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My birthday is in 21 days & I'll be turning 17 =). I was thinking about throwing a party but I don't know how to go about doing it =/ any theme ideas ? Or party ideas? Things to do at my party ?...I'm really clueless & I was thinking about having it at my house..since money is really low right now & I wouldn't be able to rent out a hall..I'm also on a budget..the most I could save up right now is 200.. any ideas please? (link)
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well you could have it at a restruant so everyone pays for their own meals. and either have it there or take the party back to your place! or if you have some really good friends maybe he/she will let you have it at there place!
As for themes you could go 80's, hawaii, Fluro, Halloween type thing, eygypttian and if ur a twilight fan..Vampires!
Oh i thourght of another one! you could go out to a river/beach and camp or have your party there!!
Hope I helped,
abbie xx
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i got a lg vu and i went out and bought a micro sd card and adopoter. can any one explain to me how to take music from my PC and save it to the card for my phone? when ever i put the small card into the adopoter and into the SD READER it says that all my music is there already but when i put the small card into my phone nothing comes up.
i can really use some help. big time. i would hate to return it or waste money. please please please help me (link)
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well you need to connect you mobile phone to the computer (With the card in your phone.)
Go to "My Computer" And look for something that says "Removable disk. (Make sure you have nothing else connected to your USB ports).
Click and drag music into the removable disk. if that doesn't work you will need to double click on "REmovable disk" and find the right file to save it.
Hope this helps!
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i really like him and i think he might like me. he knows that i like him but dont you think he would tell me? (link)
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Put yourself in his situation. would you go and tell someone you like them... chances are you would say no.
just casually bring it up.
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14-f
am i a slut??????????
1. i get wasted
2. im no where near being a virgin
3. i have let people take advantage of me
4. i am either going to be a playboy bunny or a stripper somewhere....
do these make me a slut??????????? bacause everyone thinks i amm...and i kind of dont want them to (link)
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Well you are obviously not going to do much in your life and the things you are doing are absoulutly discusting but a slut is a horrible name and is so offencive.
Tell themhat you can't help who you are and that you shouldn't call me that. hope you change your ways soon.
abbie xxx
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so there is this boy in the year above me in school an i really really like him he knows i like him an we sometimes speek on msn but usually if one of my friends has been added into the convo but i wont to talk to him on msn myself so i was wodering what are some good things to say to him that will make him like me an make a interesting convo. thanks (link)
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Be mysterious, and say things that will require himm to write back so don't say stuff like:
"Hey whats up?" say "what do you have planned for this weekend"
Instead of: "School was so bad today" say What did you think of what Mr Made-up said in science today?
-abbie xx
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Sorry for the extreme length, haha :(
I have these really cool parents...they don't really yell a lot and I can joke around with them all the time and they give me lots of space
But lately a lot of bad things have been happening. The dryer doesn't work, our dog got hit for the second time and is now paralyzed from the hips down, our shower is not draining properly, and we don't have any money to top it all off. And also, on my part, over the weekend I had a 103 fever and I'm still sick, a lot of my friends have been mad at me for no reason, and the guy I've liked for a really long time just got a girlfriend.
I know all of this is really stressful, and especially to my parents. But lately they've been taking all they're frustration out on me and it's really beginning to get to me. I've just been acting like my normal self around them, but they take every little mistake I make as a HUGE problem, and they scream at me for it. Like if I tell my little sister to please clean something up while I'm out somewhere, and she says she'll do it, but when I get back she's sitting there watching TV and she never did anything, and I yell at her (but I don't scream or anything, nothing like that). So my mom will FLIP OUT at me and start saying the way I treat her is disgusting and threatens to call off all the plans I have and everything. And that's only one example. Like if I don't put my dish in the dishwasher, screaming. If I don't do my homework, screaming. If I'm on the computer too long, screaming. Etc etc etc.
And the other night was my very first homecoming dance (I'm a freshman) and I had my two best friends over getting ready with me. My mom asked what time the dance was, and I said "It's at 7" and my mom gives me this glare and says "You SAID it was at 8" and I said "Well I made a mistake...it's really at 7" and she said "so I assume it ends at 9:30?" and I said "No, 10:30". And then she just went off at me about how was I supposed to know that? and all that. And as she walked off she was just like "You're welcome" to me.
