because they are having a baby. Men dont fall in love with you because of all the wrong reasons.
So please take some time and write all your feelings down. Write what really bothers you down and read it over and over. Then after you read it to yourself start to think if all those things really matter right now.
Write down things you want in your life and see that whether you have a man in your life or not if it makes a difference. You can be successful all on your own. Does it help if the father is in this childs life, yes but you cant force someone to do something they arent ready for.
Sit down and have some fun with your partner and dont fight. Talk and enjoy eachother. Be positive and remind eachother of all the wonderful reasons you are together. Remember and remind eachother of fun times. But try your best to communicate in a manner that he can handle.
Lots of luck to you...
I had my daughter when I was 15 and I clearly understand the stress of being alone. But I chose to and I was ok...I am almost 40 now and I can tell you that sometimes we may think we are doing everything right at that age and we arent...Not only is your boyfriend doing things wrong but you as well. Instead of handling it negatively and making him your enemy try to be on the same page with him.
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I can't find what a First or Second Generation star is. Does anyone know?
thanks.
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I found a web site that may help you. Sounds like its the delay in the formation of stars for millions of years.
http://online.itp.ucsb.edu/online/stars_c07/yoshida/
Good luck
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i was wondering if i could get pregnant,when it was my first time having sex with my boyfriend when he egaculated before he put on the condom?could there be a possability of me getting pregnant? (link)
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Yes you can get pregnant. I had intercourse for the first time and there was some premature ejaculation involved and I became pregnant.
My partner never fully came. I didnt realize I was pregnant for six months because I had periods off and on and small pink discharge.
Hopefully you can get checked right away and start taking the proper nutrients for your child if you are.
Good luck
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missing my sister like crazy idk what going out she is in a group home now and i hope they are treating her right (link)
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Im sure she is being well cared for and they are helping her with any concerns or issues she may be dealing with.
Usually a child is put in a group home for serious reasons. Its usually cause the parent cant care for the conditions that the child has.
If your sister is handicap or mentally handicapped and your parents cant care for her because of work or the handicap has become to difficult or out of their knowledge or awareness to care for her they can place her in a group home or sometimes if the child is going to school and the school see's that the health or welfare of the child is at risk they will place the handicap child in a group home.
If you have any other questions please feel free to ask.
Maybe you can give me more information on your sisters condition.
Good luck
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I'm having sex for the first time, ever. All my friends have and they say it hurts A LOT, and sometimes you bleed. ( depending on who you are ) Well, usually do guys just stop once they notice the blood? Or keep going or what? ALSO, what position would be best for me for the first time. I want as less pain as possible! Help?! Thanks!! (link)
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Honestly there are no positions that would make it less painful. Why would you even want to chance having sex. It sounds like you aren't mature enough to be having intercourse.
A person that is ready, willing and able would go to her doctor and ask all the proper questions. Get protection such as birth control and then make a sound mind decision and not just do it because its the lastest thing to do.
Yes "First time" its painful, yes you bleed and no it doesnt depend on who you are, you are tearing tissue so it will bleed. No, guys do not stop when you bleed. They wont even be worried about all that at all.
Please reconsider this choice until possibly you are more mature. I can tell just by the questions you have asked that you are not ready for this or for any thing that comes along with the emotions or consequences of this decision. Especially your reputation
Good luck
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Well I'm 16 and a female, for my 7th, 8th and half of 9th grade I had a bestfriend...lets call her Max, well Max and I became friends in 7th we had one class togther and lunch, in class we never really spoke but then slowly around October she started speaking to me, then we later found out my friend June was her bestfriend. So the three of us hung out, Max and I got to know each other and what not. But then June moved away ad Max was horribly depressed. :/ Her grades even began to drop. Well her and I continued to hang until we eventually became bestfriends. I'd always go to her house, she'd go to mine, we were unseperable. Then 8th grade came we were just closer we'd tell each other everything there were no secrets. I'd never met someone like her she was funny and fun, and ugh I ended up crushing on her, but what ever. I never made my feelings known since moraly I was told it was wrong plus, I was scared that'd push her away. Our friendship wasn't worth it. But anyways once came freshman year, I got sick really bad and barely attended school. So we'd still talk on the phone online, she'd visit me and everything. But she began to change and distant herself. :[
When I returned to school I was very happy to see her and she acted like she was very happy to see me too, although she was cold toward me at times and I didn't know why. Then I found out she became friends with these two other girls, lets call them Terry and Petter. (._.)
