I am being picked on at school about some stupid things and it's getting on my nerves. This one dude keeps picking on me badly, calling me names and lying about things I've "done" in the past. It's really annoying and I'm getting fed up with it already. How do I deal with a bully? He genuinely seems to hate me and I didn't do ANYTHING to this guy! I have tried being nice, I have tried completely ignoring the situation, and now I feel like I'm at the end of the rope. Should I tell my teacher or principal? Should I get my parents involved? It's really going to extremes in some of the things he's said about me...and the whole school is believing him! HELP!
orphans answered Friday September 4 2009, 11:43 pm: dude, i've been there. seriously. i know what you feel like. i used to get picked on all the time by guys who were bigger than me. but guess what. i transferred away and while i was away, i started training. weightlifting and stuff. and than i came back to that school a year later. and all those assholes who were bigger than me looked like ants now. See? now nobody wants to mess with me.
but in your case, that guy doesnt hate you. trust me. its never anything personal with bullies. they just take advantage of their size. so ignore it, he will get bored eventually. trust me. and if people believe the things he says, who cares, that just tells you how fake they are.
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