And if that wasn't bad enough, awhile later my little sister came upstairs and said it was dinner time, and I said I wasn't hungry. So she left, and then ten minutes later she came back upstairs in tears and said "Mom is really upset! She made everything look all nice for you and now she's disappointed" and I said "Why should I make her feel better? She's been screaming at me all week!"
So THEN, my dad screamed from downstairs for me to come down, so I came down (My poor friends were sitting in my room just staring at me) and he brought me into the dining room and just SCREAMED at me. He was like "You had BETTER knock off your FUCKING attitude (my parents never swear at me) or there's going to be a lot of trouble! Mom prepared a whole dinner and made it all nice because she wanted it to be a SPECIAL NIGHT for YOU! She was going to go pick you up at 10:30 and everything and she just wants to make you happy but you're a little brat and you just need things your way!" And I ran back upstairs in tears and locked myself in the bathroom. My parents made me CRY homecoming night in front of my best friends. I was so devastated. And the worst part, my friends got really mad at me that night and they didn't want me to help them get ready. I still feel guilty about that whole stupid dinner thing, too.
I'm just so upset and almost depressed about everything because this is basically one of the worst weeks of my life, everything is going wrong. I just don't want to be around anyone, ESPECIALLY my family (but if I try to get away from them for too long, I get yelled at). I just go in my room and lock my door because I don't want to be talked to or yelled at. It's the worst thing ever.
So I don't know what to do about my parents. Making peace with them would lift a huge weight off my shoulders. But I'm afraid to talk things out with them because I know I'll be yelled at and I'll end up crying. I'm pretty sensitive and I cry easily. I really miss my old parents. I feel like I don't even know them. And I'm really the only one being yelled at. My two little sisters aren't being yelled at at all.
So any advice? Should I just sit it out or talk to them about it? I really don't know
Any help will be appreciated, especially because of the length. Sorry again, and thanks (link)
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Sorry about whats happening for you.
I think you need to calmly sit down and ask them what is going on. They might have their reasons for acting the way they do/did.
Maybe even talking with your sisters might help.
But the main thing is not to feel guilty. if haven't done anything wrong you shouldn't beat yourself down about it.
Tell your friends what is going on and if the're real frineds they'll understand.
If you still feel upset check this out im from australia so it might not work but im sure it wil :http://www.kidshelpline.com.au/teens/get-help/web-counselling/connect.php
-They are open at certain times so yeah.
-another idea is to talk to a family counseller. they are really nice and i've been to oine and they really clear so many things up.
hope i helped! lots of hugs, abbie xx
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Okay so a bunch of people
online have cool names like
CaitlynCatastrophe
or
ShadyShawna
And I wanted a name that would
go with Jordan.
Like Jordan''
and some J word for the ''.
thanks so much!
buyy (link)
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JustJordan, JordantheJoker idk look in a thusaurus
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so basiclyy i am not obses but not skinny and it really makes me bad and uncomfortable. i have gained alot of wieght recently and it really dont like it. but i hate dieting...like i reaqlyl cant. any suggestino of other quick ways to lose some wieght?
please helpp! (link)
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i was in your situation once.
all i did was eat what i usually ate but in smaller serves and excersised for 1 hour 3 times a day. even if its running jogging skipping tredmil walking gym- anything as long as you are moving and your heart iis getting a workout.
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ok...i am 15 and a freshmen in high school ive only had one real girlfriend...and i dont know how to really get another one lol i know a few girls that like me but i dont know how to find out fore sure so
my question is HOW DO I FIND OUT IF A GIRL LIKES ME? (link)
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Well if you like someone at school, talk to them and look for body language.
like if she does things as an excuse to touch you.
does she talk to you differently to other guys?