Well I was friends with Terry since I knew her from one of my classes but Petter didn't like me she actually hated me, not sure why. I think cause my friend ummm...Lauren hated her and ugh so much drama. Well anyways, as the year went on I continued to be ill and switched into night school. Halloween came around and we still went trick-or-treating together with Lauren and Max and I. But I saw she was changing, she then gained a bf and I knew him too from another class, we'd talk she found it odd I think but never told me much. Well then summer came me and her stopped talking all together, I went to summer school and ran into Terry and Petter somehow Petter tried talking to me and well we became "friends" I guess. I don't know...well I'd hang with Terry and Petter alot, so then Lauren didn't like it since she was now my bestfriend basically, and well somehow I got them to speak to each other. Now Terry and Petter weren't friends with Max anymore, Petter hated Max actually now, they both told me and Lauren that Max would speak shit about us behind our backs.
I acted as if it didn't bother me, but infact it really did, like alot...I don't know why. :(
I just couldn't believe the horrible things she'd say about me, I was pissed off and very upset. Those 2 years when we were so close, what had happened?! I didn't get it, but what ever I justed tried to forget her. Then there was some drama when she came back this summer from Mexico, she found out Terry and Petter and Lauren and I were very close friends now. I don't think she liked it. >.>
So Terry stoped talking to Max and so did Petter, Idunno...I had deleted Max along time ago from my friends list and well, a month or so back she sent me request so I accepted we only spoke once, very briefly. So my question is, will I ever get over her? I miss her as my friend and nothing else, I know she's not into girls and I have a boyfriend so that's not an issue. But why can't I seem to forget her. I miss her very much, what should I do. I'm affraid to talk to her since she said she disliked me so much, basically...I'm lost.
She had changed alot when she began to hang with Terry and Petter, they got her to smoke weed and she just doesn't seem to be the same person.
Usually if someone changes and or distance themselves from me well I'm like what ever, their lost. But with her...I miss her, I feel like I lost something...Well there yah have it.
Sorry it's so long, and sorry for any typeos but I'm to lazy to check them :T (link)
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This is what you need to understand. Max was very close to June and allowed you to comfort her and you became her nurturer and companion and it started to feel almost like a relationship for you, a job. You were doing all the things for Max that a boyfriend would do for his girlfriend.
Then you distanced yourself from Max to keep from allowing her to know your true feelings and that led you to stay home and only communicate through internet and phone.
What happened after that is that Max healed from the loss of June and started interacting with people she considered friends. You weren't needed anymore and her true feelings towards you came out.
Terry already knew you and liked you thats why she excepted you but Petter didnt and took Max words to be the true person you were without knowing you. So even though you werent all those things Max said you were Petter only knew you as the horrible things Max said.
So now that you, Terry, Petter and Lauren are truly friends and Max is back she wants to pick up where she left off and its not going to work. Her deceit has left her in a position where everyone has now seen her true colors and she is where she needs to be and thats out of the picture.
You need to stay with your boyfriend, your wonderful, genuine friends and let Max move on.She no longer fits in your life.
Also no one can make Max smoke weed. Its a choice, she chose to do it. She chose to use you for comfort to get over losing Junes friendship and she chose to talk about you and say horrible things behind your back to ensure that people wouldnt like you.
