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First time?
I'm having sex for the first time, ever. All my friends have and they say it hurts A LOT, and sometimes you bleed. ( depending on who you are ) Well, usually do guys just stop once they notice the blood? Or keep going or what? ALSO, what position would be best for me for the first time. I want as less pain as possible! Help?! Thanks!!
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I guess it depends on the kind of guy...if he is a virgin he might get scared but more than likely he won't notice till after...if your worried discuss it with him.
Mine didn't hurt either because my hymen broke from fingering...yes slow is best...missionary is the best for first time...and just relax
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Everyone's different. Mine didn't hurt one bit - probably because I was relaxed and totally ready.
Do something simple at first - like missionary (man on top).. go slow and don't be afraid to talk each other through it, or tell him if it feels uncomfortable etc. Maybe even get some lube to make it easier (and of course condoms)
Put a towel down first if you're afraid of bleeding.
Just remember to communicate - and don't expect it to feel amazing in the early stages. Practice makes perfect :)!
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gurl dont listen to that other person tellin you not to do what you want to do if you want to do it go head!!!! yeah it hurt && it depends on how well you can take pain,, me it didnt hurt as bad as people say it do. && u MIGHT bleed it depends because if you were younger && you were do splits and stuff like that you might of bleed like that. and the boy they keep going sometimes. but its a big step but you gotta grow up one day. thats what my big sister told me!!!
hopefully i help.....(l.alexandria a.k.a lexus]:)
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Honestly there are no positions that would make it less painful. Why would you even want to chance having sex. It sounds like you aren't mature enough to be having intercourse.
A person that is ready, willing and able would go to her doctor and ask all the proper questions. Get protection such as birth control and then make a sound mind decision and not just do it because its the lastest thing to do.
Yes "First time" its painful, yes you bleed and no it doesnt depend on who you are, you are tearing tissue so it will bleed. No, guys do not stop when you bleed. They wont even be worried about all that at all.
Please reconsider this choice until possibly you are more mature. I can tell just by the questions you have asked that you are not ready for this or for any thing that comes along with the emotions or consequences of this decision. Especially your reputation
Good luck
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