And the other option is to casually just aask.
if there is a dance coming up ask if she would like to go with you.
i really hope things work out for you
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okay so im 16/f and just within the past year or so, i have had about a handfull of adult relatives and family friends die. one of which was my grandma whom i was very close with. now that i have gotten over the initial greeving, i am now dealing with a bit of paranoia. everytime i go to do something, i guess i shouldnt be doing (smoking weed, drinking, having sex) i feel like my dead relatives are like watching over me or are in the room. i know it sounds crazy but i cant get it outta my head. and it honestly freaks me out, and worrys me. if anyone out there has dealt with this same sort of thing, can you just let me know about it and if you found a way to get over this. any help would be awsome. thanks in advance!
by the way, i dont smoke weed that often, for that to be the root of my paranoia. and usually my worrying about them watching is bad leading up to doing it, not so much after.
and also i dont want to hear about how you think drinking, having sex, or smoking weed is bad. i dont care. (link)
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I have a similar problem, that by the way i got over.
I know the feeling of worry and the presence that you feel in whatever room you are in.
What i do (which you can do as well) is talk to them. if you aren't religious dont think f it as praying because its not. all you would be doing is talking to them and say things like "I know what im doing you don't need to worry im growing up now and i dont need to be watched over."
If you still feel paranoid then you might want to see a doctor. he/she might give you some medication to help with these feelings.
abbie xxx
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Ok so my tzones is currently not working and hasnt been for awhile. I called them and they said that tzones is down and not working. I really want a new ringtone but i cant find one anywhere. I need to know if there are good heavy metal hifi ringtones on tmobile.com I cant think of anything that actully comes up and all i really want is a good heavy metal ringtone. Any suggestions on what they have or what to look up? (link)
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If you buy a Memory card for your phone you can just load songs straight from your computer onto the phone.
im from australia so i dont know anything about Tmobile.com sorry!!
xx abbie xx
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I'm very frustrated right now. This guy and I have this thing between us. I can't really define it because it because no sense to me. So we have these moments that are so sweet. He can tell me what he's thinking and what's going on in his head. But when I have a bad day and he asks me I just shut him out. Were not together but i guess we are close. I like him, idk maybe love him. Ok i love the kid so mcuh. But than their our days like this when we fight all the time. He teases me so much and so different than any other girl. To other girls he just sweet and charming. To me his two different ppl. I'm so confused and I've decided to tell him how I feel. So i just need to know a clue or hint or whatever. I just want to know what he thinks about me and why acts so bipolar with me. (link)
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CRAP! that is the exact same thing that is happening to me!!
you really need to confront this guy and directly tell him how you are feeling. if he is a genuine friend he will understand and do what it takes to make things right.
if he doesnt, i would consider him, and his friendship history.
abbie xxx
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I want to write a nice song, but everytime I go to write it seems like I just blank out. I want to write a song about how I feel when I'm with my bf, how in love I am with him. But when I put words on paper and read 'em out loud...I fell like it's stupid. :/ Or lame...How can I get started? I'd like to write amazing lyrics like Owl City does, or Lights. Y'know people that have such beautiful music. Anyone able to give advice whom's had experience with song writing and such greatly appreciated! I'm 16 and a girl Oh yeah I play accoustic guitar, and am learning keyboard :P (link)
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what i would do is write out some sentences of how i feel when im with him.
like: : "his arm wrapped around me tight" "He made me feel like i can do anhything"
After that just put them together and altar them so they fit.
if that doesn't help you try searching the net for some ideas to help get you started.
Here are some more ideas for you song:
-I can't live without you
-when your not here my life is not the same.
-together forever
-when you look at me and tell me you love me
-abbie xxx
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Hi,
I am a 17f. I am graduating this year (Yay!) and for grad, I am hoping to make my own dress. I have made dresses/clothing before and so I really want to make my grad dress. I want one that is red, sort of tight fitting at the top with poofy layers of fabric on the bottom. I love details, eyelets, laces, strings, accessories! If you know of a dress pattern or just a dress in general (It doesn't have to be red) that is fun, flirty, flowy, and cute... please share :D Thanks!
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http://www.coutureinthecity.com/wp-content/uploads/2007/11/luxe-red-dress.jpg
This one is cute!
http://www.falive.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/Flirt-Prom-Dress-9.jpg
This one is really good!
http://mysterycreature.files.wordpress.com/2009/04/pretty-dress.jpg
http://www.beauty-and-the-bath.com/image-files/stunning-red-grad-dress.jpg
http://www.bellaboutique.com/store/images/T/Mignon_79138B-002294_tn.jpg
All these are great but you dont have to make it to the exact way they look. like if you want a low neck you can make one. or change the colour.