Honestly you have a difficult time letting go because of the nurturing you shared with this friend. You took care of her and bonded with her thinking that she was your friend. But its time to let go and move on. We dont always win in all situations. Atleast you can say you were a wonderful friend that did a good dead and God will repay you.
Good luck and dont feel sorry for someone that has self induced misery...Max is not a friend
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Haha, sorry about the Topic name, anyways this is what's up.
My boobs are fine when they're in a bra, but as soon as I take it off they just are saggyish, and in my opoinion I think it's absolutely gross. I heard push-ups help rais them back up, and so does losing a little weight? But I don'tknow where to turn. So does push ups really work? Or what will? Because this is killing me! Haa. Thanks!
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If you are heavy your breast will be fuller if you lose weight they sag. The breast are made up of fatty tissue and muscle. Possibly you can work out on your upper part of your body to build muscle and they wont sag as much. No push up bras do nothing for your breast but hold them up. It looks great under clothes but once you take the bra off you will have the same results.
Here is a link to show you some exercises
http://health.msn.com/fitness/fit-zone/articlepage.aspx?cp-documentid=100187698
Good luck
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My son just turned 12 months and is still not walking. I was hoping he would be for his party, but that has come and gone now. His doctor says this can be normal, but if he isn't walking by 15 months then it is time to worry. He cruises (not a pro at it, but still manages to get around.) and can stand holding on to someone or something, but he just doesn't want to take any steps and absolutely cannot stand alone without holding on. Any ideas on how to get him walking? I'm very concerened, anyone with any advice would be a great help! (link)
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I would get a second opinion. I have seen that some children are late bloomers but if he cant stand alone and hasn't attempted to take any steps it may be a concern.
Yes some children are very lazy but he should at least be able to stand alone. His legs are at the age where he should be strong enough. Why wait two more months to see if he has an medical issue? I would go for a second opinion immediately. As parents we instinctively know when there is an issue.
So if it is really bothering you I would take your child to see another pediatrician.
I have a question for you. Does he use a walker? And if so can he stand straight up and walk without sitting? Does he use the strength in his legs to walk in the walker? If you see that he is using his legs then possibly it isnt a concern but if he is not able to do that yes take him right away to get another opinion.
Good luck!!!
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I visited my dermatologist today and I have a mole that is physically fine but I want to have it removed for cosmetic reasons. She discourages it because it may or may not heal well and it's in a well seen spot but I hide the mole anyway, so I really just want to be free of it. Can anyone tell me from their own experiences of mole removal if it hurts, how long it takes to heal, and what the scarring is like? Has anyone tried creams to remove their moles? I've read about stuff online that makes it fall off but I don't know if I can trust it.
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A personal friend of mine was advised to have a mole on his back removed because of the size. It didnt seem big to me but I think it was more the depth of the mole that was a concern. He had it removed and he said it was severely painful. It took some time to heal and it is very visible on his back with scarring from burning it off. It stayed very pink in color.
I would not burn it off if you hide it already. It sounds like its more of a personal insecurity rather than a medical condition that needs to be fixed.
Could cause more damage than anything. I feel you should think twice about it.
Good luck
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My Friend Ricky is going through a lot in his life right now. I want to help him out...
1.) He lost his full scholarship to a college
2.) He started smoking weed a lot
3.) He broke up with his girlfriend of 3 years
4.) He lost his grandmother
I tried telling him I was here for him but he's not taking any help from anyone. He's not working and he's unhappy...he needs to be pushed...I WANT to help him I can't let him fall through the cracks he doesn't deserve that!
What should I do? Please help! (link)
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It sounds like the first thing Ricky needs to do is stop smoking weed. Weed is downer. It causes you to go into a state of depression. If he continues to smoke he will stay in that position. The girlfriend issue takes time and healing. He can get over that as well as the death in the family. Death is a part of life. As for the scholarship he can get grants that will pay for most of his education. The first step is to come clean and get off that weed. Go to several colleges such as secondary schools and not universities and just apply for grants or student loans. He can get help if its what he wants.
