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did i do the right thing?
okay so there is this guy who is a year older than me who i've never talked to on my facebook. he commented on two of my posts and then one day i saw him at aa bus stop i didnt say hi or anything because i wasnt sure he would know who i was. then the next day on facebook i'm like "hey i saw you at the bus stop. i was the girl in the green shirt" and he was like " that was you i was totally checking you out." then i replied and after that he's like do you want to hang out. i got alittle uncomfortable because i dont know anything about this guy so i told him i had to work. now his facebook status is like "i'm falling for someone i hope" i kind of feel like ugh i kind have hung out with him but i missed my chance. but i guess my question is did i do the right thing?
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I'd do the same thing you did. Its cool to meet new people or whatever.. but this guy could be anybody. Kidnapper, rapist, molester.. you name it! (you're probably thinking I'm going over board) But in a world where anything can happen.. why not take precautions? You made the right decision in my opinion.
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If it made you uncomfortable, then by all means, you were right to decline.
However, you can hang out with someone & get to know them at the same time. I have a friend from this site that I just met in person on Monday & we knew little about each other. Friendships can bud but you have to be willing.
Just talk to him on Facebook & grow the friendship.
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If you felt uncomfortable at the time, it was right for you to decline the invitation to hang out.
You do have him as a friend on Facebook, right? Talk to him if that's what you want now.
As a side note, why do you have someone you don't know as a friend on Facebook in the first place anyway?
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I think you did do the right thing.
I mean you bearley know this guy and you want to "Hangout?".
thats just wrong.
get to know him and then take it from there.
abbie x
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