Good luck and crongrats for graduating!
abbie x
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ok so my 19th birthday is in two weeks. i'm going with a group of people to a club in Atlanta to dance. my best friend and i are planning on looking good! haha and wearing little crowns and sashes. the thing is we have no idea what to put on the sashes. i want it to say something cute, fun, & flirty. i thought about kiss me it's my birthday, but at a club, i may get too many creepers offering haha. but something fun like that. any ideas? ours can say different things, and it's only me and her wearing them. thanks! (link)
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what about something like "I took me 19 years to look this good."
- im the boss tonight!
- the best cure for insominia is to get lots of sleep ;)
-behind every great woman is a guy looking at her ass
-my birthday my rules
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I have really blue eyes, I'm not sure if that matters but they're really sensitive to light. Even on overcast days I'm squinting and in regular indoor light my pupils get soo huge that there's only a little bit of the blue iris left showing.
Is this normal? (link)
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heyy i really have no idea what its like so i can't give you exact information. but isuggest you see a doctor or an opotomitrist. you may need special drops to put in your eyes or maybe some glasses.
Are they painful at all? it could be something more.
I strongly suggest seeing and optomitrist (Eye doctor)
hope i helped!!
abbie xx
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Hi Advicenators.
I'm 15 years old. I've been with my current boyfriend for 7 months now. We have a slight on and off relationship, but it's been good for a few months now. We are both virgins.
We are in love. There is no doubt about that.
We are 100% open with each other sexually, we have done everything but penetration sex. if something embarrassing happens, it's totally okay, we continue and laugh it off.
Recently, we both really started wanting sex. But I'm TERRIFIED of a condom breaking, and me getting pregnant. Please help me. I'm just so scared. But I really am ready for sex. I can't get on birth control by the way. Any advice (link)
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dont listen to what the other chick/guy said.
you need to do sime researh wether it be internet or friends and discus it with you boyfriend. babies are not chep but you have the otion to abort the pregancey and not have the baby anyway
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I am being picked on at school about some stupid things and it's getting on my nerves. This one dude keeps picking on me badly, calling me names and lying about things I've "done" in the past. It's really annoying and I'm getting fed up with it already. How do I deal with a bully? He genuinely seems to hate me and I didn't do ANYTHING to this guy! I have tried being nice, I have tried completely ignoring the situation, and now I feel like I'm at the end of the rope. Should I tell my teacher or principal? Should I get my parents involved? It's really going to extremes in some of the things he's said about me...and the whole school is believing him! HELP! (link)
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I am in the exact situation.
Buuttt!!
all i did was ignore them, and if they did annoy me i would yell at them (shut up, get lost, etc).
when it got really bad i went and told my parents.
they helped me through it and met up with my principal. you can talk to your principal and remain annonamus.
abbie xx
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Would it be wierd for a fourteen year old girl to date a sixteen year old boy. Its only a grade apart, (so like freshman/sophomore)but its still like a two year diference, what do you guys think? (link)
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i think its fine as long as you both love and respect each other.
one of my frineds parents are 20 years apart so 2 is nothing new to me!
abbie xx
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okay so there is this guy who is a year older than me who i've never talked to on my facebook. he commented on two of my posts and then one day i saw him at aa bus stop i didnt say hi or anything because i wasnt sure he would know who i was. then the next day on facebook i'm like "hey i saw you at the bus stop. i was the girl in the green shirt" and he was like " that was you i was totally checking you out." then i replied and after that he's like do you want to hang out. i got alittle uncomfortable because i dont know anything about this guy so i told him i had to work. now his facebook status is like "i'm falling for someone i hope" i kind of feel like ugh i kind have hung out with him but i missed my chance. but i guess my question is did i do the right thing? (link)
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I think you did do the right thing.
I mean you bearley know this guy and you want to "Hangout?".
thats just wrong.
get to know him and then take it from there.
abbie x
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