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can't reach orgasm...
when my boyfriend fingers me he gets me soo close but it never happens..its not even like he stops what he's doing i just don't climax. and he knows what he's doing like with the clit and all whyy can't i?
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nervousness ? nawww
try something plastic or rubber, something that vibs
get the hint?
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Its a matter of many things for a woman to climax. One you have to be comfortable and relaxed. If you are kissing and all over the place it takes much longer for you to come to a full climax. Take your time and allow him to touch you softly and at the same spot. If he touches you and then veers off to another area you will lose the sensation. If he becomes to harsh or rough when he penetrates you, you will also lose the sensation. Its a matter of you being relaxed, soft penetration in the same area and make sure he knows where you feel the strongest sensation. Trust me he will learn the technique after the first time it happens.
Good luck
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Sex has alot to do with your brain, too. If you don't let yourself get into the mood completely, or your mind is always somewhere else, you ain't reachin' the big O!
If you're thinking "Will I reach it will I reach it??" you may be putting a damper on your sex drive without realizing it.
So, my advice is to relax and get lost in the moment =]
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