Live and learn, always remember this we live in our own misery. If you think about every time something happened to you that was bad it had to do with your own doing.
Things like death are a part of life, losing a girlfriend could be the best thing that happened to him. Why see it as a loss but rather a new beginning. College has so many wonderful groups and people that he can quickly heal and possibly find someone much more compatible.
You have to remember that some people live in self pity but you dont have to. Give him advice and walk away. You dont want to start absorbing his negativity.You are already a wonderful person for just caring.
Good luck
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Hey! What are some ways that i can extend my boyfriends time in bed?
I don't want to tell him to take a pill or anything, thats kinda rude haha.
I know there is a climax control condom by trojan, but it only worked like once or twice for him and he didnt like it because he was "numbed".
Any ideas?
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Actually he doesnt have to take a pill or use a condom to control his ejaculation. Its a matter of mind control. He has to stop himself when he feels the sensation. Have him slow down, possibly kiss you then pull out and change position so the sensation will go away. Once he learns how to stop from ejaculating so quickly he will be a master at prolonging it. Again he has to pull out and change position or stop movement and kiss you or something to pass that sensation up...
good luck
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I am a female minor of 16 who had an online relationship with a man 8 years my senior behind my family's back. I had done this once before but with a different individual and i no longer have contact with the first person. I met him at a hotel room 3 times and although we didn't have sexual intercourse i thought i was pregnant somehow and my period was late with strong feelings of nausea. I told my mom all of this and although she was terribly devastated she proceeded to take me to the doctor and tests were done. I am not pregnant and have no STI's, and now my mother and father and i don't know what to do. Only they and the man i was involved with know. I want things to go back to how they were before they knew, but i understand that it isn't that simple. I would very much appreciate if someone could offer me solid advice on what I should do now. I want to earn back their trust if i can and help them feel better and more relaxed. I am ashamed of my action but i want to do something, anything to help them feel better. I have not contacted the man since telling my father, whom i told a week after my mother. I believe that the man was a good man but I don't want to contact him any time soon, at the very least until i am out of college, so like 6 to 10 years from now. I believe my parents will press charges against him. please and thank you so much. (link)
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First and foremost this man was not a good man at all. If he was a good man he would not have first taken you to a hotel three times, he would not have had you mislead your parents and he would have not taken advantage of you. It sounds like you did a lot more than meet him at the hotel. The first step 17/f is to start by telling the truth and that is to yourself. Come to terms with your mistake as we all make them and you will continue to make them through out your life at any age. Once you come to terms with the truth and the deception of this man then forgive yourself because you are young, you are a minor and your parents have every right to be angry. Keep in mind anger stems from fear. As a parent I would be very angry at this "man" as well. Its the grizzly bear affect of being a parent. Once you realize it was wrong of this adult to lure you into the unsafe position you were in and allow this "man" some responsibility for his actions take time to let your parents heal. Its fear you have instilled in them. They do not want anyone taking advantage of their child. Thank your parents individually for loving and caring for you in the manner that they do enough to care to report this man. What if it was someone younger than you? What if it turned into something much more drastic? What if it wasnt the first time? What if he has molested someone else? Those are major questions that you should ask yourself. He clearly took advantage of someone much younger and more vulnerable...He isnt a good man at all. When you have children you will understand. PLEASE thank your parents for their love, dedication and determination to keep you from that man.
Good luck
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i am recently thinking about buying a laptop but i cant decide because im a first time buyer though i know quite a bit about laptops but still i would like some help. so any suggestions. i really dont want a mac. and im really looking for a lot of harddrive and all that because i download ALOT of music and i edit pictures and i would put a lot of pictures on the computer. plus sometimes i play games. so yeah. any suggestions? (link)
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After reading over several laptops I found that this would be the best Value - HP Pavilion dv5-1250us 15.4-inch
Good luck
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